Warning: This story details indecent assault offending.<\/p>\n
A victim says her life hasn\u2019t been the same since she was groped by her relative, who was a church leader, when she was 17.<\/p>\n
She said the sexual violation in 2024 has had a lasting psychological and emotional impact.<\/p>\n
But her elderly family member maintains his innocence.<\/p>\n
He defended one charge of doing an indecent act on a dependent family member under the age of 18 in the Manukau District Court in January.<\/p>\n
At the conclusion of the jury trial, presided over by Judge Janey Forrest, the man was found guilty.<\/p>\n
While sentencing him in the same court earlier this month, Judge Forrest said the man\u2019s high social standing made his \u201cbreach of trust\u201d even worse.<\/p>\n
\u201cYour [victim] and members of your community and congregation could be justified in expecting more and better of you,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
The man, who is in his 70s, has permanent name suppression to protect the identity of the victim.<\/p>\n
An after-school \u2018massage\u2019<\/p>\n
The court heard that in December 2024, the girl arrived home from\u00a0school.<\/p>\n
The offender called out to her and asked her to massage his shoulder.<\/p>\n
He would commonly ask his wife and other family members for massages, the court was told.<\/p>\n
After she massaged the man for 20 minutes, he said she could go and get something to eat.<\/p>\n
Later, as she was walking to the bathroom, the defendant walked past her completely naked.<\/p>\n
In court, Judge Forrest noted this moment was not part of the charge but was part of what made the\u00a0victim\u00a0feel \u201cparticularly uncomfortable\u201d.<\/p>\n
On that same day in 2024, the defendant again called out for a massage.<\/p>\n
This time, he was wearing only a lavalava.<\/p>\n
As he lay on the bed face down, the girl sat on a chair.<\/p>\n
Then he turned over to lie on his back and asked his victim if she would like a massage, too.<\/p>\n
She said no, but he began rubbing her arm and shoulder, gradually moving down to her right breast.<\/p>\n
He groped her breast before moving down to her thigh, where he moved his hand up and down.<\/p>\n
He then warned the girl not to tell anyone.<\/p>\n
During sentencing, the judge spoke of the man\u2019s \u201cbreach of trust\u201d in groping a family member.<\/p>\n
She also said there was premeditation as the defendant had waited until all other relatives were out of the house to assault the victim.<\/p>\n
The other particularly strong feature of the offence was the effect it had on the\u00a0victim, the judge said.<\/p>\n
She said the young woman\u2019s victim impact statement was \u201cdifficult to read\u201d.<\/p>\n
Withdrawn, unstable and often \u2018unwell\u2019<\/p>\n
The court heard that after the incident, the teenager\u2019s behaviour changed \u201csignificantly\u201d. She became withdrawn, emotionally unstable and often \u201cunwell\u201d.<\/p>\n
She struggled with her sense of self-worth and the unstable effect of having to relocate away from the defendant.<\/p>\n
The teen found it difficult to discuss what happened, often slept all day and didn\u2019t eat.<\/p>\n
She hoped that if she slept for long enough, when she woke up, the assault wouldn\u2019t have happened, she told the court.<\/p>\n
Defendant a former pastor<\/p>\n
The man had been a long-serving member of a Christian organisation and previously served as one of its pastors.<\/p>\n
Judge Forrest said that in some ways, she saw his position in the community as making his \u201cbreach of trust\u201d worse.<\/p>\n
The man\u2019s conviction and sentence would have an impact on his standing in his church and community, which the judge said was \u201cappropriate\u201d.<\/p>\n
Defence lawyer Heena Gherra said that without \u201cdiminishing the seriousness\u201d of the offending, this was the first time her client had been before the court in 30 years.<\/p>\n
His previous convictions were for driving matters, she pointed out.<\/p>\n
She asked the judge for a sentence that would allow the man to continue his responsibilities to other young family members and his church.<\/p>\n
Gherra said that because of his physical condition, he was unable to serve a sentence of\u00a0community work.<\/p>\n
A vulnerable victim<\/p>\n
Crown prosecutor Aysser Al-Janabi highlighted the man\u2019s sustained indecent offending against a vulnerable victim.<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t see how a sentence of home detention would interfere with the defendant\u2019s responsibilities.<\/p>\n
Judge Forrest sentenced the man to three and a half months of home detention.<\/p>\n
Because he continued to deny his offending, she ordered no rehabilitative programmes.<\/p>\n
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Where to get help:
If it’s an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.
If you’ve ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone, contact\u00a0Safe to Talk\u00a0confidentially, any time 24\/7:
\u2022 Call 0800 044 334
\u2022 Text 4334
\u2022 Email support@safetotalk.nz<\/a>
\u2022 For more info or to web chat visit\u00a0safetotalk.nz
Alternatively contact your local police station –\u00a0click here for a list.
If you have been sexually assaulted, remember it’s not your fault.<\/p>\n