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January 19, 2026 \u2014 7:00pm<\/p>\n

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Singapore: In China\u2019s sprawling megacities, where millions of people live solitary lives in towering apartment complexes, will anyone notice if they disappear for a few days? What if they get sick or have an accident \u2013 who will know and call for help?<\/p>\n

These are the questions many young Chinese people are asking themselves as isolation-driven anxieties have fuelled the rise of a once little-known app called Are You Dead? to the top of the country\u2019s download charts last week.<\/p>\n

The app, which was called Sileme in Chinese and pitched as a \u201ca lightweight safety tool for solo dwellers\u201d, requires users to check in each day by tapping a button. If they fail to do so for two consecutive days it alerts a nominated emergency contact.<\/p>\n

\"TheThe app Are You Dead?, pictured on a smartphone in Beijing, surged in popularity among young people in China in recent weeks before developers announced a rebrand to a less controversial name. AP<\/p>\n

First launched in June as a free app, its soaring popularity prompted the crack team of developers to introduce an eight yuan ($1.72) fee and to announce a rebranding to a less confronting name \u2013 Demumu \u2013 for its new global version to be released soon.<\/p>\n

In announcing the new Demumu name \u2013 a combination of death and Labubu<\/a>, the plush Chinese toys that have taken the world by storm \u2013 the developers urged more awareness of social isolation.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe would like to call on more people to pay attention to those living alone and to give them more care and understanding. They have dreams and strive to live well; they deserve to be seen, respected, and protected,\u201d the statement said.<\/p>\n

For many, the app\u2019s sardonic branding is a core part of its appeal, tapping into a dark humour among China\u2019s Millennial and Z generations and spurring widespread discussions about social isolation and death in a country where more than 125 million people live alone.<\/p>\n

\u201cI sometimes fear, what if I\u2019m not noticed by others when I fall down because I faint or from sickness? Or in an extreme case I die, but it goes unnoticed? So this app actually alleviates such fear from loneliness to some degree,\u201d Yu Maohuan, 29, a geologist in Beijing, says in an interview.<\/p>\n

\"YuYu Maohuan, a 28-year-old geologist who lives in Beijing, in front of the Lonely Church at Laolihai Lake in Ulanqab City, in China\u2019s Inner Mongolia region. Sanghee Liu<\/p>\n

Yu currently lives in dormitory-style accommodation and says she doesn\u2019t feel the need to download the app just yet, but can see its appeal in the future.<\/p>\n

\"AA man cuts a solitary figure at the Canal Business District in east Beijing\u2019s Tongzhou district.Sanghee Liu<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen my parents become old and my friends get married, but my choice is not to get married and I don\u2019t have a stable partner, I may feel such panic and anxiety at that time,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n

With China\u2019s domestic economy in the doldrums, many young people have flocked to big cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen to chase better paying jobs, only to struggle to get ahead, leaving them more likely to shun the idea of having children, experts say.<\/p>\n

At the same time, the number of China\u2019s single-person households is growing, with Chinese firm Beike Research Institute, estimating the number of young people aged 20-39 living alone is expected to increase from 18 million in 2010 to 40-70 million in 2030.<\/p>\n

Another factor is China\u2019s one-child policy. Though officially abandoned in 2016, its legacy for some Chinese people has been a transition from only child to lonely adult.<\/p>\n

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\u201cPeople are reluctant to socialise, reluctant to marry and have children,\u201d said Dr Fuxian Yi, a demographer at University of Wisconsin-Madison and critic of the one-child policy.<\/p>\n

It comes as the country faces a demographic crunch of an ageing population combined with declining marriages and births. In figures released on Monday by the National Bureau of Statistics, China\u2019s population shrank for the fourth consecutive year in 2025, declining by 3.39 million to hit 1.405 billion, while its birthrate fell to its lowest level since the founding of the People\u2019s Republic in 1949.<\/p>\n

On Douban, a Chinese social media site similar to Reddit, discussions about loneliness and death has flourished as Are You Dead? has gone viral.<\/p>\n

\u201cI often even worry that in my current situation, where I have no partner and my relationship with friends is not very close, if my parents get old, once they get sick, there may not even be anyone to accompany me to the hospital,\u201d wrote one user, who identified herself as a 32-year-old woman and an only child living in Beijing.<\/p>\n

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Another user wrote: \u201cSome people also say that \u2018Are You Dead?\u2019 sounds inappropriate and should be changed to \u2018Are You Alive?\u2019 It just goes to show that avoiding mentioning death is still a major theme in our society.\u201d<\/p>\n

The surging popularity of the app has taken even the developers surprise.<\/p>\n

In a statement released on January 11 on social networking site Weibo, they described themselves as a \u201csmall, unknown team, founded and independently operated by three people born in the \u201990s\u201d.<\/p>\n

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\"LisaLisa Visentin<\/a> is the North Asia correspondent for The Sydney Morning Herald and The Age. She was previously a federal political reporter based in Canberra.Connect via Twitter<\/a> or email<\/a>.From our partners