{"id":495674,"date":"2026-06-25T23:48:10","date_gmt":"2026-06-25T23:48:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/495674\/"},"modified":"2026-06-25T23:48:10","modified_gmt":"2026-06-25T23:48:10","slug":"gary-numan-how-i-wooed-my-wife-is-probably-illegal-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/495674\/","title":{"rendered":"Gary Numan: How I wooed my wife is probably \u2018illegal\u2019 now"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">But Numan called again, and O\u2019Neill gave him a quiz to prove his identity before he suggested he join her on a road trip to a radio interview to distract her from her grief.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">They have been together ever since, marrying in 1997 and going on to have three daughters, Raven, 23, Persia, 21, and Echo, 19.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">He recalled: \u201cI took her to a Little Chef because I\u2019m very down to earth. I don\u2019t do all that flash, rich man, pop star stuff\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">The Are \u201cFriends\u201d Electric? singer was diagnosed with Asperger\u2019s, a form of autism, as a teenager. <\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">However, he didn\u2019t think about his diagnosis much until later in his life and he praised O\u2019Neill for helping him navigate the world.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">He said: \u201cI thought everyone was odd except for me, because people would react in ways that I didn\u2019t understand.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201c[Years later] Gemma started talking about Asperger\u2019s and I went, \u2018Oh yeah, I\u2019ve got that\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201c[She would] let me know when I was being Asperger\u2019s-y [in public] with a kick under the table or a squeeze on the arm.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201c[I know how] that when I meet somebody for the first time I should probably ask what they do for a living because that shows interest. <\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI said to my kids a few months ago, \u2018I don\u2019t think I have it any more. I don\u2019t think anyone would tell.\u2019 Persia said, \u2018You\u2019re f****** joking\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">Numan believes there is a connection between his autism and passion for technology.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">He said: \u201cI see personality in machine\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">Of his days flying planes, he added: \u201cI developed a very close relationship with the airplane, which sounds weird. <\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cIt\u2019s not like I wanted to have sex with it or marry it, but I talked to it and I would always say thank you at the end of the flight.<\/p>\n<p class=\"NQVPqQgxO\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cMy relationships with people are different. If someone lets me down, that person ceases to exist. Gemma says, \u2018How can you do that? They\u2019ve been your friend for years.\u2019 Well, they let me down.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"But Numan called again, and O\u2019Neill gave him a quiz to prove his identity before he suggested he&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":495675,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[156,35369,221,16484,185,4977,111,139,425,71557,69,13491,36672,1842,248124],"class_list":["post-495674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-entertainment","tag-gary","tag-how","tag-illegal","tag-is","tag-my","tag-new-zealand","tag-newzealand","tag-now","tag-numan","tag-nz","tag-probably","tag-thinks","tag-wife","tag-wooed"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/495674","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=495674"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/495674\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/495675"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=495674"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=495674"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=495674"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}