{"id":559712,"date":"2026-08-05T11:46:10","date_gmt":"2026-08-05T11:46:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/559712\/"},"modified":"2026-08-05T11:46:10","modified_gmt":"2026-08-05T11:46:10","slug":"woman-sentenced-for-sexual-offending-against-13-year-old-son-of-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/559712\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman sentenced for sexual offending against 13-year-old son of partner"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cI feel like I failed as a mother and couldn\u2019t protect my son,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Her son now had attachment issues, had stopped attending school and the \u201cgoals and dreams\u201d he once had were gone, along with his innocence, the mother said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The woman had damaged the already fragile relationship her son and a sibling had with their father.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThey could have had a separate supportive family in you,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Instead, \u201cthose relationships will be forever tarnished by your selfish behaviour\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cNow you are behind bars, no one gets the last laugh. There is no revenge, just devastation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The 25-year-old earlier pleaded guilty in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/district-court\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/district-court\/\">Tauranga District Court<\/a> to seven charges of sexual connection with a young person under 16 relating to a series of incidents in 2024.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The first instance of sexual intercourse occurred in the woman\u2019s car, when the boy was visiting his dad and his dad\u2019s family in the South Island during the October school holidays.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The sexual offending was repeated on multiple occasions during the same school holiday visit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Later, when the boy had returned to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/bay-of-plenty\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/topic\/bay-of-plenty\/\">Bay of Plenty<\/a>, where he lived with his mum, the woman travelled to the region with a friend.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">On November 1, the boy\u2019s mum reported him missing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The next day, the woman had intercourse with the boy in her car.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">He was found by police with the woman in her car on November 6 and was taken back to his mother.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">But later that day, he was again reported missing from his mum\u2019s address.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The woman had managed to get accommodation in Tauranga and told the occupant the boy was her 16-year-old brother.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">But the next morning, the occupant noticed the pair had slept in the same bed and the boy had \u201clove bite\u201d marks on his neck. <\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Police were told where the woman was and went to the address.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The woman claimed the boy wasn\u2019t there but, with permission from the occupant, they searched the address and found him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Police noted the marks on his neck and that he had all his possessions with him, and returned him to his mum.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The woman\u2019s charges related to numerous instances of sexual intercourse that occurred between November 1 and 7, 2024, at various locations in the Tauranga area.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Extremely concerning\u2019 comments made by woman in pre-sentence report<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">At sentencing on Tuesday, Judge Melinda Mason said the aggravating features of the case included breach of trust, inherent in a situation where the victim was the woman\u2019s stepson, and she had been in a parental role towards him for a \u201cnumber of years\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The boy had also provided a victim impact statement, explaining he now has no contact with his father and there are so many complications he \u201cdoesn\u2019t know how to deal with\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The judge said the boy wanted the woman to \u201cstay away from him\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cAnd this, he says, includes your son [which the woman shares with the victim\u2019s father], and of course, that\u2019s disappointing as well, because obviously that\u2019s another impact on a person that\u2019s innocent from this offending,\u201d the judge said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The judge noted the woman had already been dealt with by the court over one incident with the boy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">He had initially only disclosed one instance of abuse, which led to the woman being charged with sexual connection with a young person, and indecent assault. She had immediately pleaded guilty and been sentenced to one year\u2019s intensive supervision.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">However, more offending was later disclosed, detailing further instances of sexual intercourse over the same time period, leading to further charges.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">All the offending occurred over about a month, with the judge noting a degree of planning, because the boy had \u201crun away from home\u201d and there were addresses and locations the woman had set up for her offending.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">There was an agreed starting point between the Crown and defence of three years\u2019 imprisonment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Defence lawyer Alexandra Dawick sought a discount for remorse, but this was opposed by the Crown.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Crown prosecutor Hannah Speight said while the woman had filed a remorse letter, the contents of a pre-sentence report were \u201cextremely concerning\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">\u201cThey indicate that there is, in fact, no remorse,\u201d Speight said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Dawick said while she accepted there were \u201cconcerning comments\u201d made in the report, more weight should be placed on the psychological report.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The judge noted issues raised in the report, including that the woman\u2019s mother had suffered chronic depression, leading to a degree of neglect in the woman\u2019s upbringing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">She\u2019d had low engagement with school, because of minimal supervision and encouragement, and had dropped out early without qualifications.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">She\u2019d had an early introduction to sexual activity where she was subjected to the behaviour of older males, and had also had early exposure to alcohol and drugs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The judge said she had some \u201cnormalised issues around age discrepancy with sexual relationships\u201d, noting the victim\u2019s father, with whom she remains in a relationship, was significantly older than her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">She had PTSD after sexual assaults, and mental health issues that included a history of self-harm, cannabis-use disorder and a borderline personality disorder.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The judge accepted that all of those issues warranted a 10% discount, with a 5% discount for youth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">She didn\u2019t accept there should be a discount for remorse beyond what was captured by a guilty plea discount of 20%.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">The woman was given a seven-month reduction because of time spent on electronically monitored bail.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">She received an end sentence of 16 months\u2019 imprisonment, which meant she was automatically registered on the Child Sex Offenders Register.<\/p>\n<p class=\"GVVHMTqjHdqyH\" style=\"display:none\">Hannah Bartlett is a Tauranga-based Open Justice reporter at NZME. 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