{"id":192760,"date":"2025-10-11T12:25:07","date_gmt":"2025-10-11T12:25:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/192760\/"},"modified":"2025-10-11T12:25:07","modified_gmt":"2025-10-11T12:25:07","slug":"our-son-passed-away-and-weve-been-frozen-in-sadness-what-do-we-do-with-his-finances","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/192760\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Our son passed away and we\u2019ve been frozen in sadness. What do we do with his finances?\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Two months after my son turned 18, he passed away. This was in August, 2023. We are frozen in sadness. We have not filed his final tax returns or closed his registered disability savings plan. The family registered education savings plan will be used by his younger brother, who is now 17. What do we do next? Contact the Canada Revenue Agency? The bank? What do we do now?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">We asked Julia Chung, chief executive, financial planner and family enterprise adviser at Spring Planning, to answer this one.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">While we could get into the intricacies of what you should do next, this is a catastrophic loss for a family. Know that you are not alone. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Although your intentions are in the right place, said Ms. Chung, taking this task on by yourself may not be manageable for your family. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">\u201cThe first thing we need to address is the feeling of being frozen,\u201d she said. \u201cThat\u2019s your body and your mind experiencing overwhelm \u2013 which is absolutely reasonable considering what you have been going through.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">It is essential that you seek support from professionals in a situation like this. \u201cEven if you\u2019re potentially capable of doing all the tasks, you haven\u2019t been able to, and help is important to get you through the next stages,\u201d Ms. Chung advised. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Start, she said, by building a team to take on what needs to be addressed. Here are the key players to consider recruiting: <\/p>\n<p>A grief counsellorA financial planner who has experience working with tax, estates and RDSPsAn accountant who can file the outstanding income taxes<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">If you\u2019re not sure how to find these professionals, Ms. Chung said you can start by contacting a member of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fpassociation.ca\/members\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the Financial Planning Association of Canada<\/a>. That planner can then connect you to the expertise and support you need.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">An RDSP, or registered disability savings plan, is a registered account available to individuals who qualify for the disability tax credit. The account is structured such that non-deductible contributions (up to a lifetime maximum) are matched with grants and bonds from the government based on household income, said Ms. Chung. \u201cInvestment income earned in the account is tax-deferred until withdrawal.\u201d More information on RDSPs can be found on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.canada.ca\/en\/revenue-agency\/services\/tax\/individuals\/topics\/registered-disability-savings-plan-rdsp.html\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.canada.ca\/en\/revenue-agency\/services\/tax\/individuals\/topics\/registered-disability-savings-plan-rdsp.html\">CRA<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rdsp.com\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.rdsp.com\/\">RDSP Plan Institute<\/a> websites, she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">\u201cThere isn\u2019t a lot to be done with the RDSP on death of a beneficiary, unfortunately,\u201d said Ms. Chung. The RDSP must be closed and all amounts remaining in the plan \u2013 after any required payment of government grants and bonds \u2013 must be paid out to the beneficiary\u2019s estate by Dec. 31 of the year after the calendar year in which the individual dies, she explained. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text mv-16 l-inset text-pb-8\" data-sophi-feature=\"interstitial\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/investing\/personal-finance\/retirement\/article-inheritance-investing-advice-for-heirs\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u2018How do I encourage my heirs to take more interest in investing their inheritance after I\u2019m gone?\u2019<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">If a disability assistance payment, which includes any payment from an RDSP to the beneficiary or to their estate after their death, has been made, the taxable portion of the DAP must be included in the income of the beneficiary\u2019s estate in the tax year that the payment was made. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">If the child didn\u2019t have any other assets \u2013 and as mentioned, the RESP will be used by their sibling \u2013 the RDSP is mostly administrative, Ms. Chung said. She suggested that the family may want to consider using any estate value as a way to honour their child. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">\u201cPerhaps a donation to their favourite charity, or starting a donor-advised fund that the family could contribute to in his honour could be a way of connecting and continuing his memory,\u201d she said. \u201cOr a park bench at his favourite location.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">The gesture itself doesn\u2019t have to be big or enduring, she said. \u201cSometimes a family activity that isn\u2019t too strenuous can help the family move forward in a meaningful way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Do you want advice on a financial planning or retirement issue that\u2019s affecting you? 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