{"id":346972,"date":"2026-03-25T11:53:09","date_gmt":"2026-03-25T11:53:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/346972\/"},"modified":"2026-03-25T11:53:09","modified_gmt":"2026-03-25T11:53:09","slug":"mafs-expert-john-aiken-breaks-down-remembering-late-co-star-mel-schilling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/346972\/","title":{"rendered":"MAFS expert John Aiken breaks down remembering late co-star Mel Schilling"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Just 12 days ago John Aiken was wishing his Married At First Sight co-star Mel Schilling well after she shared with fans that her cancer had spread with no options to recover left. Now, the relationship expert is remembering a close friend that he will painfully miss beyond words. <\/p>\n<p>Speaking to <a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.9news.com.au\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">9News<\/a>, Aiken broke down in tears as he tried to comprehend such an incredible loss. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI feel like I\u2019ve lost someone special today. MAFS for me won\u2019t be the same. She\u2019s a huge loss and sometimes it\u2019s hard to breathe just thinking about her,\u201d he confessed. <\/p>\n<p>When Mel, a loving wife and mum to 11-year-old daughter, Maddie, <a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DVyy3haCPJj\/?hl=en\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">shared the news <\/a>that she was coming to terms with a terminal diagnosis on March 13th, John was one of the first to chime in with his support. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll of me is standing with you. Whenever you need me \u2013 please know I\u2019m there,\u201d he commented on her post. <\/p>\n<p>At the time, he didn\u2019t realise how serious her condition had become and little time they actually had left. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere\u2019s no doubt that I\u2019m struggling. It\u2019s devastating to have someone that you\u2019ve worked with for 10 years, who you\u2019ve sat beside on a couch and got to know so well, to die in this way \u2013 so shockingly and so quickly,\u201d he said. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was very privileged to have 10 years with her. You get to know someone so well, so this is a very, very sad day.\u201d <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"poster-img\" src=\"https:\/\/content.api.news\/v3\/images\/bin\/9a7150a42eb13783a53d4048822871e5\" data-sctrack=\"op-poster-img\" alt=\"MAFS expert John Aiken breaks down remembering co-star Mel Schilling\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/p>\n<p>John added that working with Mel on the Nine reality TV show since the very beginning has been once of the biggest privileges in his life and career. <a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.news.com.au\/entertainment\/tv\/reality-tv\/mafs-stars-reveal-side-of-expert-mel-schilling-australia-didnt-get-to-see\/news-story\/0da7f9bed0a4cea55574ed38bd70439e\" data-tgev=\"event119\" data-tgev-container=\"bodylink\" data-tgev-order=\"0da7f9bed0a4cea55574ed38bd70439e\" data-tgev-label=\"entertainment\" data-tgev-metric=\"ev\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Tributes that followed the news of her death<\/a>, certainly echoed that. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWith Mel, I think about the way in which she was on set, even to the end, and what I loved about her was that she just fought all the time but she kept everything inside. She never complained,\u201d he remembered. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe was just such an incredibly strong inspiration. She was a real leader and I always admired that about her because we never really knew what she was going through until close to the end.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Mel\u2019s death was confirmed on Tuesday evening by her husband Gareth, who took to Instagram with a <a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.news.com.au\/entertainment\/celebrity-life\/celebrity-deaths\/tributes-pour-in-for-mafs-star-mel-schilling-after-her-death-at-54\/news-story\/6fa57755839f712ec47f714a55da33aa\" data-tgev=\"event119\" data-tgev-container=\"bodylink\" data-tgev-order=\"6fa57755839f712ec47f714a55da33aa\" data-tgev-label=\"entertainment\" data-tgev-metric=\"ev\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">heartbreaking statement. <\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cMelanie Jane Brisbane-Schilling passed away peacefully today, surrounded by love.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn her final moments, when I thought cancer had taken away her ability to speak, she ushered me closer and whispered a message for Maddie and me that will sustain me for the rest of my life,\u201d he wrote.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt took all of her remaining strength, and that gesture summed up our wee Melsie perfectly. Even then, her only thought was for Maddie and me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is a woman who became a new mum and a TV star at 42 \u2014 and nailed both.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is a woman who, through two years of chemotherapy, when she could barely lift her head from the pillow, never complained and never stopped showing courage, grace, compassion and empathy, and never missed a day of filming.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTo most of you, she was Mel Schilling \u2014 matriarch of MAFS and queen of reality TV. To Maddie and me, she was our wee Melsie: an incredible mum, role model, and soulmate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Gareth went on to thank their inner circle for their support, before concluding: \u2018Life can be beautiful, and life can be incredibly cruel. But ultimately, life is fleeting, fragile, and tomorrow is promised to no one.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you can do anything to honour Mel, please live life to the full, love your people well, and try not to sweat the small stuff.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI had 15 wonderful years with my soulmate, and it was the privilege of my life to be by her side. For that, I will be forever thankful.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGoodbye, my love. My one. Until we meet again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mel was first diagnosed with colon cancer in 2023. In February 2024, she was given the news that the cancer had metastasised and spread to her lungs and was again given further devastating news that it had continued to spread to her brain. <\/p>\n<p>Despite only sharing her terminal diagnosis with fans less than two weeks ago, her oncology team informed her there was no further treatment they could offer late last year. <\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Just 12 days ago John Aiken was wishing his Married At First Sight co-star Mel Schilling well after&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":346973,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[430,156,111,139,69],"class_list":["post-346972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-entertainment","tag-new-zealand","tag-newzealand","tag-nz"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/346972","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=346972"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/346972\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/346973"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=346972"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=346972"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=346972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}