{"id":612363,"date":"2026-09-26T11:36:11","date_gmt":"2026-09-26T11:36:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/612363\/"},"modified":"2026-09-26T11:36:11","modified_gmt":"2026-09-26T11:36:11","slug":"diana-wanted-william-and-harry-to-know-charles-loved-me-expert-claims","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/612363\/","title":{"rendered":"Diana wanted William and Harry to know Charles &#8216;loved me&#8217;, expert claims"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Princess Diana insisted that Princes William and Harry were under no illusions that their father, King Charles, loved her, a royal biographer has claimed.<\/p>\n<p>Ingrid Seward, friend of the late princess, claims the then-Prince Charles genuinely cared for his first wife, though the pair were fundamentally mismatched at that stage of their lives.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He was plagued by guilt because he knew he was the one who should have made it work,&#8221; Ms Seward told Hello magazine.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But her intense jealousy and many, many other things&#8230; they were just not suited at the time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The expert&#8217;s remarks come as Diana&#8217;s brother, Earl Spencer, published his own memoir about the late princess. <\/p>\n<p>Titled Swan Song: Diana my Sister, the book offers his personal account of her life, including her marriage to the then-Prince of Wales.<\/p>\n<p>Describing his latest work, Earl Spencer wrote on Instagram: &#8220;When I finished the recording, I thought: &#8216;That is exactly what I wanted and needed to say &#8211; and she would, I reckon, have approved of every word&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Despite later doubling down, insisting his sister would be &#8220;cheering from the rafters&#8221; at its publication, he has been met with scepticism over his intentions for the memoir.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"c9d59\" data-rm-shortcode-id=\"9fb0016af8ea93c285d235cdae06dbdf\" data-rm-shortcode-name=\"rebelmouse-image\" class=\"rm-shortcode rm-lazyloadable-image \" lazy-loadable=\"true\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%203368%202400'%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" data-runner-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/princess-diana-prince-harry-prince-william-and-king-charles.jpg\" width=\"3368\" height=\"2400\" alt=\"Princess Diana, Prince Harry, Prince William and King Charles\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Princess Diana insisted that Princes William and Harry were under no illusions that her ex-husband, King Charles, loved her, a royal biographer has claimed<\/p>\n<p> | GETTY<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"3afa0\" data-rm-shortcode-id=\"a8470ac09b8a3632ae5786a866522999\" data-rm-shortcode-name=\"rebelmouse-image\" class=\"rm-shortcode rm-lazyloadable-image \" lazy-loadable=\"true\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%202000%202836'%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" data-runner-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/earl-spencer.jpg\" width=\"2000\" height=\"2836\" alt=\"Earl Spencer\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Earl Spencer  insisted his sister would be &#8216;cheering from the rafters&#8217; at the memoir&#8217;s publication<\/p>\n<p> | GETTY<\/p>\n<p>The expert even added one damning detail: &#8220;She said, &#8216;It&#8217;s very important to me, Ingrid, that my boys know that their father loved me. It&#8217;s really, really important&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The couple wed at St Paul&#8217;s Cathedral in 1981, when Diana was just 20, and the future King was 32 &#8211; an age gap of 12 years.<\/p>\n<p>They went on to have two sons, William and Harry, but their marriage was beset by well-documented difficulties throughout.<\/p>\n<p>Diana herself addressed the troubles in her now-famous 1995 BBC Panorama interview, declaring that &#8220;there were three of us in this marriage.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"bc1e8\" data-rm-shortcode-id=\"bbbbb77b9558b2b15964ea60fb4dbf01\" data-rm-shortcode-name=\"rebelmouse-image\" class=\"rm-shortcode rm-lazyloadable-image \" lazy-loadable=\"true\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%202731%204096'%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" data-runner-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/king-charles-and-princess-diana.jpg\" width=\"2731\" height=\"4096\" alt=\"King Charles and Princess Diana\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Charles and Diana married in 1981 and divorced in 1996<\/p>\n<p> | PA<\/p>\n<p>The pair formally ended their marriage in 1996, finalising their divorce after years of public speculation and private anguish.<\/p>\n<p>Tragically, Diana died just a year later, leaving behind a legacy that continues to captivate the nation.<\/p>\n<p>King Charles subsequently married Camilla, now Queen Camilla, in 2005.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Princess Diana insisted that Princes William and Harry were under no illusions that their father, King Charles, loved&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":612364,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[156,11018,111,139,69,18320,9855],"class_list":["post-612363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-entertainment","tag-king-charles","tag-new-zealand","tag-newzealand","tag-nz","tag-princess-diana","tag-royal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/612363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=612363"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/612363\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/612364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=612363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=612363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=612363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}