{"id":58639,"date":"2025-10-03T18:26:08","date_gmt":"2025-10-03T18:26:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/58639\/"},"modified":"2025-10-03T18:26:08","modified_gmt":"2025-10-03T18:26:08","slug":"jacinda-arderns-new-kids-book-reviewed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/58639\/","title":{"rendered":"Jacinda Ardern\u2019s new kids\u2019 book, reviewed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mum\u2019s Busy Work was inspired by juggling motherhood with running the country. What does a frazzled working mother and her preschooler make of it?<\/p>\n<p>As I lay next to her at some ungodly hour one recent morning, in between bouts of kicking me in the stomach and pulling my hair, my three-year-old asked me to sing her a \u201cMum\u2019s Busy Work song\u201d. That\u2019s how I know Jacinda Ardern\u2019s new picture book has really made an impact \u2013 my kid makes 4am demands for impromptu musical compositions based on it.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019d been reading it at bedtime for the past few nights, alongside two books about underpants \u2013 a current fixation stemming from recent success in toilet training. Relatability is important, which is why, I guess, she likes Mum\u2019s Busy Work. \u201cToday I got out of bed and asked Mum what day it was,\u201d begins the book, narrated from the perspective of the kid, who is based, of course, on Ardern\u2019s daughter Neve. \u201c\u2018Monday,\u2019 she said. I asked if that was a daycare day. She said yes. I stomped my feet. I didn\u2019t want to go to daycare. Mum said that she didn\u2019t always feel like going to work either.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Just like us! Although in our case it\u2019s not so much feet stomping as full-noise, body-thrashing tantrums, and I wouldn\u2019t bother mentioning not feeling like going to work because I know she gives zero fucks. There are a few unrealistic moments like that in Mum\u2019s Busy Work. \u201cI had fun at daycare,\u201d reads the second page. \u201cWe made unicorns. I don\u2019t know if Mum had a fun day. She looked really tired when she got home.\u201d Come on. Preschoolers are the most self-centred people in the universe. I could be bleeding out from a significant head wound and my daughter would care only if it directly impacted my ability to immediately cater to her every whim. She definitely does not notice if (when) I look tired \u2013 and to be fair, I doubt there\u2019s been a moment when I haven\u2019t looked tired since the day she was born.<\/p>\n<p>Mum\u2019s Busy Work, the latest in a Jacinda Ardern publicity onslaught following the <a href=\"https:\/\/thespinoff.co.nz\/books\/04-06-2025\/a-jacinda-ardern-biographer-jacinda-arderns-memoir\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">memoir<\/a> and the <a href=\"https:\/\/thespinoff.co.nz\/politics\/09-08-2025\/gone-by-lunchtime-thoughts-on-the-jacinda-ardern-film-and-book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">movie<\/a>, follows a week in the Neve character\u2019s life: there\u2019s the pre-daycare strop on Monday, Mum leaving the house before she wakes up on Tuesday, Mum walking her to daycare on Wednesday, and so on and so forth. Then, on Sunday, Mum brings out \u201cMum\u2019s Busy Work\u201d, the name Neve has given her \u201cbig, giant briefcase\u201d. The book concludes with Monday coming back around again, and Neve\u2019s feet-stomping turning into a dancing session with her mum and her \u201cclippy-cloppy\u201d shoes, which are a recurring motif.<\/p>\n<p>And you know what, the book is fine. Really rather sweet, I guess \u2013 and obviously it\u2019s struck a chord with my kid. But as many parents will know, reading to children, while important, can get pretty tedious, so you really start to appreciate the good books. As Eirlys Hunter <a href=\"https:\/\/thespinoff.co.nz\/books\/21-11-2021\/lots-of-kids-books-suck-heres-how-to-pick-a-good-one\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">wrote for The Spinoff<\/a> back in 2021, \u201cA good picture book text is bloody difficult to write. Their few words should read like poetry, paying attention to rhythm, assonance, sibilance and all the other language techniques. There must be a story, a reason for turning to the next page. But not a word too many, and each one should roll around the tongue and be a pleasure to say.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mum\u2019s Busy Work is not terrible, not at all, but it\u2019s definitely not one of the rare gems. The lines are not pleasurable to say \u2013 even after reading the damn thing about a hundred times, I still stumbled over some of them. I also couldn\u2019t help but notice a lack of consistency in tense use and at least one typo (\u201cI asked Mum if it was day care day today\u201d \u2013 where\u2019s the \u201ca\u201d?). Having said that, I\u2019ve read much worse lines in any number of random picture books picked out by my child from the library, and Mum\u2019s Busy Work does have the benefit of being beautifully illustrated by Ruby Jones, best known for her \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=This+is+your+home+and+you+should+have+been+safe+here&amp;rlz=1C5CHFA_enNZ785NZ785&amp;oq=This+is+your+home+and+you+should+have+been+safe+here&amp;gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIHCAEQABjvBTIKCAIQABiABBiiBDIKCAMQABiABBiiBDIKCAQQABiABBiiBDIHCAUQABjvBdIBBzM1N2owajeoAgCwAgA&amp;sourceid=chrome&amp;ie=UTF-8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">This is your home and you should have been safe here<\/a>\u201d illustration in response to the Christchurch mosque attacks. My child loves the pictures, poring over every tiny detail \u2013 \u201cHer pyjamas have hearts on!\u201d \u201cShe\u2019s got a yellow cup of tea!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"A group of adults and a young girl, seen from behind, walk up stone steps outside a grand building. Flags are in the foreground, and the child holds hands with a woman in a black coat.\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"responsive\" style=\"position:absolute;top:0;left:0;bottom:0;right:0;box-sizing:border-box;padding:0;border:none;margin:auto;display:block;width:0;height:0;min-width:100%;max-width:100%;min-height:100%;max-height:100%\"\/>Jacinda Ardern walks up the steps of parliament with husband Clarke Gayford and their daughter Neve after the proclamation of accession ceremony to acknowledge King Charles III as the king of New Zealand in September 2022 (Photo: Fiona Goodall\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>As for the concept, I\u2019m in two minds. The guilty working mum trope is trite, but there is truth at its core. There\u2019s nothing groundbreaking in these pages \u2013\u00a0it could\u2019ve been written in the 90s, really \u2013\u00a0and the manosphere-dwelling turn-Arderners would have to look pretty hard to find any red flags as far as woke feminist indoctrination goes. While acknowledging that our <a href=\"https:\/\/thespinoff.co.nz\/society\/15-03-2025\/the-spinoff-essay-all-my-daughters-daddies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">\u201cunconventional\u201d household status<\/a> probably gives me an unrealistically optimistic view of how far families have progressed, I found the nod to Dad doing the laundry a little laboured and cringe, to be honest. In 2025, is that really out of the ordinary? Depressingly, maybe it is.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>As historian Katie Pickles noted in a <a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/in-her-new-childrens-book-jacinda-ardern-explores-working-mum-guilt-through-her-daughters-eyes-265465\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">recent piece on the book for The Conversation<\/a>, \u201cthere is a hint of conservatism in Ardern\u2019s insistence on labelling herself a \u2018mum\u2019 as well as a professional politician\u201d. Mum\u2019s Busy Work finishes with Neve \u2013 who had earlier suggested that her mum\u2019s job was eating chocolate, before being told it was actually \u201clooking after people\u201d \u2013 saying she knows what her mum\u2019s job really is. \u201cIt\u2019s dancing with me\u2026 reading with me\u2026 playing with me\u2026 It\u2019s loving me.\u201d I mean, sure, same, but it almost feels apologetic for having a life outside motherhood.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis book is based on the words and lessons taught to me by my daughter, Neve, while I was prime minister of New Zealand,\u201d reads Ardern\u2019s end note. \u201cMay every child know that no matter what, they are our life\u2019s greatest work.\u201d Maybe I\u2019m just too cynical, maybe it was added for the American market \u2013 there is a \u201cMom\u2019s Busy Work\u201d, of course \u2013 but I can\u2019t read that last line without my eyes rolling so far back into my skull they may never return.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But you know what, maybe none of that matters, because my kid loves it. Oh, as for the song request? Sometimes \u201cMum\u2019s Busy Work\u201d is pretending to be asleep.<\/p>\n<p>Mum\u2019s Busy Work (Penguin Random House NZ, $30) is available <a href=\"https:\/\/www.unitybooks.co.nz\/products\/mum-s-busy-work\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">from Unity Books<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Mum\u2019s Busy Work was inspired by juggling motherhood with running the country. 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