{"id":328832,"date":"2026-03-14T04:54:10","date_gmt":"2026-03-14T04:54:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/328832\/"},"modified":"2026-03-14T04:54:10","modified_gmt":"2026-03-14T04:54:10","slug":"secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-recap-season-4-episode-9","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/328832\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Secret Lives of Mormon Wives\u2019 Recap: Season 4, Episode 9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>                  <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/0e44681db29f65418d40d7d9f6b3520b1f-The-Secret-Lives-of-Mormon-Wives-ep-9.rsquare.w400.jpg\" class=\"lede-image\" data-content-img=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" style=\"width:100%;height:auto;\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/> <\/p>\n<p>\n                  The undercurrent of hostility between Whitney and Jen in the Dancing With the Stars studio boils over.<br \/>\n                  Photo: Disney\n              <\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpi8u3o000i0ig58t27uhn5@published\" data-word-count=\"69\">All of MomTok\u2019s careful strategizing about how and when and if to tell Taylor about Dakota was for naught, because Dakota just went ahead and told Taylor himself that he slept with Shinia. Not coincidentally, surely, his confession included the fact that all of MomTok knew about the relationship but didn\u2019t tell her, leading to Taylor\u2019s furious, phone-based rampage. Once Taylor sees red, there\u2019s no stopping her, observes Miranda.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjev5o00133b7cuo0974i8@published\" data-word-count=\"104\">Right now, Taylor is pacing furiously up and down her house, calling everyone in MomTok and demanding to know why they didn\u2019t tell her about Dakota and Shinia sooner, which she views as a grave betrayal. \u201cI cannot believe that MomTok would protect Shinia, a snake, over me,\u201d she says in a confessional, which is a gross misunderstanding of everyone\u2019s intentions. According to rumor, Shinia was planning to tell Taylor about Dakota at Mayci\u2019s Sunday Sinners event tonight, but Taylor is no longer going to that. At least she knows herself well enough to know that she is not in her best decision-making state.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjev8n00143b7cco7uxvso@published\" data-word-count=\"114\">On the phone, Miranda admits she\u2019s known for a week, but agrees that what Shinia did was disgusting. Jessi and Mayci are getting glam when Taylor calls. Jessi attempts a deflection and rushes to tell her the latest update: Dakota also nearly had sex with Jenna this week. Mayci adds that Taylor\u2019s feelings are valid. Taylor doesn\u2019t want to hear any of it. She wants war against those (add your expletive of choice here) bitches, and anyone who remains friends with them. When she\u2019s not texting or calling her MomTok friends, Taylor is posting through it, at least once calling out Shinia specifically. This, MomTok agrees, is not a good look for the Bachelorette.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjevbd00153b7cblakeje4@published\" data-word-count=\"126\">Shinia does attend the Sunday Sinners party, conveniently arriving just as Mikayla picks up a call from Taylor. (Wisely, Mikayla says she has to call her back.) The women want to know what, exactly, Shinia was thinking when she decided to sleep with Dakota. Does she not realize he has already been lying to her about sleeping with other people? Does she seriously think she has a future with this guy? \u201cWell, with him as a person? Yes,\u201d she responds to the latter, leaving the table baffled. Hold on, they have to go call Taylor back to be yelled at some more. But if Taylor forces Miranda to choose between her and Shinia, well, Shinia has been a better friend to Miranda than Taylor ever was.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjevhf00163b7cz0a0bqvj@published\" data-word-count=\"88\">I\u2019m impressed with the level of patience the women can have for Taylor throughout this freakout, perhaps because they can see manipulation behind it. Miranda has said from the beginning that Dakota planned this. Mayci thinks it could be an isolation tactic \u2014 Dakota sleeps with Taylor\u2019s friends, she loses those friends, then needs him more than she did before. Taylor herself thinks Dakota calculated all of this to induce a breakdown and stop her from going on The Bachelorette. Dakota himself doesn\u2019t say what he was thinking.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjevmq00173b7c880gf68c@published\" data-word-count=\"162\">There is also a MomTok outside of Taylor, believe it or not. Things have come to a breaking point in Mikayla\u2019s marriage, as she and Jace find themselves at an impasse with their intimacy issues. Sometimes, Mikayla tells Mayci, she wants to tell him to just go have sex with somebody already if he needs it that badly. Jace, confiding in Conner over FaceTime, says that more than sex, he just wants to feel loved by his wife again. Both feeling stuck, they decide to separate temporarily. Mikayla needs time away from Jace to focus on her own healing. Jace thinks they shouldn\u2019t get back together until Mikayla is ready to commit to their relationship. It\u2019s sad, says Mikayla, because other than intimacy, she feels like they have such a strong marriage. But sex is his No. 1 need, and it\u2019s her No. 1 wound. They embrace as Mikayla gets in the car with Mayci, who has come to pick her up.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjevph00183b7cdrykmio8@published\" data-word-count=\"109\">Mikayla says she doesn\u2019t want to dwell on the sadness, so the day of the main title shoot will be a welcome distraction. It is the first time all of MomTok will be together in months, at least, and even without Demi, tensions are high. No one is sure how Taylor, who has a later call time than everyone else, will behave when she finally arrives. Blessedly, Taylor has reached the point in her cycle when she has cooled down and realized she behaved badly. She issues a blanket apology, which everyone gladly accepts. Miranda, however, will be proceeding with caution when it comes to her friendship with Taylor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjevvk00193b7co8ciktaj@published\" data-word-count=\"108\">Then, there is the undercurrent of hostility between Whitney and Jen. Whitney has been complaining to Conner that Jen has been weirdly unfriendly at the Dancing With the Stars studio. Jen has been complaining to Zac that Whitney only pretends to be her friend on camera. At the title shoot, Whitney pulls Jen aside to tell her about getting Chicago, but Jen reveals that Zac told her this a week ago. This is odd, Whitney thinks, and the more she considers it, it is hurtful. She and Jen see each other every day, so why would Jen not take a moment to say anything to Whitney about it?<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjevyp001a3b7cp90u57c0@published\" data-word-count=\"37\">Well, Jen says to Whitney coolly, they aren\u2019t actually friends. Whitney\u2019s continued friendship with Demi, the woman who bullied her, is proof. This is news to Whitney, whose first response is a very understandable, \u201cWhat the fuck?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"clay-paragraph\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"www.vulture.com\/_components\/clay-paragraph\/instances\/cmmpjew1n001b3b7ch0qzspki@published\" data-word-count=\"171\">\u201cWhitney only cares about Whitney, and you can\u2019t tell me otherwise,\u201d Jen says in a confessional, but Whitney does try to tell her otherwise. She tries to tell her how she stood up for her back when everyone else was talking shit (true). She says she checked in when Jen was sick (true). And she says Jen doesn\u2019t get to own the dream of winning Dancing With the Stars (also true). Whitney says Jen has all these expectations of everyone else but not herself. But Jen remains utterly unmoved, staring impassively as Whitney, who seems truly blindsided, starts to lose her mind a little bit. \u201cDo you see how you\u2019re screaming?\u201d drawls Jen, to which Whitney responds, \u201cYes!\u201d Jen says they can\u2019t have a healthy conversation if \u2026 and Whitney interrupts, \u201cThis isn\u2019t a healthy conversation!\u201d Eventually, Whitney has to walk away, leaving the rest of MomTok to process the fight that just happened.\u00a0I\u2019m not sure why Jen distrusts Whitney\u2019s friendship so much, but I\u2019d speculate it\u2019s not entirely about Demi.<\/p>\n<p>          Sign Up for the Vulture Newsletter<\/p>\n<p>Entertainment news, for the pop-culture obsessed.<\/p>\n<p>        Vox Media, LLC Terms and Privacy Notice<\/p>\n<p class=\"expanded-terms \" aria-hidden=\"true\">By submitting your email, you agree to our <a href=\"https:\/\/nymag.com\/newyork\/terms\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Terms<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/nymag.com\/newyork\/privacy\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Privacy Notice<\/a> and to receive email correspondence from us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The undercurrent of hostility between Whitney and Jen in the Dancing With the Stars studio boils over. 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