Kylie Smith, 46, head of school, education and social work, at Manukau Institute of Technology<\/p>\n
I wish I could say I remember the exact moment I met Jarrod, more than 30 years ago. I was about to start the management trainee programme at Foodtown, now Woolworths, and he was the assistant produce manager with a straight shoulder\u2011length blonde bob that bounced when he walked. <\/p>\n
From the start, I noticed his shy confidence, which I was drawn to, probably as a temper to my overt confidence. Even then, I sensed he\u2019d be someone I could trust to have in my corner. <\/p>\n
Our first memorable connection happened in a back\u2011room shifts trimming greens, talking about anything and everything instead of what we were meant to be doing. It turned out we were only three days apart in age and I\u2019ll claim responsibility for moving things from colleagues to something more. <\/p>\n
I always knew I\u2019d be competing with the great love of his life: Woolworths. I\u2019m still surprised I managed to come between them. <\/p>\n
Jarrod and Kylie on their wedding day. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n
We married in July 1999 in my hometown, Matamata, on a perfect, bright winter\u2019s day. On the way to the beach for photos, we stopped at our grocery store to say hello to colleagues who couldn\u2019t make it. <\/p>\n
We annoyed customers taking wedding\u2011party photos in the aisles, but we only planned to get married once, so it had to be done. <\/p>\n
The part people don\u2019t always see is how much of a partnership we\u2019ve had to build. We followed Jarrod\u2019s work all over the North Island with three young kids, my own study, and both of us working fulltime. <\/p>\n
Then came one of our hardest chapters with our son\u2019s type 1 diabetes diagnosis at age 7, followed by another autoimmune condition. <\/p>\n
It felt like the ground shifted under us, but our instinct was to educate ourselves, band together, and teach our kids the same. <\/p>\n
Thirteen years on, watching our son navigate life independently and seeing how his siblings rallied feels like one of our greatest achievements. <\/p>\n
All the couple’s children have worked at Woolworths in some capacity. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n
Daily life these days is weekends spent at sport, walking the dogs, plotting the next holiday and chores, but we carve out time for us, even if it\u2019s just a proper catch\u2011up at the end of a long day. <\/p>\n
Arguments are rare, and end when Jarrod realises I was right all along. <\/p>\n
I do the lion\u2019s share of the domestic tasks, but it works for us. I run most of the home, he\u2019s the king of logistics, fixing things and making a mean pork belly and an even better cocktail. <\/p>\n
What\u2019s kept us strong is what drew me to him in the produce department all those years ago: his ambition, loyalty and the way he anchors our family. We\u2019ve grown up together. Twenty\u2011seven years in, with three great kids, there\u2019s comfort in knowing who you are with someone. <\/p>\n
Minus global warming, the future doesn\u2019t scare me much, as long as it\u2019s the two of us, still choosing each other, still finding our way, still making it work. <\/p>\n
I want us to be around for a long time, happy and healthy. Plus, his KiwiSaver is bigger than mine, so I need him to fund our retirement. <\/p>\n
Kylie and Jarrod say their bond has endured many storms. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n
Jarrod Smith, 46, head of e-commerce logistics for Woolworths NZ<\/p>\n
I still remember the first time Kylie walked into the team room at Foodtown in 1997. <\/p>\n
I was minding my own business, and then she appeared: confident, sharp, completely out of my league and inconveniently with someone else. <\/p>\n
But that didn\u2019t stop me from being instantly smitten. She had this snobby edge, and I was totally drawn to it. <\/p>\n
I\u2019d come in on my days off just to chat with her and it didn\u2019t matter if I had no reason to be there. Eventually, she asked me out and the rest is history. <\/p>\n
We married in 1999, two years after meeting. Because Woolworths was basically our life, we took wedding photos inside and outside the store, and more than half of our wedding party worked there. Our three kids have all worked for Woolies, so in some way, you could say the place has been the backdrop of our entire relationship. <\/p>\n
The family are now based in Auckland. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n
Having our first child was the biggest shock to the system. Then, when our son was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and coeliac disease at 7, it knocked us hard. <\/p>\n
We also moved around the North Island for my roles, so there were new schools and constant upheaval. I worked in the South Island for three months away from the family, and everything that could go wrong at home did go wrong – and I wasn\u2019t there to help. <\/p>\n
Somehow, we\u2019ve always landed on our feet and I think it\u2019s because we balance each other. Kylie is the \u201clet\u2019s go\u201d one, and I\u2019m the \u201cresearch and weigh up the pros and cons\u201d one. Together, it works, and we make a good team. <\/p>\n
Jarrod and Kylie Smith first met at Foodtown supermarket where they both were working. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n
Day\u2011to\u2011day life is busy with two demanding jobs, three kids, and two dogs, but we always find ways to stay connected. <\/p>\n
We try to have dinner together most nights and enjoy an espresso martini together the moment we walk in the door, before a show on Netflix, before bed. <\/p>\n
We are pretty good at giving each other space, talking and resolving any issues. We try to be thoughtful of each other\u2019s feelings and stay kind to each other. <\/p>\n
Kylie does more of the household stuff, no question, but the kids have picked up some tasks and I do dishes, some cooking and outside work. <\/p>\n
We\u2019re in sync on the things that matter, like values, goals, how we raise the kids and what we want from life. <\/p>\n
I\u2019m looking forward to watching our kids become adults with their own partners, and us becoming young grandparents at some point soon and spoiling them rotten. <\/p>\n
As for the future, as long as we keep learning, adapting and always doing the right thing for each other and our family, we will be good. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Kylie Smith, 46, head of school, education and social work, at Manukau Institute of Technology I wish I…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":370554,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[24752,95,8414,193821,51500,46662,221,3192,702,117270,20558,37226,22081,2882,5812,111,139,69,6744,16189,213,18835,97,1227,165,210,16512,191487,51560,3270,4576,1530],"class_list":{"0":"post-370553","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-sports","8":"tag-ago","9":"tag-and","10":"tag-couple","11":"tag-foodtown","12":"tag-happy","13":"tag-headed","14":"tag-how","15":"tag-illness","16":"tag-it","17":"tag-jarrod","18":"tag-kept","19":"tag-knot","20":"tag-kylie","21":"tag-love","22":"tag-make","23":"tag-new-zealand","24":"tag-newzealand","25":"tag-nz","26":"tag-place","27":"tag-smith","28":"tag-sports","29":"tag-strong","30":"tag-supermarket","31":"tag-tauranga","32":"tag-their","33":"tag-through","34":"tag-tied","35":"tag-twentysix","36":"tag-upheaval","37":"tag-we","38":"tag-work","39":"tag-years"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/370553","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=370553"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/370553\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/370554"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=370553"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=370553"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=370553"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}