{"id":233985,"date":"2026-01-15T04:23:11","date_gmt":"2026-01-15T04:23:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/233985\/"},"modified":"2026-01-15T04:23:11","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T04:23:11","slug":"jay-leno-stunned-by-question-about-dating-while-his-wife-battles-dementia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/233985\/","title":{"rendered":"Jay Leno stunned by question about dating while his wife battles dementia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jay Leno was shocked to be asked if he was thinking he might &#8220;get a girlfriend&#8221; as Mavis Leno, his wife of 45 years, battles dementia.&#8221;You take a vow when you get married, and people are stunned, they&#8217;re shocked when you live up to it,&#8221; the talk show legend said.Mavis Leno&#8217;s advanced dementia diagnosis was revealed in 2024, when her husband was granted conservatorship over her estate amid her declining health.<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_2-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/person\/jay-leno\/\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Jay Leno<\/a> made a vow, and he&#8217;s sticking by it.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_4-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> The iconic late-night veteran has remained steadfast by the side of his wife, Mavis Leno, since her <a href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/jay-leno-conservatorship-wife-mavis-estate-8550991\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">advanced dementia diagnosis<\/a> was disclosed in 2024. Supporting his partner of 45 years is a no-brainer to Leno, but he&#8217;s learned it wouldn&#8217;t be to everyone in the same situation.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_6-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;You take a vow when you get married, and people are stunned, they&#8217;re shocked when you live up to it,&#8221; Leno told Maria Shriver on the latest episode of her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Px83lo702BY\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"externalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Life Above the Noise<\/a> podcast.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_8-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;My favorite thing \u2014 this is the most Hollywood thing \u2014 a guy said to me, &#8216;So are you going to get a girlfriend now?'&#8221; Leno said he replied, &#8220;&#8216;Well, no. I have a girlfriend. I&#8217;m married.&#8217; We&#8217;ve been married 45 years, you know what I mean? [We&#8217;re] kind of in this together. You can&#8217;t go, &#8216;Honey, I&#8217;ll be with my girlfriend, I&#8217;ll be back later.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_12-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Leno told Shriver that he&#8217;s &#8220;just doing the right thing because you&#8217;re supposed to. That kind of used to be the norm, and then when you strayed, that was the out-of-whack part. Now the out-of-whack part is fairly common, and staying and doing what you&#8217;re supposed to do is stunning to people. &#8216;Why do you do that?&#8217; &#8216;Well, we kind of made a deal.'&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_14-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Get your daily dose of entertainment news, celebrity updates, and what to watch with our\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/ew-dispatch-newsletter-11812417\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">EW Dispatch newsletter<\/a>.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_18-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Leno was in the right place to talk about stepping up to care for a loved one after they&#8217;ve been transformed by a medical condition.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_20-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Shriver, the niece of late President John F. Kennedy and cousin of current Department of Health and Human Services secretary, became an advocate for those living with Alzheimer&#8217;s disease after her father, Sargent Shriver, was diagnosed in 2003. She executive produced the docuseries The Alzheimer&#8217;s Project in 2009, which won two Emmy Awards.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_22-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> She pointed out that there are &#8220;millions&#8221; of people in this country &#8220;doing caregiving, who are kind of unseen, invisible.&#8221; Leno agreed, but shrugged off the &#8220;toll&#8221; many assume it takes on him.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_24-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> &#8220;I haven&#8217;t really been tested in my life. I wasn&#8217;t in the army. I didn&#8217;t have to shoot anybody. So this is that thing,&#8221; he reflected. &#8220;I&#8217;m glad I&#8217;m passing the test, because you never quite know what you&#8217;re going to do in that situation, or any situation. So I like to think I made the right decision.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p> Jay Leno and Mavis Leno in Los Angeles in 1987.<\/p>\n<p>Jim Smeal\/Ron Galella Collection via Getty<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_27-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Leno <a href=\"https:\/\/ew.com\/jay-leno-opens-up-about-toughest-part-of-wife-mavis-advanced-dementia-11853987\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">opened up about his wife&#8217;s dementia diagnosis<\/a> in November, a year after he was granted conservatorship over Mavis&#8217; estate amid her declining health. He shared that his wife is already beginning to exhibit signs of the condition, as when she&#8217;ll &#8220;point to something and say something that doesn&#8217;t quite make sense.&#8221;\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_29-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> But he remained positive about his current outlook, sharing, &#8220;She&#8217;s not forgetting me. That hasn&#8217;t happened yet. She seems extremely comfortable now. And she seems happy, and she seems contented. It&#8217;s actually okay. It&#8217;s good. I enjoy taking care of her.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Jay Leno was shocked to be asked if he was thinking he might &#8220;get a girlfriend&#8221; as Mavis&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":233986,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[156,111,139,69,437],"class_list":{"0":"post-233985","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-tv","8":"tag-entertainment","9":"tag-new-zealand","10":"tag-newzealand","11":"tag-nz","12":"tag-tv"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/233985","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=233985"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/233985\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/233986"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=233985"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=233985"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=233985"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}