{"id":531116,"date":"2026-07-17T19:14:10","date_gmt":"2026-07-17T19:14:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/531116\/"},"modified":"2026-07-17T19:14:10","modified_gmt":"2026-07-17T19:14:10","slug":"mum-of-waikato-teen-minke-peddie-makes-heartfelt-plea-to-end-bullying-after-daughters-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/531116\/","title":{"rendered":"Mum of Waikato teen Minke Peddie makes heartfelt plea to end bullying after daughter\u2019s death"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">A memorial is being held  today to remember Minke, with a bench seat dedicated to her memory to be unveiled at Te Kauwhata College, and  a balloon release before a church service. Those attending have been asked to wear Minke\u2019s favourite colours, red and pink. <\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">The coroner\u2019s office confirmed the death was being investigated as a suspected suicide.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Peddie  told the Herald her daughter was a protective, loving girl who \u201cstood up for everyone but herself\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cShe would rather give than have. She hated seeing people upset. She was such a good girl. She was only 14 years old, just a child,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cWe need to bring more light to bullying. Things are already hard enough for kids. If just one child can be saved from this, that would be something.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Minke Peddie at a young age with her mum, Tamaryn Peddie. Photo \/ Tamaryn Peddie\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Minke Peddie at a young age with her mum, Tamaryn Peddie. Photo \/ Tamaryn Peddie<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Peddie  claimed that in the weeks leading up to Minke\u2019s  death, her daughter was  bullied, which resulted in self-harm.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">She said her daughter was targeted four years ago when she was subjected to harmful online messages, physically hurt and mocked during school hours and taunted  outside their home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">In one instance, classmates taped a photo of a whale to Minke\u2019s desk after weight gain attributed to medical issues.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">The Te Kauwhata College student\u2019s mental health declined two months ago. She was prescribed anxiety medication and attended school counselling.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Peddie  said that three weeks later, her daughter allegedly attempted to take her own life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Minke was taken to Waikato Hospital before being  transferred to Starship hospital in Auckland.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThe worst part that I feel sick about is that I found out later she was on FaceTime with a girl who was telling her how and when to do it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Peddie  told the Herald one of Minke\u2019s friends and her mother visited a police station to report the bullying and threats a week before Minke\u2019s death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Police  confirmed they had responded to a report of bullying at a Waikato school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cPolice have received a report of allegations and threats to a person on Thursday 11 June,\u201d a spokesperson said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Inquiries were ongoing.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Minke Peddie was described as always happy and putting other people first. Photo \/ Tamaryn Peddie\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Minke Peddie was described as always happy and putting other people first. Photo \/ Tamaryn Peddie<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Te Kauwhata College principal Deborah Hohneck, while not addressing the specific bullying allegations against Minke, told the Herald the school took any anti-social behaviour seriously.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cStudents and families are encouraged to report concerns promptly so they can be addressed. This behaviour is not tolerated.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Hohneck said the school held a remembrance in Minke\u2019s honour.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cWe are wrapping support around Minke\u2019s family and friends. We remember Minke as a smiley student who loved pink, so we held a pink mufti day in her memory on Friday.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThe well-being of all our students and teachers is paramount for us in this devastating time, so our focus is on assisting all those in need.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">After four weeks off school, Minke was due to return to classes.<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"A photo of Minke Peddie taken just five hours before she died. Photo \/ Tamaryn Peddie\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>A photo of Minke Peddie taken just five hours before she died. Photo \/ Tamaryn Peddie<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cShe was supposed to start school on the Monday, and we had her friends stay over to support her and make her feel excited,\u201d said Peddie.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cShe was out and working on getting better; each day was hard, but I felt she was happier.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">But the bullying resumed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cFriday night I gave her her medication; she said she was tired and went to bed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI had a strange feeling in my stomach, so a little while later I went to go switch her light off and she was gone from her room.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Peddie  contacted police, along with Minke\u2019s friends and their parents, who began the late-night search to help find her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThis was 10.30 at night. At 5.30, just five hours earlier, she was smiling, and I took the most beautiful photo of her. I thought she was happy. I thought she was doing better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img  alt=\"Childhood photo of Minke Peddie. Photo \/ Tamaryn Peddie\" class=\"article-media__image responsively-lazy\" data-test-ui=\"article-media__image\"\/>Childhood photo of Minke Peddie. Photo \/ Tamaryn Peddie<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">A traumatised Peddie  has been off work since her daughter\u2019s death,  so her \u201camazing, supportive family of colleagues\u201d have <a href=\"https:\/\/givealittle.co.nz\/cause\/supporting-whanau-following-the-loss?fbclid=IwY2xjawSsMOxleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETF1ZXU4NVZYOE15c0w2cUZrc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHrhv-zz5_RAojNPcDPneQO5LRWb88exwHPAIZPSW0Kko3gVGn567ThgMBomb_aem_Dk_7_gof30EIlqgFKkxPJA\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/givealittle.co.nz\/cause\/supporting-whanau-following-the-loss?fbclid=IwY2xjawSsMOxleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETF1ZXU4NVZYOE15c0w2cUZrc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHrhv-zz5_RAojNPcDPneQO5LRWb88exwHPAIZPSW0Kko3gVGn567ThgMBomb_aem_Dk_7_gof30EIlqgFKkxPJA\">organised a Givealittle appeal to support costs associated with her daughter\u2019s death.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI\u2019m a solo parent, I don\u2019t have heaps of money and have no funeral plan.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cWe will give her a memorial and my brother has helped organise a bench seat to be put up at school because when she was upset at school she\u2019d run to a bench and cry and call me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cSo everyone will know that bench is a safe space for them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">Peddie  had an important message for parents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cHug your children, tell them how much you love them. Kids need to know how loved they are.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cRemember that words can hurt and should not be used as a weapon. We do not always know what others are going through and struggling with.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cAs adults, it is our responsibility to teach the young to bring love and light into a world that can be so cruel \u2013 a world that I know must be so hard to face as a young person.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"uXGlmRGscvPe\" style=\"display:none\">To learn more about this topic, you can click on the banner below to watch Under the Influence, the Herald\u2019s new online video series about the harm social media can do to young people and how we can respond.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A memorial is being held today to remember Minke, with a bench seat dedicated to her memory to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":531117,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[74,1763,3620,4058,9539,13978,634,1968,8912,8127,60083,5338,262097,2721,111,139,69,1118,262098,46728,213,8911,5163,1961,61,1524,1455],"class_list":["post-531116","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-sports","tag-after","tag-article","tag-bullying","tag-contains","tag-content","tag-daughters","tag-death","tag-discusses","tag-distressing","tag-end","tag-heartfelt","tag-makes","tag-minke","tag-mum","tag-new-zealand","tag-newzealand","tag-nz","tag-of","tag-peddie","tag-plea","tag-sports","tag-suicide","tag-teen","tag-this","tag-to","tag-waikato","tag-warning"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/531116","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=531116"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/531116\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/531117"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=531116"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=531116"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=531116"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}