{"id":490057,"date":"2026-06-22T15:34:08","date_gmt":"2026-06-22T15:34:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/490057\/"},"modified":"2026-06-22T15:34:08","modified_gmt":"2026-06-22T15:34:08","slug":"guys-would-think-i-was-a-girl-then-get-aggressive-when-they-found-out-my-name-was-brian-how-placebo-made-nancy-boy-culture","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/490057\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Guys would think I was a girl then get aggressive when they found out my name was Brian\u2019: how Placebo made Nancy Boy | Culture"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Brian Molko, singer, songwriter<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Nancy Boy was about reclaiming the homophobic insults that were hurled at me every time I went out because I had long hair and wore eyeliner and nail polish. I\u2019d walk into a bar and people would react vociferously, or guys would think I was a girl then get really aggressive when they found out my name was Brian. I thought I could regain some power by writing a celebration of debauchery that was so brazenly sexual it would piss off the people who insulted me even more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Also, [Suede singer] Brett Anderson had recently told NME he was a \u201cbisexual man who\u2019d never had a homosexual experience\u201d, which I thought was bollocks. I thought he was being a sexual tourist. We know each other now and he\u2019s a fantastic person \u2013 back then we all said cheeky things for effect \u2013 but part of my motivation was to write a song about a bisexual man who has had a bisexual experience.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">I was living on income support in Deptford, London, when I came up with the chorus, but I thought the chords were too catchy or mainstream. I wasn\u2019t sure if I liked them, but when I played them round at Stefan\u2019s \u2013 he lived with his parents \u2013 he said: \u201cMan, that\u2019s such a hook.\u201d In the rehearsal room it became this distorted punk thing.<\/p>\n<p>double quotation markI was a very green songwriter and they\u2019re not my best lyrics<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">The words almost wrote themselves. I was trying to tell a story of a wild night out, so started: \u201cAlcoholic kind of mood, lose my clothes, lose my lube.\u201d It was the kind of night we\u2019d have on rare occasions but it certainly wasn\u2019t our lives yet. \u201cHad some help from insect ways\u201d is a reference to Spanish Fly or any substance that made you horny \u2013 you could buy GHB in shops then. The line: \u201cEyeholes in a paper bag, greatest lay I\u2019ve ever had\u201d was also reclaiming an insult, because at school people would point at girls and say: \u201cI wouldn\u2019t fuck her with a paper bag on her head.\u201d I was a very green songwriter and they\u2019re not my best lyrics.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">When we recorded Nancy Boy for our debut album it just didn\u2019t have our live energy. So we re-recorded it with Phil Vinall. Phil enabled us to turn up the distortion. When we performed it on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=x51yw3eJv-Y\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Top of the Pops<\/a> there were 43 complaints because people couldn\u2019t work out what gender I was. This song changed everything for us and had a purpose: it made people who felt like outsiders feel less lonely, and they became our audience.<\/p>\n<p>Stefan Olsdal, bass, songwriter<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">In 1994, when we wrote Nancy Boy, I was in an illegal relationship, because I was 19 and the age of consent was still 21 for gay men. That was probably in the ether for Nancy Boy, then when I heard Brian\u2019s chords I was hooked. I was interested in the idea of wrapping dark, subversive or explicitly sexual lyrics in something quite melodic.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">We made a demo in Deptford, hiring the studio between midnight and 6am because it was cheaper, and the tape somehow found its way on to David Bowie\u2019s tour bus. We ended up supporting him before we\u2019d even made our debut album. Then when the first proper recording of Nancy Boy wasn\u2019t right we tried overdubbing fast drums to bring some energy, but it didn\u2019t have a punch. By the time we recorded it again we had more live experience and were so pissed off about the first version that the energy went into the well-known one.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">I still don\u2019t know how it got on the radio, but maybe the play on words helped us get away with it. There are no expletives in Nancy Boy and I certainly don\u2019t remember us saying: \u201cWe can\u2019t sing this \u2013 we\u2019ll be in trouble!\u201d When we started touring, we got the shit kicked out of us in Middlesbrough, and in the conservative southern States of the US supporting Weezer we were pelted with coins, but mostly we were embraced. The song\u2019s success brought us a lot of freedom. As human beings discovering who they were in the public eye, it gave us a lot of confidence, and artistically we realised we could push at boundaries and didn\u2019t have to pander to any expectations. Nancy Boy is a snapshot of a moment, but 30 years later it\u2019s very much a part of who we are.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\"> Placebo Re:created is out now. 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