{"id":564795,"date":"2026-08-10T15:26:09","date_gmt":"2026-08-10T15:26:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/564795\/"},"modified":"2026-08-10T15:26:09","modified_gmt":"2026-08-10T15:26:09","slug":"nzs-retirement-village-population-is-almost-entirely-white-where-is-everyone-else","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/564795\/","title":{"rendered":"NZ\u2019s retirement village population is almost entirely white. Where is everyone else?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Caring for family elders is an ingrained cultural expectation for many New Zealanders. Madeleine Chapman speaks to members of this invisible workforce who have taken on the \u2018privilege and burden\u2019, saving the government millions.<\/p>\n<p>Helena* is on her lunch break. The 24-year-old doesn\u2019t get out much these days. As the primary caregiver for her 76-year-old grandpa, Helena\u2019s daily routine consists of monitoring his myriad medications, cooking meals according to his diabetic needs, cleaning up when he has his \u201cquite regular\u201d accidents, playing Tongan music in an attempt to stimulate his brain which is struggling with vascular dementia, and making sure he doesn\u2019t try to sneak in sweet treats or wander outside to climb the tree in their backyard. \u201cHis behaviour now is very childlike,\u201d says Helena, who can only sit down for an interview at a nearby cafe because her mum isn\u2019t working today so is at home with Helena\u2019s grandpa instead. \u201cIt\u2019s hard seeing someone who raised me now become the person that I have to care for in that way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Helena has lived with her grandparents her whole life. A three-bedroom K\u0101inga Ora house in central Auckland has been their home for 30 years, with the couple helping to raise Helena and her sister while their mum worked.<\/p>\n<p>In 2021, Helena\u2019s grandma fell ill after a series of strokes, and then was diagnosed with dementia. Her care was shared between Helena, her sister and her mum. At the time, Helena was 19 and studying, but soon left university to work full time. She and her sister would care for her grandma during the day, then when their mum got home from work, they\u2019d swap out and Helena would work a night shift at McDonald\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>Helena\u2019s grandma died in 2023, and soon after, her grieving and \u201creally depressed\u201d grandpa\u2019s health deteriorated. It wasn\u2019t long before he too needed full-time care in the home he shares with Helena, her mum, sister, sister\u2019s partner and two young cousins. With mum, sister and partner all working, Helena became the default caregiver while on the jobseeker benefit. When her grandpa was officially diagnosed with dementia earlier this year, Helena\u2019s case manager advised her to apply for the supported living payment \u2013 a higher benefit for those caring for someone with a significant illness or disability. She\u2019s still waiting for her application to be approved.<\/p>\n<p>Being a full-time caregiver at home as a 24-year-old is \u201ca lot\u201d, says Helena, \u201cboth mentally and emotionally. I see a lot of people my age having freedom, and then it\u2019s a little bit of guilt when I do feel that way.\u201d Despite the toll, Helena says she took on the role \u201cwillingly\u201d, largely for cultural reasons. Helena\u2019s grandpa is Tongan, and her grandma was Samoan. \u201cBeing raised Samoan, I was raised with service at the heart of our culture, especially our family.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI just see it as a privilege and a burden at the same time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The privilege and burden of caring for New Zealand\u2019s oldest residents has raised alarms in recent years as experts warn that the country\u2019s already strained aged care infrastructure will soon crumble under the weight of our rapidly ageing population. The number of New Zealanders living in either retirement villages or rest homes continues to increase \u2013 the 2023 census recorded 39,864 New Zealanders living independently in retirement villages, and 33,417 people living in \u201cresidential care\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Residential care, or aged care, encompasses facilities providing rest-home level care, hospital-level care, dementia and psychogeriatric care, typically for people aged over 80. Retirement villages, meanwhile, offer \u201cindependent community living\u201d as a lifestyle choice for retirees. The New Zealand Retirement Village Database in 2022 showed 65% of retirement villages in New Zealand contained an aged care facility for residents.<\/p>\n<p>Retirement villages skew overwhelmingly P\u0101keh\u0101. In the 2023 census, about 83% of New Zealanders aged 65 and over identified as European. But for retirement village residents, that number jumped to a massive 96.9%, with just 1.8% Asian and 0.4% Pacific.<\/p>\n<p>Residential care numbers evened out a bit, with 88.4% European, 4.2% Asian and 2.5% Pacific. In Auckland, Pacific elders are both the most likely to have a disability (and at younger ages) and the least likely to receive aged care within a facility.<\/p>\n<p>As New Zealanders get older and live longer, there\u2019s an urgent call to reform aged care. Recent reports revealed instances of elderly patients essentially living at the hospital \u2013 or worse, discharged home without any support \u2013 due to a shortage of beds at aged care facilities. <a href=\"https:\/\/static.info.content.health.nz\/docs\/publications\/A-Review-of-Aged-Care-Funding-and-Service-Models.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">A 2024 Health NZ review<\/a> of the aged care sector found that \u201chigh-priority M\u0101ori, Pacific and Asian individuals are much less likely than other ethnicities to be promptly admitted to an [aged residential care] facility\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Patients receive a MAPLe (Method for Assigning Priority Levels) score. If their score is four or five, aged residential care should be considered and 24-hour care support likely needed. In 2021\/22, Europeans were far, far more likely to enter a residential care facility within 12 months of receiving a four or five MAPLe score than any other ethnicity.<\/p>\n<p>Helena\u2019s grandpa, with his dementia diagnosis and comorbidities, would likely be recommended residential care, if not now then very soon. He would qualify for near full government subsidies given the family\u2019s financial situation, which would mean his care fees being paid by his NZ Super and topped up by the government, as much as $1,200 a week (the average government spend on a subsidised rest home resident in 2023 was $65,000 per year, compared to $7,400 for at-home care services).\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Health NZ\u2019s 2024 report, prepared by Sapere, noted that \u201cgiven M\u0101ori, Pacific and Asian populations do not utilise [aged residential care] at the same rate as NZ Europeans, a case could be made that a more equitable funding arrangement would involve a significant increase in [home care] expenditure\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>By caring for her grandpa full time at home, Helena is both freeing up a bed in a facility for someone else, and saving the government money. The supported living payment, if her application is approved, would pay $424.60 a week.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"responsive\" style=\"position:absolute;top:0;left:0;bottom:0;right:0;box-sizing:border-box;padding:0;border:none;margin:auto;display:block;width:0;height:0;min-width:100%;max-width:100%;min-height:100%;max-height:100%\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Rose* was about 40 when she became the sole caregiver for her widowed Samoan mum in Wellington. Rose\u2019s dad died years earlier, but her sister\u2019s family also lived at home so the care responsibility was shared. When they moved out 17 years ago, Rose, now 57, became the primary carer. \u201cIt was never a discussion with the family,\u201d she remembers. \u201cIt\u2019s just something that happened because I happened to be staying with her, and I think if she was staying with somebody else, then it might have just fallen on that person.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Until recently, Rose\u2019s mum was largely independent. She was a prolific cook, had lots of visitors and, although she couldn\u2019t drive, liked to use her Gold Card to catch the bus and train around Wellington. Rose worked five minutes from home, \u201cand Mum knew it too\u201d, so could always pop home for small errands like firing up YouTube on the computer or grabbing something from the dairy.<\/p>\n<p>Now, however, Rose\u2019s mum is 90 and rapidly slowing down. The medical appointments have become more frequent and she can\u2019t leave the house on her own. After being made redundant at her long-held job last year, Rose was able to find new work, but it\u2019s 45 minutes away. \u201cIt does become a worry sometimes when I know that she isn\u2019t feeling that great,\u201d Rose says. \u201cSo sometimes I call just to make sure that she\u2019s going to answer the phone.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The income is good, but Rose will soon be leaving the job as, among other reasons, \u201cthe distance that I\u2019m away from home is a bit of a concern\u2026 and the hours I\u2019m putting in are just a bit too long.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For both Helena and Rose, having their loved one cared for out of home is not an option for cultural and social reasons. Helena\u2019s grandpa always spoke Tongan, Samoan and English (in that order), and despite speaking English to his granddaughters for decades, he now speaks only in Samoan. Helena suspects as his dementia progresses, he\u2019ll eventually speak exclusively Tongan, his first language. \u201cSo that\u2019s why I\u2019m now trying to learn Tongan.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Moving him into a new environment, where only English is spoken and strangers are caring for him, would be \u201cunnecessary stress\u201d, she thinks. \u201cFor some people it does work, but I think for Pacific Islanders especially, they thrive off being surrounded by others in their culture.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rose\u2019s mum can speak some English but communicates mostly in Samoan, and has lived in her own, same home for decades. \u201cShe just wouldn\u2019t be happy [in a village or rest home],\u201d says Rose. \u201cI reckon she\u2019d just shut down if we put her in there. So after everything that she\u2019s done, the least we can do is look after her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"responsive\" style=\"position:absolute;top:0;left:0;bottom:0;right:0;box-sizing:border-box;padding:0;border:none;margin:auto;display:block;width:0;height:0;min-width:100%;max-width:100%;min-height:100%;max-height:100%\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Caring for family elders is an ingrained cultural expectation for many New Zealanders, and begins well before medical care is required. While increased government funding of $79m for 2026\/27 was welcomed by aged care facilities, wh\u0101nau who want their elders to age well in place have been working on their own solutions.<\/p>\n<p>In June, Rotorua iwi Ng\u0101ti Whakaue <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/rotorua-daily-post\/news\/rotorua-ngati-whakaue-launches-world-first-papakainga-aged-care-model\/L7FZ7YY6ZBAVHAWULJPVZMWAPE\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">unveiled a papak\u0101inga model of aged care<\/a>, in partnership with kaupapa M\u0101ori health workforce development organisation Te Rau Ora, which focused on supporting the \u201cunregulated workforce\u201d that was \u201cwh\u0101nau that support wh\u0101nau\u201d. The model included an aim to develop a bespoke training programme for wh\u0101nau carers that adhered to NZQA frameworks.<\/p>\n<p>For Chinese, wh\u0101nau care is a long process (Asians have the highest life expectancy in New Zealand) and many families have built \u2013 literally \u2013 their own care facilities.<\/p>\n<p>Janet* lives in her own home with her husband and three young children. And in the backyard, in a specially built small home, lives her 73-year-old mum.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>When Janet\u2019s dad died 10 years ago, her mum lived independently for a couple of years, continuing to work. But after Janet had kids, she realised her mum was working full time, going straight from work to Janet\u2019s place to help with the kids, then going home to sleep. \u201cIt was stupid for her to go back to her house just to sleep,\u201d Janet remembers. So when the family moved to a bigger house, they moved Porpor in. \u201cShe was being so helpful towards us, and it was also a cost-saving thing for her because she was paying for power and internet and all of that kind of stuff at her house.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>After living together for a while and finding the situation worked for everyone, Janet and her husband had a small home built for Porpor behind their house. It was designed and built with future needs in mind \u2013 including a bathroom big enough for a carer in case her mum ever needed one. \u201cThe plan would be that she would stay there forever, really,\u201d says Janet, who lived with her parents for years after her dad had a stroke.<\/p>\n<p>At the moment, Janet thinks she and her young family benefit the most from the arrangement. \u201cShe picks up the kids from school for us and drops them off, she gets them to activities. I organise most of it, but you just tell her what to do, she does it all,\u201d Janet says. In return, Janet is careful not to take it for granted.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know that on a Saturday she goes to the bowling club in the afternoon, so if I need someone to look after the kids on a Saturday, I would never ask her because I know that\u2019s her time. She\u2019d drop anything if I asked, so I just don\u2019t ask.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>All three women (caregiving overwhelmingly lands in the hands of daughters) say that if their loved one\u2019s care needs became too much, they would look into rest home care. But all also agree that the threshold for taking them out of their own home is extremely high. While Janet\u2019s mum currently helps a lot, she\u2019s due to have a knee replacement soon, and Janet suspects the caregiving dynamic will shift heavily following surgery.<\/p>\n<p>For all three, the care they received from their elders growing up has fostered an urge to return the favour. \u201cMy parents worked fucking hard for us to have this life,\u201d says Janet.\u201d I am so much better off [financially] than my parents, but I am successful now because my parents worked so hard. We owned restaurants growing up, and they were working 24\/7. I don\u2019t work 24\/7. My life\u2019s fricking easy compared to theirs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"responsive\" style=\"position:absolute;top:0;left:0;bottom:0;right:0;box-sizing:border-box;padding:0;border:none;margin:auto;display:block;width:0;height:0;min-width:100%;max-width:100%;min-height:100%;max-height:100%\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Rose has never married or had children herself, and most of her adult life has been spent in service to her mum. Nearing 60, she hopes that once she is no longer caring for her mum, she can travel and maybe live overseas. (\u201cIf I wasn\u2019t staying with her, I wouldn\u2019t be living here in Wellington.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p>Helena, meanwhile, has to remind herself that her life is still evolving. \u201cBecoming a caregiver so young for my grandma, and then on top of that with my grandpa, it\u2019s like I don\u2019t know for sure what I want to do,\u201d she says. \u201cWhile I\u2019m caring for him, I\u2019m trying to figure out likes and dislikes and things I\u2019m interested in, and I\u2019m taking on hobbies to fill my time, but also to make it make this time not feel like I\u2019m putting my life on pause.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t know how long she\u2019ll be caring for her grandpa, and thinks a bit more financial assistance for aged carers at home is warranted. She also wants to see more wraparound support, having recently joined an online group for those caring for their relatives, started by a local TikToker. \u201cI just think [we need] more of those support groups, ensuring that caregivers not only are getting paid the money that they should be paid, because technically it is a job, but also having that support from the government that acknowledges that what they\u2019re doing is a service unto their family but also to society.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And on that note, Helena needs to go. Her mum has an errand to run and her grandpa needs his meds.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Caring for family elders is an ingrained cultural expectation for many New Zealanders. 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