{"id":110411,"date":"2025-09-03T01:26:12","date_gmt":"2025-09-03T01:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/110411\/"},"modified":"2025-09-03T01:26:12","modified_gmt":"2025-09-03T01:26:12","slug":"we-made-a-big-mistake-allowing-our-children-to-use-social-media-now-were-doing-it-again-with-ai-the-irish-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/110411\/","title":{"rendered":"We made a big mistake allowing our children to use social media. Now we\u2019re doing it again with AI \u2013 The Irish Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Not content with the threats posed by their poorly moderated and under-regulated social media platforms, Big Tech has another card up its sleeve.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The most recent research from CyberSafeKids, published on Tuesday, shows more than a quarter of primary schoolchildren and more than one-third of secondary school students are now using <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/artificial-intelligence\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/artificial-intelligence\/\">artificial intelligence<\/a> (AI)-powered chatbots.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">In some cases, this is for homework or to find information, but it is opening the door potentially to more worrying issues.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">These chatbots are increasingly embedded in popular platforms that children regularly use \u2013 such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/snapchat\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/snapchat\">Snapchat\u2019s<\/a> My AI and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/whatsapp\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/whatsapp\/\">WhatsApp\u2019s<\/a> Meta AI. When Snapchat expanded its AI tool, marketed as a fun and personalised companion, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/technology\/2023\/03\/14\/snapchat-myai\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/technology\/2023\/03\/14\/snapchat-myai\/\">reports<\/a> highlighted that the bot had, in some cases, offered advice of a sexual nature to children. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">More recently, Meta\u2019s AI has come under scrutiny following <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reuters.com\/investigates\/special-report\/meta-ai-chatbot-guidelines\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.reuters.com\/investigates\/special-report\/meta-ai-chatbot-guidelines\/\">a Reuters news report<\/a> on how it allowed conversations of a romantic and sensual nature with children \u2013 reportedly with full approval from the company\u2019s legal team and chief ethicist.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">A recent report from online safety campaign group Internet Matters found that more than one-third of children felt talking to a chatbot was like talking to a friend and, in some more vulnerable cases, more than a quarter said they would rather talk to a chatbot than a real person. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">While <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/openai\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/openai\/\">OpenAI\u2019s<\/a> Sam Altman has half-joked that we may one day have more interactions with bots than with other humans, the real-world consequences of this shift are a lot darker. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" alt=\"Sam Altman, co-founder and CEO of OpenAI. Photograph: Michael M. Santiago\/Getty\" class=\"c-image\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/U6HE3ONBHBFCVKNIAF7P7S4WFE.jpg\"   width=\"800\" height=\"533\"\/>Sam Altman, co-founder and CEO of OpenAI. Photograph: Michael M. Santiago\/Getty <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Just last week, the family of California 16-year-old Adam Raine filed a lawsuit in the US against Altman and Open AI, alleging its ChatGPT played a role in encouraging the teenager to take his own life this year. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">What began as simple homework research reportedly escalated into something far more disturbing: ChatGPT is said to have mentioned the word \u201csuicide\u201d six times more often than Adam did during their conversations, even advising him to keep their discussions secret from his family. A <a href=\"https:\/\/edition.cnn.com\/2024\/10\/29\/business\/video\/characterai-teen-suicide-digvid-duffy\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/edition.cnn.com\/2024\/10\/29\/business\/video\/characterai-teen-suicide-digvid-duffy\">similar case<\/a> is ongoing involving Character.AI and the death of a 14-year-old boy in Florida.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">We\u2019ve failed to learn from our  failure to act early and decisively to regulate social media. Once again, technology is racing ahead without proper safeguards. It\u2019s truly alarming that billion-dollar companies can roll out AI tools to children with little oversight. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">A cuddly toy faces rigorous safety checks before hitting shelves \u2013 yet children are in effect canaries in this digital coal mine. You can\u2019t get Taylor Swift lyrics on ChatGPT due to copyright laws, but suicide can reportedly be mentioned multiple times without triggering an interruption or a redirect in the conversation. It\u2019s madness.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">As children increasingly turn to AI for help with everything from homework to personal advice, it\u2019s more important than ever to equip them with strong critical thinking skills and the ability to question what they\u2019re being told. A seemingly authoritative chatbot could be a gateway to entirely inappropriate, misleading and frankly, in some cases, dangerous content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">While we might be failing to sufficiently regulate these AI-driven advances, we are, in theory, living in a more regulated online safety landscape with the now-enforceable Online Safety Code in Ireland and the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/digital-services-act\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/digital-services-act\/\">Digital Services Act<\/a> at the European level. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">We\u2019re seeing some shifts in children\u2019s online behaviour too, with a marked decrease in the last 12 months in children under the age of 13 who own their own smartphone. The decline from  almost half to 39 per cent is non-trivial and at CyberSafeKids we believe this is attributable to the grassroots movements we\u2019ve seen grow of parents and primary school communities focusing on delaying access to smartphones and to social media. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The number of children who report having underage accounts on social media with an age rating of 13+ is also down: from 84 per cent last year to 71 per cent this year \u2013 another positive trend.  This should drop further still since Big Tech is expected to put more age-assurance technology in place to stop underage access under the new rules. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">You might expect that reduced access among the under-13 cohort has led to less risk and better digital experiences, but that\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">There is a significant exposure among children as young as eight to the online world and to all of its forms including chatbots, recommender system-induced \u201crabbit holes\u201d and wholly inappropriate content. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">More than one in four primary school-age children under-13 report experiences of being upset or bothered by content or contact online \u2013 particularly in places such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/youtube\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/youtube\/\">YouTube<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/roblox\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/tags\/roblox\">Roblox<\/a>.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">While the new regulation represents a step in the right direction, significant blind spots remain. WhatsApp, for example, isn\u2019t covered under the Online Safety Code and doesn\u2019t appear to be classified as a \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/digital-strategy.ec.europa.eu\/en\/policies\/list-designated-vlops-and-vloses\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/digital-strategy.ec.europa.eu\/en\/policies\/list-designated-vlops-and-vloses\">very large online platform<\/a>\u201d under the Digital Services Act, despite clearly exceeding the user threshold. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">This is presumably because it\u2019s considered a \u201cprivate communications\u201d platform \u2013 though with chat groups that can exceed 1,000 users, that definition feels increasingly tenuous. As our report highlights, these large group spaces are far from private \u2013 and are often fertile ground for bullying. You\u2019ve now also got the added concern of access to the AI chatbot.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Ireland is simply not moving fast enough or being sufficiently ambitious. Real change hinges on three pillars: strong regulation and enforcement; embedding critical digital literacy into school curriculums; and equipping parents with the tools to guide their children\u2019s online lives effectively.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">We may be heading in the right direction, but the pace is far too slow for the realities children face today in an increasingly complex \u2013 and sometimes dangerous \u2013 digital world. Future generations are counting on us to act with greater urgency and ambition. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">Alex Cooney is chief executive of CyberSafeKids and a member of the Online Health Taskforce. CyberSafeKids new Trends &amp; Usage Report: A Life Behind The Screens is available at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cybersafekids.ie\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.cybersafekids.ie\">www.cybersafekids.ie<\/a> <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-paragraph paywall \">The Samaritans can be contacted on freephone 116 123 or email:<a href=\"https:\/\/www.irishtimes.com\/opinion\/2025\/09\/02\/opinion-we-made-a-big-mistake-allowing-our-children-to-use-social-media-now-were-doing-it-again-with-ai\/mailto:jo@samaritans.ie\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">jo@samaritans.ie<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Not content with the threats posed by their poorly moderated and under-regulated social media platforms, Big Tech has&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":110412,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[554,733,4308,1921,53425,994,53426,53428,53427,86,56,54,55,1235,132],"class_list":["post-110411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-artificial-intelligence","tag-ai","tag-artificial-intelligence","tag-artificialintelligence","tag-chatgpt","tag-cybersafekids","tag-digital-services-act","tag-open-ai","tag-roblox","tag-snapchat","tag-technology","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom","tag-whatsapp","tag-youtube"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=110411"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110411\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110412"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=110411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=110411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=110411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}