{"id":401258,"date":"2026-01-31T21:21:16","date_gmt":"2026-01-31T21:21:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/401258\/"},"modified":"2026-01-31T21:21:16","modified_gmt":"2026-01-31T21:21:16","slug":"ben-shephard-shares-rare-insight-into-marriage-saying-we-live-separate-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/401258\/","title":{"rendered":"Ben Shephard shares rare insight into marriage saying &#8216;we live separate lives&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Tipping Point host shared that his wife of 20 years asks him for &#8216;a bit of space&#8217; at times.Kathryn Ingate and <a class=\"AuthorLink_author-link__rg5qj\" data-tmdatatrack=\"author\" data-testid=\"byline-author\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailyrecord.co.uk\/authors\/eilidh-farquhar\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Eilidh Farquhar<\/a> Trainee Trends, Showbiz and Lifestyle Writer<\/p>\n<p>17:06, 31 Jan 2026<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Ben Shephard (R) and wife Annie Perks attend the after party following the press night performance of &quot;Northern Ballet's The Great Gatsby&quot; at Sadler's Wells Theatre on March 24, 2015 in London, England. \" loading=\"eager\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/0_Ben-Shephard-and-wife-Annie.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Ben Shephard has given some rare insight to his marriage with wife Annie.\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Ben Shephard has given some rare insight to his marriage with wife Annie.(Image: David M. Benett\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">This Morning presenter <a aria-label=\"Ben ShephardLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailyrecord.co.uk\/all-about\/ben-shephard\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">Ben Shephard<\/a> has given a rare insight into his marriage, opening up about he and his wife Annie &#8220;live separate lives&#8221;. Ben has been married to his better half for over two decades, with the couple sharing two sons, Sam, 21 and Jack, 19.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The 51-year-old is usually hush about his <a aria-label=\"marriedLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailyrecord.co.uk\/all-about\/marriage\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">married<\/a> life, wanting to keep that side of his life private. However in a new interview, the ITV host shared that his wife is &#8220;much happier in her own company&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">With nearly three decades in entertainment, Ben is used to being surrounded by people and getting involved in the hustle and bustle. However, he has revealed that Annie isn&#8217;t as interested in getting involved in the showbiz side of his life, reports <a aria-label=\"the Mirror.Link opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/3am\/celebrity-news\/ben-shephard-says-we-live-36647561\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">the Mirror.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Speaking to Daily Mail&#8217;s weekend magazine, Ben shared: &#8220;Annie is much more solitary than me. She\u2019s much happier in her own company. Half the time she\u2019s like, &#8216;I need a bit of space. Can you leave me alone for five seconds, please?'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">However, despite their differences when it comes to spending time together, Ben was keen to emphasise that Annie is the &#8220;most important factor in our lives as a family&#8221;. The couple are likely to start spending more time together as they are expected to soon become &#8220;empty-nesters&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">While their son Jack is working as a teaching assistant before going off travelling, their other son Sam is currently studying maths at<a aria-label=\" universityLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailyrecord.co.uk\/all-about\/universities-and-colleges\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\"> university<\/a>. While he is &#8220;super excited&#8221; for them both, Ben did admit he will miss them.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Ben and Annie with sons Sam and Jack at football game.\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/0_Ben-Shephard-Family.png\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Ben revealed he and Annie are soon to become 'empty-nesters' as sons move out.\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Ben revealed he and Annie are soon to become &#8217;empty-nesters&#8217; as sons move out.(Image: Instagram\/@benshephardofficial)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He added: &#8220;They make such a mess and eat everything when they\u2019re in the house, but when they\u2019re not there you go, \u201cOh, what are we going to talk about now?\u201d&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">With the house already becoming a bit quieter, Ben shared: &#8220;We do live quite separate lives. I\u2019m off working, she has her job, which is garden and interior design. If I\u2019ve got spare time I want to do something physical.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">With their boys leaving the nest soon, Ben shared that himself and Annie are going to look for more activities they can enjoy together. At the moment the pair contrast greatly, as while Ben is keen to go out running and play golf, Annie prefers to visit gardens and art galleries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The star revealed: &#8220;It\u2019s about finding things that work for both of us \u2013 but as I say, that feels really exciting.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">In terms of the challenges he has taken on over his career, Ben revealed that the hardest was climbing <a aria-label=\"Mount KilimanjaroLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailyrecord.co.uk\/news\/local-news\/west-lothian-entrepreneur-set-climb-35252657\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">Mount Kilimanjaro<\/a> in 2009 with Fearne Cotton and other stars for Comic Relief.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He explained: &#8220;That was the most dangerous thing I\u2019ve ever done because there were a number of occasions where people got into real trouble. Fearne had a real problem at one point, but that girl\u2019s strength and grit are amazing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;The head of our team had to go off from us and save somebody\u2019s life and take them down. That\u2019s the reality of that mountain, you can get it very wrong.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He also noted that the World&#8217;s Tough Mudder challenge he took on last year with his sons and godson Ben was the &#8220;biggest physical challenge&#8221; of his life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">He added: &#8220;We were doing a five-mile loop with obstacles including mud, water and fire that you kept repeating as a relay over 24 hours. That was pretty dangerous, in terms of what we were putting ourselves through. But to do it with my boys and my godson was amazing.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The Tipping Point host shared that his wife of 20 years asks him for &#8216;a bit of space&#8217;&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":401259,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[46589,6491,96,5780,1471,56,54,55],"class_list":{"0":"post-401258","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"tag-ben-shephard","9":"tag-celebrities","10":"tag-entertainment","11":"tag-marriage","12":"tag-this-morning","13":"tag-uk","14":"tag-united-kingdom","15":"tag-unitedkingdom"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/401258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=401258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/401258\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/401259"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=401258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=401258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=401258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}