{"id":374957,"date":"2026-01-17T09:43:08","date_gmt":"2026-01-17T09:43:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/374957\/"},"modified":"2026-01-17T09:43:08","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T09:43:08","slug":"blind-date-did-we-kiss-well-we-didnt-want-to-let-down-the-bartenders-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/374957\/","title":{"rendered":"Blind date: \u2018Did we kiss? Well, we didn\u2019t want to let down the bartenders\u2019 | Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jenny on Sara<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What were you hoping for?<br \/>A new adventure with someone fun and like-minded.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">First impressions?<br \/>Gorgeous and easy to talk to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What did you talk about?<br \/>Travel. Art. Hobbies. The latest Married at First Sight \u2013 the next series needs a better-matched lesbian couple.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Most awkward moment? <br \/>Trying to take a selfie and both recoiling with cringe.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Good table manners?<br \/>Sara passed the ultimate test \u2013 getting chewed olive stones into a bowl without giving me the ick.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Best thing about Sara?<br \/>I was very impressed by Sara\u2019s intelligence and she was great at holding a conversation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Would you introduce Sara to your\u00a0friends?<br \/>Definitely. Sara is likable and kind \u2013 it\u2019d be hard not to get on with her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Describe Sara in three words<br \/>Bright, interesting and gorgeous.<\/p>\n<p>Q&amp;AFancy a blind date?Show<\/p>\n<p>Blind date is Saturday\u2019s dating column: every week, two<br \/>\nstrangers are paired up for dinner and drinks, and then spill the beans<br \/>\nto us, answering a set of questions. This runs, with a photograph we<br \/>\ntake of each dater before the date, in Saturday magazine (in the<br \/>\n UK) and online at\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/series\/blind-date\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">theguardian.com<\/a>\u00a0every Saturday. It\u2019s been running since 2009 \u2013 you can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/2019\/aug\/31\/10-years-of-blind-date-weddings-babies-lost-knickers\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">read all about how we put it together here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>What questions will I be asked?<br \/>We<br \/>\n ask about age, location, occupation, hobbies, interests and the type of<br \/>\n person you are looking to meet. If you do not think these questions<br \/>\ncover everything you would like to know, tell us what\u2019s on your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Can I choose who I match with?<br \/>No,<br \/>\n it\u2019s a blind date! But we do ask you a bit about your interests,<br \/>\npreferences, etc \u2013 the more you tell us, the better the match is likely<br \/>\nto be.<\/p>\n<p>Can I pick the photograph?<br \/>No, but don&#8217;t worry: we&#8217;ll choose the nicest ones.<\/p>\n<p>What personal details will appear?<br \/>Your first name, job and age.<\/p>\n<p>How should I answer?<br \/>Honestly<br \/>\n but respectfully. Be mindful of how it will read to your date, and that<br \/>\n Blind date reaches a large audience, in print and online.<\/p>\n<p>Will I see the other person\u2019s answers?<br \/>No. We may edit yours and theirs for a range of reasons, including length, and we may ask you for more details.<\/p>\n<p>Will you find me The One?<br \/>We\u2019ll try! Marriage! Babies!<\/p>\n<p>Can I do it in my home town?<br \/>Only if it\u2019s in the UK. Many of our applicants live in London, but we would love to hear from people living elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p>How to apply<br \/>Email <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/2026\/jan\/17\/mailto:blind.date@theguardian.com\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">blind.date@theguardian.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your feedback.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What do you think Sara made of you?<br \/>I think Sara thought I was fun and a little chaotic. She laughed when I said my top two love languages are gift giving and acts of service.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Did you go on somewhere? <br \/>To a queer clubhouse then Dalston Superstore, where we danced till 2am.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">And &#8230; did you kiss?<br \/>Yes! I really appreciated that the date was in a lesbian bar, so I could enjoy kissing Sara without any fear.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?<br \/>I think we should have eaten more!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Marks out of 10?<br \/>10.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Would you meet again?<br \/>If we lived in the same city, I could see Sara having a big presence in my life, but we both agreed long-distance relationships are rubbish. I\u2019d always be happy to see her if she visits Leeds.<\/p>\n<p>Jenny and Sara on their dateSara on Jenny<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What were you hoping for?<br \/>An interesting \u201cso how did you two meet\u201d story \u2013 and to not get publicly rejected.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">First impressions?<br \/>Super-smiley! We launched straight into easy chatting and she\u2019d already ordered the wine \u2013 a great sign.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What did you talk about?<br \/>The decline of UK nightlife. How long we\u2019d survive on a desert island. The need for more gay girl Blind dates!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Most awkward moment? <br \/>When I complained about having to travel from south London and she said she\u2019d come all the way from Leeds.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Good table manners?<br \/>Yes (and I\u2019m grateful she didn\u2019t see me devouring a McDonald\u2019s after).<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Best thing about Jenny?<br \/>She was so fun and up for making the most of our free night out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Would you introduce Jenny to your friends?<br \/>For sure.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Describe Jenny in three words<br \/>Loves Robbie Williams.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What do you think Jenny made of\u00a0you?<br \/>Well, she said I was a 10, but that was after a fair few glasses of wine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Did you go on somewhere?<br \/>It would have been rude not to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">And &#8230; did you kiss?<br \/>We couldn\u2019t let the bartenders down.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?<br \/>To have gone somewhere with food!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Marks out of 10?<br \/>We agreed 9. On reflection there is no reason not to give Jenny a perfect 10.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Would you meet again?<br \/>I\u2019d love to see her drag show!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Jenny and Sara ate at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lacamionera.com\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">La Camionera<\/a>, London E9. Fancy a blind date? Email <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/2026\/jan\/17\/mailto:blind.date@theguardian.com\" data-link-name=\"in body link \" https:=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">blind.date@theguardian.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Jenny on Sara What were you hoping for?A new adventure with someone fun and like-minded. 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