{"id":33393,"date":"2025-09-20T15:11:11","date_gmt":"2025-09-20T15:11:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/33393\/"},"modified":"2025-09-20T15:11:11","modified_gmt":"2025-09-20T15:11:11","slug":"maori-language-week-2025-northland-dads-te-reo-journey-shapes-next-generation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/33393\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u0101ori Language Week 2025: Northland dad\u2019s te reo journey shapes next generation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\"> It took living on the other side of the world to trigger his desire to learn the language originating from his home country.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">He recalls: \u201cI was sitting on a beach with a couple of South African mates. We were talking in English but when they were talking to each other, they would switch to Afrikaans, and I remember thinking how people from different countries living overseas bring their language with them and how cool it was that those two dudes spoke to each other in Afrikaans. I thought, \u2018Why can\u2019t I do that?\u2019 because I felt like we should be able to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">He was already bilingual with French, which he\u2019d taken throughout high school before embarking on a Bachelor of Arts studies at Waikato University.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">This included an introduction to linguistics, where he revisited his French, leading him to journey to France during the third year to enhance his studies.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">However, what was intended to be a brief stint became eight years after the birth of his son San, and Braden continued to live in France with two years in London.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">His father\u2019s terminal illness brought him home, where he finally completed the last two university papers, obtaining a Bachelor of Arts degree with a double major in linguistics and French.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">However, the beach-based epiphany was the catalyst for his te reo journey, and a further two-year Master of Arts degree ensued with a focus on language revitalisation, while also attending Te W\u0101nanga o Aotearoa for four years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThe trouble was, I spent so much time studying, I thought, \u2018Why am I doing it if I can\u2019t pass the knowledge on?\u201d recalls Braden, 43.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Nia and Carson are in full-immersion M\u0101ori classes.\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Nia and Carson are in full-immersion M\u0101ori classes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">He completed an additional year, obtaining a Graduate Diploma in Teaching, and soon got a job as a French teacher at a large Waikato school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">Learning his native country\u2019s language differed hugely from learning French.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI was s*** at learning French at high school and I\u2019m a French teacher.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\"> I tell my students that. I was terrible and, even when I went to university, I was terrible &#8230; I had all the bones of the language, I just hadn\u2019t managed to put them into place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThen when I got to France, within about two months, I got to a level of fluency very quickly because you have all those things up there in your brain, you just haven\u2019t really put them all together.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThen when I came back and was learning M\u0101ori, it was very different. It\u2019s got a very different grammatical structure. You say the verb first, followed by the subject, then the object \u2013 it\u2019s called a VSO structure, whereas English and French are SVO.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cFor example: \u2018I go to the shop\u2019 is \u2018Kei te haere au ki te toa\u2019. \u2018Kei te\u2019 (is the tense marker so tells you I\u2019m talking about now) \u2018haere\u2019 (go) \u2018au\u2019 (I) \u2018ki te toa\u2019 (to the shop). In French, it\u2019s \u2018Je vais au magasin\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\" Braden at Puriri Bay, Northland, where they spend every Christmas camping.\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/> Braden at Puriri Bay, Northland, where they spend every Christmas camping.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">However, apart from korero with several other teachers on staff and with his kids, Braden says, in reality, there are limited opportunities he can speak his te reo day-to-day.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThat\u2019s the fight people have where they are trying to maintain a staunch use of te reo. The biggest challenge for them is they\u2019re trying to do that but everything around them is in English. So, it\u2019s hard because you\u2019re being beaten down by the English world around you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">Which is why he is playing a part in the revitalisation, not only himself, but through the next generation by raising his children to be bilingual. <\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">While San, now 20, still lives in France, with English his second language, Braden and his Australian partner Lisa\u2019s subsequent children, Carson, 10, and Nia, 6, have been immersed in te reo from birth, both attending the bilingual daycare at the M\u0101ori tertiary institution Braden attended.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cIt was going back to my experience and how it was a shame that I didn\u2019t have that language. Why wouldn\u2019t I do that for them when the opportunity was there?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">From there, they were enrolled in a mainstream school but in the rumaki (full immersion) section where they are among few P\u0101keh\u0101 and te reo is the only language used in the classroom.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI get a lot of comments asking how they are going to learn English, but English is their first language,\u201d Braden explains. \u201cCarson reads chapter books in English every day at home and has an advanced reading age in English.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">He adds that research has shown kids in M\u0101ori immersion education reach a certain level of brain development maturity in their mid-teens, enabling them to naturally transfer from one language to another. \u201cI notice now, if I ask them a math equation in English, they will be working it out in M\u0101ori.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">While outside their school environment English dominates, Braden intentionally integrates te reo where possible, supported by Lisa, whom he met flatting in London. Although Lisa grew up in Melbourne, she was raised speaking Hungarian, so coming from a bilingual background she also saw the importance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cShe doesn\u2019t speak it but would probably have a higher understanding of M\u0101ori than most non-M\u0101ori in New Zealand just through exposure,\u201d Braden says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">When Carson was younger and Braden\u2019s studies were around language normalisation, whereby it becomes more evident in society, he played an active role.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI had a really good structure in place where our routine was, if we left the house, I would only speak to him in M\u0101ori. I felt that exposing more people to the language in everyday situations was a proactive way of helping the cause.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\" The kids are well-travelled and culturally adept.\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/> The kids are well-travelled and culturally adept.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">Nowadays, it\u2019s a more relaxed mix of whichever language comes naturally.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI\u2019ll be speaking to the kids in te reo in the supermarket and people will be doing double-takes because obviously we\u2019re a very P\u0101keh\u0101 family. You notice people pause to make sure they heard right,\u201d tells Braden, adding that they then often approach with positive feedback.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">He laughs: \u201cI remember, one time on my way home to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/northland\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/northland\/\">Northland<\/a>, we\u2019d pulled into the Autobahn to get food and the kids wanted to go play in the playground.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI was yelling at them in M\u0101ori and this fulla came up and started yarning with me in M\u0101ori.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">He explains that there are varying degrees of fluency. \u201cFor example, one of my students might ask me a word and I\u2019ve genuinely never heard of it and they say, \u2018Oh, I thought you were fluent!\u2019 and I reply, \u2018Well, do you know every word in the English dictionary?\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI consider myself a fluent speaker but at a certain level in a general conversation, whereas when you get to a higher degree of fluency, M\u0101ori language can get a lot more metaphorical. The language itself holds a lot more culture and tikanga within it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">While he\u2019s never come up against any negativity, Braden says he\u2019s aware of \u201cstaying in his lane\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cWith people like me who have gone down this pathway, you believe in the kaupapa, you support it, and you are pro-active in supporting it but, as a non-M\u0101ori, it\u2019s not really your place to actively lead or make certain decisions.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">Carson recently placed first-equal in his class for a Ng\u0101 Manu K\u014drero speech competition and went through to the finals where he placed third.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\" Braden and Lisa with Carson and Nia.\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/> Braden and Lisa with Carson and Nia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">His speech was based on a comment from a fellow student asking why he was part of rumaki when he wasn\u2019t M\u0101ori.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">His four and a half minute speech in te reo M\u0101ori outlined his journey as a tangata tiriti (non-M\u0101ori New Zealanders who are people of the Treaty), upholding the mana of the Treaty and what its original intentions were for.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI was pretty proud of him,\u201d says Braden, before chuckling. \u201cLast year he did his speech on cheetahs. <\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cHe went on about [how] cheetahs are his favourite animal because they run up to 130km fast and they\u2019ve got cool camouflage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cSo, for him to take on this topic and it\u2019s personal, not just to him but to our family and other families, and what it meant to him, was pretty special. <\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cWhat was cool was hearing other families as he was talking, agreeing essentially and acknowledging what he was saying as being powerful.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Nia, 6, and Carson, 10, have been immersed in te reo from birth.\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Nia, 6, and Carson, 10, have been immersed in te reo from birth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">Braden hopes New Zealand will become a bilingual nation, the way it was heading in the 1840s when English settlers arrived and learned to speak te reo for trading and other purposes before the flood of immigrants and colonisation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">His eyes were opened on a recent work trip to Montreal, which is part of the Quebec French-speaking region of Canada, where he found the bilingualism fascinating.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cYou would say something to someone in French and, if they heard our accent, they would speak back to us in English, and we would speak back to them in French, but they kept replying in English, and I finally asked why.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThey said they didn\u2019t even realise they were doing it, they were so used to bilingualism.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI was standing in a queue one day and overheard a couple of teenage girls having a full-on dual-language gossip session about something they\u2019d seen on social media. One was speaking French and the other was speaking English.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI find it interesting and fun to be able to switch between languages, and I\u2019d love to see that for New Zealand because that could have been how it is today.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cIf M\u0101ori hadn\u2019t been marginalised, te reo could still have been widely heard and used by, not just M\u0101ori but P\u0101keh\u0101 as well.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">However, he notes that a lot of progress has been made in recent decades.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">He also points out that te reo M\u0101ori language skills would supplement a CV, given the language is becoming increasingly relevant in work sectors with more openings in jobs for bilingual roles because of the need to communicate with iwi.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cSome of the negative arguments are that people will say, \u2018Why would I want my kids to learn te reo? I\u2019d much rather they learn a useful language\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cBut, I\u2019ve got personal experience from this because I did learn an overseas language and it was useful to me and still is because I\u2019m working with it but, at the end of the day, while many of us are going to perhaps have an overseas experience, most of us are going to come back and live and raise our families in New Zealand.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cNew Zealand is founded on the blending of the tangata whenua and tangata tiriti.<\/p>\n<p class=\"kqzEwDUUT\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cSome people are just so negative about having anything to do with it in their lives, and I just hear that and say, \u2018Why?\u2019 What\u2019s so bad about it? Why wouldn\u2019t you encourage your children or yourself to be able to walk in both worlds?\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It took living on the other side of the world to trigger his desire to learn the language&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":33394,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[836,1443,31470,31468,31467,19102,9057,31471,29163,31466,2203,1899,776,2720,111,43,139,1536,1067,31469,69,31472,23125,8460,301,8690,686,26156,102],"class_list":["post-33393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-new-zealand","tag-836","tag-about","tag-braden","tag-brother","tag-bryant","tag-chose","tag-dads","tag-fullimmersion","tag-generation","tag-jodi","tag-journey","tag-kids","tag-language","tag-mori","tag-new-zealand","tag-news","tag-newzealand","tag-next","tag-northland","tag-northlander","tag-nz","tag-path","tag-reo","tag-shapes","tag-talks","tag-te","tag-week","tag-wiki","tag-with"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33393"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33393\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33394"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}