{"id":53560,"date":"2025-10-01T05:40:23","date_gmt":"2025-10-01T05:40:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/53560\/"},"modified":"2025-10-01T05:40:23","modified_gmt":"2025-10-01T05:40:23","slug":"heres-how-lifting-weights-in-my-40s-changed-my-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/53560\/","title":{"rendered":"Here\u2019s How Lifting Weights in My 40s Changed My Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_1-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> I never meant to become a powerlifter.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_3-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> In fact, it happened by accident. In my mid-30s, I was in a low place physically and mentally. I was burned out, tired and in pain all the time. I had been living with chronic back pain for five years that shaped every part of my day. There was a period when I couldn\u2019t even get up in the morning without rolling onto the floor first. I genuinely believed that might be how I lived the rest of my life. I was told, more than once, that even if I had surgery, being pain-free wasn\u2019t a realistic goal.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_5-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> I started working with a trainer because I wanted to learn how to box. I wanted to become more active to improve my physical and mental health, and boxing seemed fun and a good way to de-stress. Plus, I liked how fast-paced and engaging it seemed. Something else became clear as I trained: I was strong\u2014very strong. As part of my training, I started <a class=\"recommendation-inline-link-ai\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eatingwell.com\/benefits-of-lifting-weights-11756138\" link-destination-recommendation-ai=\"true\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">lifting weights<\/a>. My trainer added more weight to the bar as I progressed, and I was surprised how strong I was\u2014and how much I loved it.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_7-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> This was the transition to powerlifting\u2014I was drawn to the feelings I felt during those workouts: the clarity, the confidence, the calm.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_11-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> If you\u2019re not familiar with powerlifting, let me explain. It\u2019s a strength sport built around three lifts: the squat, the bench press and the deadlift. Unlike bodybuilding, which emphasizes muscle growth, definition and appearance, or Olympic lifting, which focuses on two explosive movements\u2014the snatch and the clean and jerk\u2014powerlifting comes down to one thing: pure, honest strength.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_13-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> For me, it\u2019s also mental. There is a strength and clarity that comes from lifting very heavy weights. It\u2019s the only time I feel completely free. When I\u2019m under a barbell, pushing or pulling hundreds of pounds of iron, I can\u2019t think about anything else\u2014not my restaurants, not the schedule, not the never-ending parental to-do list. That moment, that effort, is total presence. It\u2019s meditative. It\u2019s liberating. And it\u2019s all mine.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_15-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> When I first discovered the sport, I started following powerlifters on social media. I dreamed about doing a powerlifting competition for years, but I never believed that I was strong enough or good enough to step onto the platform. I worried I wouldn\u2019t belong and that people might laugh if I failed. I was nervous to put on a singlet, nervous to compete and nervous to fail publicly\u2014those fears kept me from competing for many years.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_17-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Even if I had overcome those fears, life had other plans: I opened three restaurants, I wrote a book, my spouse and I spent seven years trying to have a baby\u2014and didn\u2019t succeed\u2014and then came a pandemic. I finally got pregnant, and our daughter arrived in the fall of 2022.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_19-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> There was nothing more clarifying for me than becoming a parent, especially an older parent. I gave birth to my daughter when I was 44.\u00a0 I made a promise to myself to improve my physical health\u2014not just to \u201cget strong,\u201d but to be healthy for the long run. For six months I walked 10,000 steps a day. I swam. I moved. I focused. And suddenly, I wasn\u2019t just lifting for myself\u2014I was lifting for her. To always show up, to keep up and to be there for as many years of her life as I possibly could.\u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_21-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> I thought again about competing, but all of my old insecurities came rushing back. But this time, I thought that having a goal could give my training a new purpose and might push me in a way nothing else had. So, I signed up.\n<\/p>\n<p>Binh Tran<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_24-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> I competed in my first meet when I was 46. I chalked my hands, stepped onto the platform and did something I had only dreamed about for years. It was one of the most powerful experiences of my life. Not because I was fearless\u2014I was scared, but I did it anyway. And guess what? People didn\u2019t laugh. They cheered. They welcomed me. And I walked away not only stronger, but more confident, more focused and more proud of who I am than I\u2019ve ever been.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_26-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> Powerlifting gave me a new identity: not just chef, not just mom, not just business owner. I am an athlete. That word felt so far from me for so long, but now it\u2019s mine. And I\u2019m not giving it back.\n<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_28-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\"> There\u2019s a particular kind of power in starting something new later in life\u2014especially something you were told not to do. You do it for yourself. You do it because you\u2019ve earned the right to take up space.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I never meant to become a powerlifter. In fact, it happened by accident. 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