{"id":380219,"date":"2026-04-15T06:23:08","date_gmt":"2026-04-15T06:23:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/380219\/"},"modified":"2026-04-15T06:23:08","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T06:23:08","slug":"tyler-porters-mother-makes-plea-after-sons-memorial-items-allegedly-taken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/380219\/","title":{"rendered":"Tyler Porter\u2019s mother makes plea after son\u2019s memorial items allegedly taken"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018Shaking with hurt\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">His mother, Shara-Lee Porter, told the Herald she was pleading with the community for information after all of the items had been removed. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">She said she didn\u2019t want to blame anyone and said all she wanted was to have the precious items returned. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">Porter said a local, who has a coffee by Tyler\u2019s tree every day after they recently lost their mother, said they last saw <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/nz\/tyler-porter-auckland-mum-petitions-for-memorial-bench-for-son-council-may-reassess-decision\/DESRGAF6ENA3RAT4IROFXMNFL4\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/nz\/tyler-porter-auckland-mum-petitions-for-memorial-bench-for-son-council-may-reassess-decision\/DESRGAF6ENA3RAT4IROFXMNFL4\/\">the memorial<\/a> in place on Sunday, just before lunchtime. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cMy family\u2019s gone on Monday to tidy it up, which we do every day and &#8230; There is not a single item left,\u201d Porter said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">She said she was left \u201cshaking with hurt\u201d. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">Among the missing items was a sentimental plaque and his little toy trucks that his younger brother had placed. <\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Police confirmed a report has been made today following a theft in Arkles Bay and said they will assess the report in due course. Photo \/ Supplied\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Police confirmed a report has been made today following a theft in Arkles Bay and said they will assess the report in due course. Photo \/ Supplied<img  alt=\"A tree had become known to many locals as \u201cTyler\u2019s tree\u201d and was a memorial spot decorated with lights, flowers, sentimental toys and photos. Photo \/ Supplied\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>A tree had become known to many locals as \u201cTyler\u2019s tree\u201d and was a memorial spot decorated with lights, flowers, sentimental toys and photos. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">Porter said even some Christmas lights earlier placed by a member of the community, so Tyler wouldn\u2019t miss out on Christmas, were missing. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThe lights that were on the tree weren\u2019t even taken out properly, they\u2019ve been ripped out,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">Porter said the incident felt very \u201cdeliberate\u201d, and the community was left devastated because it was a meaningful site for many people facing loss. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cHad this person, whoever it may be, come and just talk to me and said, \u2018hey, we\u2019ve got concerns\u2019, I would have come to a resolution &#8230; But just to go and do this and take items that are very personal, it\u2019s not okay,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"The life of 20-year-old Tyler Porter was tragically cut short in July last year. Photo \/ Supplied\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>The life of 20-year-old Tyler Porter was tragically cut short in July last year. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">Porter said she was initially trying to find a rational explanation for what happened, such as someone removing the items to protect them during Cyclone Vaianu on the weekend. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cIf someone had, why would they not reach out to me and say, \u2018hey, I\u2019ve removed the items, but I\u2019ll put them back,\u2019\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">Auckland Council\u2019s area operations manager for Hibiscus, Bays and Upper Harbour, Sandra May, said she could confirm that no items have been removed by Auckland Council staff or contractors. <\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Lights and items at the tree that had become a memorial for Tyler Porter have now gone missing. Photo \/ Supplied\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Lights and items at the tree that had become a memorial for Tyler Porter have now gone missing. Photo \/ Supplied<\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">Porter said this incident highlighted how important the site was to the community, and she hoped whoever did this would get a guilty conscience and return the items. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cIf you\u2019ve seen anything, heard anything or have any information at all, please reach out, privately if you prefer,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">Following her son\u2019s \u201cheartbreaking accident\u201d, Porter started a Facebook blog called What Happens After to share her son\u2019s story and show people the raw side of what happens when you lose a child. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">In a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/nz\/tyler-porter-20-year-old-found-dead-in-water-at-arkles-bay-family-pay-tribute\/YQJW5T5GYVHEZOQXWOWZBFJXR4\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/nz\/tyler-porter-20-year-old-found-dead-in-water-at-arkles-bay-family-pay-tribute\/YQJW5T5GYVHEZOQXWOWZBFJXR4\/\">tribute <\/a>to her son last year, Porter said a part of her would be forever missing. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cPlease know, my baby, I love you more than anything. I just wish I could have wrapped my arms around you one more time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cSweet dreams, my baby boy,\u201d Porter said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"npuzLaxKHxgCDhG\" style=\"display:none\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/nz\/the-daily-h-your-fast-smart-guide-to-the-days-biggest-headlines\/VQR5CULLQRECZP2ORSWPGDORBU\/?utm_source=nzherald&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_id=nz_cta\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/nz\/the-daily-h-your-fast-smart-guide-to-the-days-biggest-headlines\/VQR5CULLQRECZP2ORSWPGDORBU\/?utm_source=nzherald&amp;utm_medium=article&amp;utm_id=nz_cta\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sign up to The Daily H<\/a>, a free newsletter curated by our editors and delivered straight to your inbox every weekday.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u2018Shaking with hurt\u2019 His mother, Shara-Lee Porter, told the Herald she was pleading with the community for information&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":380220,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[164052,74,7818,1558,9218,6325,6179,87952,97687,19474,101,5338,19872,6178,9763,111,43,139,69,46728,197765,10707,19554,24465,4518,17454],"class_list":{"0":"post-380219","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-new-zealand","8":"tag-21st","9":"tag-after","10":"tag-allegedly","11":"tag-been","12":"tag-before","13":"tag-birthday","14":"tag-died","15":"tag-dismantled","16":"tag-heartbroken","17":"tag-items","18":"tag-left","19":"tag-makes","20":"tag-memorial","21":"tag-mother","22":"tag-mysteriously","23":"tag-new-zealand","24":"tag-news","25":"tag-newzealand","26":"tag-nz","27":"tag-plea","28":"tag-porters","29":"tag-sons","30":"tag-taken","31":"tag-tyler","32":"tag-weeks","33":"tag-whose"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/380219","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=380219"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/380219\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/380220"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=380219"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=380219"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=380219"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}