{"id":640579,"date":"2026-10-25T04:24:11","date_gmt":"2026-10-25T04:24:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/640579\/"},"modified":"2026-10-25T04:24:11","modified_gmt":"2026-10-25T04:24:11","slug":"making-me-beg-for-it-abusers-using-drugs-as-a-weapon-of-control","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/640579\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Making me beg for it&#8217;: Abusers using drugs as a weapon of control"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  [&amp;_p]:tit-sub-xl tit-sub-xl md:[&amp;_p]:d-tit-sub-xl md:d-tit-sub-xl mb-[1.3rem]\">Abusive partners are forcing women to drink, take drugs and misuse medication, with more than a fifth of Women\u2019s Refuge clients also blocked from seeking mental health support, new figures show.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">Women\u2019s Refuge gathered data from more than 5,000 clients for a report due out next year, and has shared some of its preliminary findings with 1News.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">Almost 21% of clients had been forced to drink alcohol, take drugs, or take more than they wanted to. A further 14.4% were forced to misuse their medication.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">The data also showed 21.6% had been blocked from accessing mental health services, counselling or other support organisations, while 7.2% were stopped from getting addiction support.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-greyDarkFaded\">New figures from Women&#8217;s Refuge show around one in five of their clients have been forced by their perpetrators to drink alcohol, take drugs, or take more than they wanted to. (Source: 1News)<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">As part of the research, Women\u2019s Refuge spoke to women who had lived through this abuse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">One woman said her partner had controlled her supply.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">\u201cHe was like literally drip feeding me to keep me high enough to keep wanting more. So, he was practically making me beg for it in the end and he wouldn\u2019t give me any money.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">Another said she was attacked with her baby in her arms after refusing to hand over money for meth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">\u201cHe roped me in, now that I look at it [&#8230;] I was holding [my baby] in my arms and he punched me and smacked me over. I was like nah we have to leave and that was all because he wanted me to give him all his benefit for meth and I was like no I can\u2019t do that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">Women\u2019s Refuge senior research adviser Cleo Arathoon said many perpetrators had also threatened to tell others about the women\u2019s drug and alcohol use.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">\u201cSo what we really hope that these figures show is that women don\u2019t necessarily just, and mums especially, don\u2019t necessarily just choose to use,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/auckland-university-of-technology-addictions-lecturer-suzett-QMPT4OBODZBGPHSB5ZBMDNSY3A.jpg\" alt=\"Auckland University of Technology addictions lecturer Suzette Jackson.\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"ImageMetadata__MetadataParagraph-sc-hi5x8q-0 cWTYyG image-metadata\">Auckland University of Technology addictions lecturer Suzette Jackson. (Source: 1News)<\/p>\n<p>Barriers to help<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">Auckland University of Technology addictions lecturer Suzette Jackson said mothers can be fearful about coming forward about their mental health or addiction issues due to the risk of having their children removed from their care.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">Residential programmes posed another hurdle for women with caregiving responsibilities, she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">&#8220;I&#8217;m a researcher at Higher Ground which is a residential service in Auckland that is mixed gender and we always find that there&#8217;s less women in that service and the key reason is that it&#8217;s a four month residential program and often there are caregivers and they can&#8217;t access those services,&#8221; Jackson said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">&#8220;So what that means is we need to be having services that are either community based, daycare based or day programs or specialist services that can accommodate women and their children.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/new-figures-from-womens-refuge-show-around-one-in-five-of-th-JZ36UGQ3ARHUDO3SDJLRSPK6ZI.jpg\" alt=\"New figures from Women's Refuge show around one in five of their clients have been forced by their perpetrators to drink alcohol, take drugs, or take more than they wanted to.\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"ImageMetadata__MetadataParagraph-sc-hi5x8q-0 cWTYyG image-metadata\">New figures from Women&#8217;s Refuge show around one in five of their clients have been forced by their perpetrators to drink alcohol, take drugs, or take more than they wanted to. (Source: istock.com)<\/p>\n<p>New service to help address South Island gap<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">Health New Zealand director of mental health and addiction commissioning Lisa Gestro said the agency was committed to strengthening support for women, parents and wh\u0101nau affected by substance use.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">\u201cWe recognise this is an area where there are opportunities to strengthen support for families affected by substance use,\u201d Gestro said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">She said Health NZ was working to set up a new pregnancy and parenting service by 2027\/28, as part of the Government\u2019s Action Plan to Prevent and Reduce Substance Harm.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-paragraph articleLinkText  lg mb-4\">The service is likely to be based in the South Island, where a Ministry of Health-commissioned report found there are currently no specific services of that kind. The North Island has six.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/domestic-violence-numbers-GDUBF34MVNCTJP6UPD3E6V5LTI.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"ImageMetadata__MetadataParagraph-sc-hi5x8q-0 cWTYyG image-metadata\">(Source: 1News)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Abusive partners are forcing women to drink, take drugs and misuse medication, with more than a fifth of&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":640580,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[20784,42,134,43,40,38,41,39,2248],"class_list":["post-640579","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-headlines","tag-alcohol","tag-headlines","tag-health","tag-news","tag-top-news","tag-top-stories","tag-topnews","tag-topstories","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/640579","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=640579"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/640579\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/640580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=640579"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=640579"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=640579"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}