{"id":323927,"date":"2025-12-19T03:07:12","date_gmt":"2025-12-19T03:07:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/323927\/"},"modified":"2025-12-19T03:07:12","modified_gmt":"2025-12-19T03:07:12","slug":"kristin-cabot-hr-exec-in-viral-coldplay-clip-speaks-of-abuse-threats-and-trying-to-find-a-new-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/323927\/","title":{"rendered":"Kristin Cabot: HR exec in viral Coldplay clip speaks of abuse, threats and trying to find a new job"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">The video, which showed the pair swaying to music at the concert in Boston, Massachusetts, before trying to hide, quickly went viral after Coldplay&#8217;s lead singer Chris Martin said to the crowd: &#8220;Either they&#8217;re having an affair, or they&#8217;re just very shy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">It was watched millions of times, shared widely across platforms, and they became the butt of many jokes. Within a few days, the internet had moved on, but for Ms Cabot, her ordeal had only just begun. <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I became a meme, I was the most maligned HR manager in HR history,&#8221; Ms Cabot <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/us\/news-today\/article\/coldplay-kisscam-boss-kristin-cabot-andy-byron-9qst70b7z?gaa_at=eafs\" class=\"ssrcss-f6h2dj-InlineLink e1kn3p7n0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">told The Times, external<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Ms Cabot was separated from her husband, who was also at the concert.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">In a separate interview with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/12\/18\/style\/coldplay-concert-couple-kiss-cam-woman.html\" class=\"ssrcss-f6h2dj-InlineLink e1kn3p7n0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the New York Times, external<\/a>, she explained she was not in a sexual relationship with Mr Byron and the pair had never kissed before that night &#8211; although she admitted to having had a &#8220;crush&#8221; on her boss.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I made a bad decision and had a couple of High Noons and danced and acted inappropriately with my boss,&#8221; she said, adding she &#8220;took accountability and I gave up my career for that&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">As to why she chose to speak out now, Ms Cabot told the Times &#8220;&#8230;it&#8217;s not over for me, and it&#8217;s not over for my kids. The harassment never ended&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Her two children are too embarrassed to be picked up from school by their mother, she said, or to go to sports games.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;They&#8217;re mad at me. And they can be mad at me for the rest of their lives &#8211; I have to take that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Ms Cabot wondered whether Mr Byron had received the same level of abuse in the wake of the scandal, the Times reported.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I think as a woman, as women always do, I took the bulk of the abuse. People would say things like I was a &#8216;gold-digger&#8217; or I &#8216;slept my way to the top&#8217;, which just couldn&#8217;t be further from reality,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;I worked so hard to dispel that all my life and here I was being accused of it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">At the peak of the scandal, her appearance, body, face and clothes were scrutinised and picked apart, with many high-profile celebrities including Whoopi Golderg piling on. Gwyneth Paltrow, who was once married to Chris Martin, even took part in a tongue-in-cheek promotional video for Astronomer.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The video, which showed the pair swaying to music at the concert in Boston, Massachusetts, before trying to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":323928,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[6491,96,56,54,55],"class_list":{"0":"post-323927","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"tag-celebrities","9":"tag-entertainment","10":"tag-uk","11":"tag-united-kingdom","12":"tag-unitedkingdom"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/323927","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=323927"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/323927\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/323928"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=323927"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=323927"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=323927"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}