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A recent emotional call on \u201cThe Ramsey Show<\/a>\u201d featured a woman named Sue from Chicago, who revealed a heartbreaking breakdown in her marriage and finances.<\/p>\n At 54, Sue is married with a daughter in high school. She called in to speak with hosts John Delony and Jade Warshaw, sharing that her husband had gambled away their savings<\/a> and their child\u2019s college fund. On top of that, Sue said she discovered more infidelity. \u201cI just found out that my husband no longer has savings, no longer has the college account for our child because he\u2019s gambling,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n Don’t Miss:<\/p>\n Husband Took Out Loans To Fund A Lifestyle<\/p>\n Sue recently started a new job, sensing that something wasn\u2019t right. When she asked her husband to go over their bills, she said he started mentioning loans she didn\u2019t know about. \u201cHe goes, \u2018Well, I have a lifestyle to keep up with,’\u201d Sue recalled.<\/p>\n Delony immediately pointed out the danger of both sexual and financial betrayal. \u201cYou\u2019re right to be worried about the betrayal, worried about your health,\u201d he said. \u201cThis person is very unsafe and very reckless.\u201d<\/p>\n Sue and her husband currently rent, and she’s worried about what would happen if she leaves the lease. She said she’s already opened a personal checking account and is covering basic expenses like groceries and school fees on her own. \u201cPennies, putting it aside could possibly, you know, eventually get a down payment<\/a>,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n Trending: This Jeff Bezos-backed startup will allow you to become a landlord in just 10 minutes, with minimum investments as low as $100<\/a>.<\/p>\n Delony told Sue to slow down and focus on what matters most in the short term. \u201cYou\u2019re solving for seven steps down the road,\u201d he said. \u201cI need you to solve for step one, which is: I need to get me and my daughter into a safe place.\u201d<\/p>\n Talk To The Daughter With Honesty And Calm<\/p>\n When Sue said her daughter already knows what’s going on, Delony advised her to be honest and calm. He encouraged Sue to take her daughter out and tell her the truth without trashing her father. \u201cI\u2019m not going to talk bad about your dad,\u201d he suggested saying. \u201cI\u2019m going to tell you I\u2019m scared. I\u2019m going to tell you I\u2019m heartbroken. And I, your mom, am working to keep you and me safe.\u201d<\/p>\n See Also: Backed by $300M+ in Assets and Microsoft’s Climate Fund, Farmland LP Opens Vital Farmland III to Accredited Investors<\/a><\/p>\n He also told her not to hide her pain: \u201cIt\u2019s important for her to see, oh, mom\u2019s a person, too. If she\u2019s sad, I get permission to be sad.\u201d<\/p>\n The hosts told Sue to call an attorney immediately if she plans to divorce, and a licensed therapist if she wants to try reconciling. Either way, they said, she’s not alone and should not try to manage everything by herself.<\/p>\n Sue ended the call by saying she had already frozen her credit<\/a> and thanked the hosts for their support. Delony praised her for taking action and reminded her to focus only on today: \u201cAnxiety is taking future stuff and dragging it into the present,\u201d he said. \u201cDon\u2019t do that.\u201d<\/p>\n Read Next: The \u2018ChatGPT of Marketing’ Just Opened a $0.81\/Share Round \u2014 10,000+ Investors Are Already In<\/a><\/p>\n Image: Imagn Images<\/p>\n This article A Dave Ramsey Caller Reveals Her Husband Blew Through Their Child’s College Savings On Gambling. ‘It’s Blown Up In Her Face’<\/a> originally appeared on Benzinga.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Benzinga and Yahoo Finance LLC may earn commission or revenue on some items through the links below. 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