{"id":512255,"date":"2026-07-06T11:02:08","date_gmt":"2026-07-06T11:02:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/512255\/"},"modified":"2026-07-06T11:02:08","modified_gmt":"2026-07-06T11:02:08","slug":"impossible-to-be-a-mom-new-film-shines-light-on-how-america-fails-its-mothers-us-news","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/512255\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Impossible to be a mom\u2019: new film shines light on how America fails its mothers | US news"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">When Reshma Saujani set out to make a documentary, she was clear from the outset: it would not be released on streaming platforms, or at film festivals.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Instead, No Country for Mothers \u2013 a new movie about how moms across the US are being failed \u2013 is being screened by hundreds of the subject themselves, nationwide, in person.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Brittney Walker is hosting a screening at a community poolhouse in Arizona. Joanna Carolina Berry rented out a theater in Georgia. Stephanie Valdez booked a library room in Nevada.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Saujani, the film\u2019s executive producer, and the founder of advocacy organizations Moms First and Girls Who Code, said moms will often watch or read something at 10pm, after work and chores and parenting, by themselves, then get \u201cpissed off in isolation\u201d. But not this movie.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">She wanted people to watch together, and get inspired to take action.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cWe\u2019ve been intentionally divided and distracted through culture wars, and mostly I think a lot by politicians, and now I would say influencers and tech companies,\u201d Saujani told the Guardian at a screening in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/us-news\/minneapolis\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" data-component=\"auto-linked-tag\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Minneapolis<\/a> in June. \u201cAnd so I think that the only way to beat back the culture wars is to get moms to come together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The premiere of No Country for Mothers in Minneapolis. Photograph: Jeremy Bloom<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">The documentary \u2013 focused on how mothers so not have adequate support, leave or childcare \u2013 calls for a unified push for paid leave and childcare funding. It walks through decades of failures to enact policies for families, featuring women across the political spectrum.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Hillary Clinton notes in the film how Congress passed a childcare bill in the 1970s, only for then president Richard Nixon to veto it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">The priority is childcare and paid leave, according to Saujani. Much of the country is increasingly acknowledging childcare as an economic issue, and some states have stepped up to create paid programs, she said. Still, Trump recently <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/politics\/donald-trump\/trump-says-not-possible-us-pay-medicaid-medicare-daycare-re-fighting-w-rcna266381\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">said<\/a> it was \u201cnot possible\u201d to address funding at the federal level, and cut off access to payments to blue states over fraud concerns.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cWe can\u2019t take care of daycare,\u201d he said in April. \u201cWe\u2019re a big country. We have 50 states. We have all these other people. We\u2019re fighting wars. We can\u2019t take care of daycare. You [have] got to let a state take care of daycare, and they should pay for it, too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">In another scene, Saujani herself <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2024\/09\/06\/politics\/video\/childcare-trump-vance-policy-reshma-saujani-lead-digvid\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">asks Trump about childcare funding<\/a>, an answer he bungled. \u201cThey had no fucking clue how to answer that question,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Introducing the film in Minneapolis, Saujani told a crowd of dozens of mostly women that America makes it \u201cimpossible to be a mom\u201d by pitting women against each other \u2013 working moms versus stay-at-home moms, trad wives versus girl-boss feminists. The goal is to keep moms distracted with culture wars, rather than united over policies they agree on, like paid leave or universal childcare, Saujani suggested.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">But the movie has a <a href=\"https:\/\/momsfirst.us\/no-country-for-mothers-breaks-world-record\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">record-breaking number<\/a> of producers listed in its credits \u2013 the thousands of moms who shared their stories or hosted screenings.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cThey know that the moment that we choose our power over their blame, it\u2019s over for them,\u201d Saujani said. \u201cThis film is gasoline, and we are the match. So, let\u2019s burn it down and build back America to what should have always been: a country for mothers.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Let\u2019s burn it down\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">The film features a Turning Point USA summit for women, focus groups of moms weighing what would help them most, and interviews with mothers at their homes about how they struggle to keep up. Saujani said she has intentionally shown up in places where she \u2013 and her allies on the left \u2013 may not agree politically. The \u201ceasy thing\u201d, she said, would have been to go to Turning Point and think: \u201cLook at these crazy people.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">It\u2019s hard for her, as a daughter of refugees, to talk to people who she knows do not support her father\u2019s right to live in the country. But in order to win on these issues, she needs to, she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cI want to be in a room full of people who subscribe to Evie magazine,\u201d said Saujani, referring to the rightwing women\u2019s magazine. \u201cI want them to watch this. I want to hear what they have to say.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Alice Mann, a Democratic member of the Minnesota state senate who authored the state\u2019s new paid leave law, said in a panel after the Minneapolis screening that the US is in a period of backlash to women\u2019s advancement, pointing to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/2022\/jun\/24\/roe-v-wade-overturned-abortion-summary-supreme-court\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">overturning of Roe v Wade<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Alice Mann, second from right. Photograph: Jeremy Bloom<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">The amount of work to pass the paid leave law in Minnesota was \u201cabsolutely astounding\u201d, she said, adding that not all Democrats were on board and no Republicans voted for it. One male senator told her he did not like the paid leave policy, she said, because he believed women in their child-bearing years should be at home taking care of kids, not working.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cI\u2019m hopeful that the backlash and the erosion of our rights is going to come to a point where it\u2019s going to light that fire that we need to then turn around and get to that turning point,\u201d said Mann.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Nobody told me\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">For mothers hosting screenings around the country, the film presents an opportunity to discuss issues that can sometimes be taboo or seen as individual problems rather than societal gaps.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">At a playground with a friend when her first child was a baby, Saujani was struggling with breastfeeding as she returned to work. She felt like the burden of parenthood fell more squarely on her than her husband despite marrying \u201cprobably the most feminist man you could marry\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">When she told her friend that she felt like she \u201clost all respect and all value the minute I popped out a baby\u201d, Saujani said they replied: \u201cMe too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Reshma Saujani speaking to people at the premiere. Photograph: Jeremy Bloom<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cI was like, \u2018Why didn\u2019t anyone tell us?\u2019 I feel like nobody told me,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Meanwhile, Brittney Walker, a mother of six who grew up Mormon, said she has seen her views on motherhood change as she left the church. But throughout motherhood, she\u2019s experienced the push and pull of working versus taking care of her kids. She\u2019s hosting a screening in Phoenix. The group she invited is politically mixed: former Republicans who left the church, conservative family members, people whose politics she doesn\u2019t know.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cIt\u2019s hard to imagine anything being unifying right now, but I\u2019m hopeful,\u201d Walker said. \u201cIf there\u2019s any hope, any chance of people starting to have conversations and see things eye to eye in any way, and have less division, this is a potential way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Joanna Carolina Berry, a mom in Atlanta, said she was told at a previous employer that she\u2019d never be able to do her job pregnant or once the baby came, a traumatizing entry into motherhood that left her feeling betrayed. At the time, she didn\u2019t talk about it publicly out of fear. When she hosted a screening at a theater, where the audience discussed the movie for two hours afterward.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cIt really does take a village, and they keep telling us about the village, but they won\u2019t give us the address,\u201d she said. \u201cAnd so my goal and my mission is to create the village that they\u2019ve been talking about.\u201d<\/p>\n<p> Photograph: Jeremy Bloom<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">People can speak about paid leave and childcare across the political divide, Berry believes, because the system isn\u2019t working for anyone. \u201cAt the end of the day, babies aren\u2019t born Republican or Democrat,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Stephanie Valdez, a news creator who runs a podcast for girls\u2019 empowerment, rented out out a a library room in Las Vegas.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cI understand that this is a very complicated issue,\u201d she said. \u201cBut also I\u2019m getting really tired of hearing and seeing people say, \u2018Oh, it\u2019s too complicated to support our families, it\u2019s too complicated to support parents, to support children,\u201d when we\u2019re supporting a lot of other things and fast-tracking them super quick.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cHow come families who are paying taxes, who are raising the future \u2013 how come we\u2019re not part of the conversation?\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"When Reshma Saujani set out to make a documentary, she was clear from the outset: it would not&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":512256,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[156,409,111,139,69],"class_list":["post-512255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-movies","tag-entertainment","tag-movies","tag-new-zealand","tag-newzealand","tag-nz"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/512255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=512255"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/512255\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/512256"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=512255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=512255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=512255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}