{"id":217971,"date":"2025-10-22T13:49:08","date_gmt":"2025-10-22T13:49:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/217971\/"},"modified":"2025-10-22T13:49:08","modified_gmt":"2025-10-22T13:49:08","slug":"manchester-city-defender-kerstin-casparij-being-gay-didnt-feel-normal-until-i-became-a-footballer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/217971\/","title":{"rendered":"Manchester City defender Kerstin Casparij: &#8216;Being gay didn&#8217;t feel normal, until I became a footballer&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">The 25-year-old, who has 48 caps for the Netherlands, has found love in Manchester &#8211; settling down with her partner Ruth, who she met on a dating app.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Now an openly gay woman, Casparij says the community is &#8220;close to her heart&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;It was hard at times growing up until I got into women&#8217;s football. It was normal and openly spoken about [at Heerenveen],&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I learned a lot about myself. I didn&#8217;t have that when I was young, I had so many doubts and questions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I was lying awake at night thinking &#8216;is this weird or am I weird?&#8217; Being able to be that role model now with my partner, for so many young girls, is so important.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">The right-back has a platform to promote inclusivity in women&#8217;s football and has taken full advantage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">She wears rainbow laces on her football boots, rainbow armbands, regularly posts messages of LGBTQ+ support on social media and in April, dedicated her goal against Everton to the transgender community.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Why I find it really important to spread the word and stand with people is because in modern society if it&#8217;s often not against you, you won&#8217;t say anything,&#8221; said Casparij.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;It&#8217;s important that we stand up for people that need it so they feel supported. For example, the trans community. They are good people and I care about them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I want to show that I stand with them. I&#8217;m hoping to inspire people to do the same. I think we need more togetherness generally and a sense of community.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">She has supported numerous campaigns &#8211; most recently becoming a patron for the LGBTQ Foundation, helping to fund helplines against domestic abuse and transphobia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I think queer women are having a tough time at the moment and I want to help them have safe spaces,&#8221; said Casparij.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;In domestic violence, for example, queer women are often overlooked. I want to make sure they have a place to heal and someone to talk to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I want to be a woman that helps women.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">She is also passionate about setting an example to young, gay women &#8211; the type of representation she wished she had as a child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;It&#8217;s nice to be able to make other people take away doubt. It&#8217;s about helping them to understand why they are feeling how they are feeling,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I always love being surrounded by queer people. Feeling included and supported is important. 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