{"id":344979,"date":"2025-12-31T17:01:21","date_gmt":"2025-12-31T17:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/344979\/"},"modified":"2025-12-31T17:01:21","modified_gmt":"2025-12-31T17:01:21","slug":"rob-and-michele-reiners-touching-final-messages-sent-to-friends-after-their-deaths","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/344979\/","title":{"rendered":"Rob and Michele Reiner\u2019s touching final messages sent to friends after their deaths"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" width=\"646\" height=\"363\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/comp-1767179841.png\" class=\"article-image wp-image-25952912\" alt=\"\" decoding=\"sync\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tA friend of the Reiners has shared a heartfelt tribute to the couple (Picture: Instagram)<\/p>\n<p>A close friend of <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/rob-reiner\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Rob Reiner<\/a> and his wife Michele has shared the <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/christmas\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Christmas<\/a> card she received from them containing a heartfelt message, written just <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/16\/nick-reiner-charged-two-counts-murder-parents-knife-25539747\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">days before their deaths<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Hollywood <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/15\/kathy-bates-barack-obama-lead-tributes-hollywood-titan-rob-reiner-shocking-death-25494765\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">descended into grief<\/a> earlier this month after <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/15\/rob-reiners-enormous-heart-wasnt-just-reserved-films-25496456\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the When Harry Met Sally director<\/a>, 78, and his photographer partner, 70, <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/17\/know-rob-michele-reiners-murders-son-nick-charged-25551543\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">were found dead at their home<\/a> in <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/los-angeles\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Los Angeles<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>As more harrowing details came to light, the <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/23\/rob-michele-reiners-death-certificate-reveals-new-details-murder-25741923\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">couple\u2019s causes of death<\/a> were revealed to be \u2018multiple sharp force injuries\u2019 in a \u2018homicide\u2019. Their son, Nick, was later charged with two counts of first-degree murder.<\/p>\n<p>Tributes proceeded to flood <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/social-media\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">social media<\/a> and the press from the industry\u2019s biggest stars and those who knew the Reiners, with the latest coming from Neda Soderqvist, who worked as a trainer for Michele.<\/p>\n<p>Taking to <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/instagram\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram<\/a>, she shared a photo of the handwritten card she was sent in the mail, which arrived on Monday.<\/p>\n<p>It read: \u2018Dear Neda \u2013 What can I say after all these years. We love each other, are mad at each other, and then just move on!<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"861\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/SEI_279299874-9ef5.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-25952537\" alt=\"Rob and Michele Reiner?s touching final messages sent to friends after their deaths\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tRob and Michele sent Neda Soderqvist, who worked as a trainer for Michele, a Christmas card (Picture: Instagram)<\/p>\n<p>\u2018And it always works out!\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u2018I hope you have a great holiday with your family who adore you,\u2019 the card concluded. \u2018Love Michele and Rob\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Soderqvist also received a Christmas bonus, adding in her caption: \u2018Even from heaven, they are still making sure that everyone receives their bonuses and what really truly touches my soul and heart are the cards that Michele wrote me and one of the funny things about her was each time she sent me a bonus she would make me promise her that I would utilise it for myself and not give it away.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>She vowed to \u2018keep\u2019 $100 (\u00a374.44) of the bonus and donate the rest in Michele\u2019s honour to one of the \u2018most inspiring foundations that [she] knows [Michele] loves.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Thank you for being my best friend ride or die,\u2019 Soderqvist added. <\/p>\n<p>\u2018Someone who taught me self-worth self-love and I will keep your legacy going forever and I\u2019ll give you the oath that I\u2019ll be here for your children.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"646\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/SEI_279300914-804b.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-25952977\" alt=\"Rob and Michele Reiner?s touching final messages sent to friends after their deaths\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tSoderqvist knew the Hollywood couple for 15 years, saying they felt like \u2018family\u2019 (Picture: Instagram)<\/p>\n<p>Following the devastating news of the Reiners\u2019 deaths, Soderqvist had penned a tribute in which she said she and Michele \u2018were inseparable five days a week for 15 years\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>She explained that their relationship was, therefore, stronger than just trainer-student, but they were \u2018family\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Their love and support for my family have been unwavering, and I\u2019m forever grateful,\u2019 she wrote. \u2018Michele\u2019s heart overflowed with love, kindness, and compassion. I\u2019ll share more about her later, but her impact on my life is profound.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Soderqvist went on to request privacy for the Reiner family, especially for adult daughter Romy, for whom she is a godmother. Romy discovered her parents\u2019 bodies.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Rob, your dancing days will live on through me, and I\u2019ll cherish our conversations forever,\u2019 she wrote, expressing how \u2018heartbroken\u2019 she is.<\/p>\n<p>In a later interview with <a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/rob-reiner-and-michele-reiner-are-holding-hands-forever-says-longtime-friend-exclusive-11877237\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">People<\/a>, Soderqvist praised <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/15\/inside-rob-reiners-family-life-wife-michele-singer-25494474\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the couple\u2019s 36-year marriage<\/a>: \u2018They were exactly as if they had just met. Every time they left my studio, they held hands.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"430\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/SEI_278054928-8458.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-25643059\" alt=\"NEW YORK, NY - MAY 04: (L-R) Director Rob Reiner and his son Nick Reiner attend AOL Build Presents: \" being=\"\" charlie=\"\" at=\"\" aol=\"\" studios=\"\" in=\"\" new=\"\" york=\"\" on=\"\" may=\"\" city.=\"\" by=\"\" rommel=\"\" demano=\"\" images=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tYoungest son Nick was arrested in connection with his parents\u2019 deaths several hours after they were found (Picture: Rommel Demano\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"655\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/SEI_278055785-966f-e1766477528606.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-25643079\" alt=\"FILE - DECEMBER 14: Rob Reiner and his wife Michele Singer Reiner were found dead in their Los Angeles home on Sunday. According to reports, the deaths are being investigated as a homicide. WEST HOLLYWOOD, CA - JULY 09: Director Rob Reiner and Michele Reiner attend the Premiere of Verticle Entertainment's &quot;Shock And Awe&quot; at The London West Hollywood on July 9, 2018 in West Hollywood, California. (Photo by Alberto E. Rodriguez\/Getty Images)\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tRob and Michele have been honoured by numerous celebrities in devastating tributes (Picture: Alberto E. Rodriguez\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>Youngest Reiner son Nick is currently being held without bail, having been picked up by police several hours after his parents\u2019 bodies were found.<\/p>\n<p>Nick, 32, has a history of addiction struggles and was reportedly being treated for schizophrenia, a serious mental <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/health-news\/\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">health<\/a> condition that affects how people think, feel, and behave. It can also cause hallucinations and delusions.<\/p>\n<p>Legal experts have weighed in over recent weeks, suggesting that Nick might plead insanity in his case. However, the circumstances surrounding this could be \u2018difficult\u2019. <\/p>\n<p>First, though, <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/15\/rob-reiners-son-nick-arrested-murders-parents-25498840\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">he must be medically cleared<\/a> by prison officials to enter his plea.<\/p>\n<p>Following his arrest, Nick was placed on suicide watch in solitary confinement. If convicted, his charges carry a maximum sentence of life in prison without parole. He could also face the death penalty.<\/p>\n<p>Nick\u2019s arraignment has been scheduled for January 7, 2026.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"409\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/SEI_278309037-862c-e1766477445305.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-25565921\" alt=\"Jake Reiner, Romy Reiner, Rob Reiner, and Michele Reiner attend the 75th Primetime Emmy Awards at Peacock Theater on January 15, 2024 in Los Angeles, California.\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tChildren Jake and Romy have asked for privacy while they grieve (Picture: Neilson Barnard\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/SEI_278308617-372e.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-25566084\" alt=\"*EXCLUSIVE* Los Angeles, CA Nick Reiner is seen in shackles and suicide vest as he appears for his arraignment in LA today Pictured: Nick Reiner BACKGRID USA 17 DECEMBER 2025 BYLINE MUST READ: Mona Edwards \/ BACKGRID USA: +1 310 798 9111 \/ usasales@backgrid.com UK: +44 208 344 2007 \/ uksales@backgrid.com *UK Clients - Pictures Containing Children Please Pixelate Face Prior To Publication*\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tNick, 32, faces life in prison or the death penalty if convicted (Picture: Mona Edwards\/Backgrid)<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, a\u00a0memorial service honouring Rob and Michele\u00a0is due to take place, with his family set to share information \u2018at a later date\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>A spokesperson for <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/23\/rob-michele-reiners-children-share-funeral-update-unimaginable-murders-25726429\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">children Jake, 34, and Romy, 27<\/a>, added on December 22: \u2018Jake and Romy Reiner remain grateful for the outpouring of love and support they have received.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Their previous statement requested that the public remain respectful as they grieve.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Words cannot even begin to describe the unimaginable pain we are experiencing every moment of the day,\u2019 they shared on December 17.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018The horrific and devastating loss of our parents, Rob and Michele Reiner, is something that no one should ever experience. They weren\u2019t just our parents; they were our best friends.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018We now ask for respect and privacy, for speculation to be tempered with compassion and humanity, and for our parents to be remembered for the incredible lives they lived and the love they gave.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Rob and Michele\u2019s death certificates show that\u00a0they have been cremated after their bodies were released to their loved ones, who plan for a small, private funeral service.<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Got a story?<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">If you\u2019ve got a celebrity story, video or pictures get in touch with the <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Metro.co.uk<\/a> entertainment team by emailing us celebtips@metro.co.uk, calling 020 3615 2145 or by visiting our <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/submit-stuff\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Submit Stuff<\/a> page \u2013 we\u2019d love to hear from you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/31\/katy-perry-orlando-bloom-nail-co-parenting-festive-london-trip-daughter-5-25950177\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom nail co-parenting with festive London trip for daughter, 5<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/31\/ellie-goulding-reflects-turbulent-end-marriage-caspar-jopling-25950141\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Ellie Goulding reflects on \u2018turbulent\u2019 end of her marriage to Caspar Jopling<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2025\/12\/31\/harry-potter-child-star-admits-never-wanted-shackled-franchise-25947505\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Harry Potter child star admits he never wanted to be \u2018shackled\u2019 to franchise<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" class=\"metro-button share-bar-preferred-source\" data-vars-position=\"bottom\" href=\"https:\/\/google.com\/preferences\/source?q=https:\/\/metro.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\tAdd Metro as a Preferred Source on Google<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\tAdd as preferred source<br \/>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A friend of the Reiners has shared a heartfelt tribute to the couple (Picture: Instagram) A close friend&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":344980,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[6491,96,63003,3334,56,54,55,3335],"class_list":["post-344979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-entertainment","tag-rob-reiner","tag-showbiz","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom","tag-us-showbiz-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/344979","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=344979"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/344979\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/344980"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=344979"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=344979"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=344979"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}