{"id":41042,"date":"2025-08-03T14:48:10","date_gmt":"2025-08-03T14:48:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/41042\/"},"modified":"2025-08-03T14:48:10","modified_gmt":"2025-08-03T14:48:10","slug":"woman-brought-her-camera-on-a-girls-trip-but-her-friends-treated-her-like-a-photographer-instead-of-a-pal-twistedsifter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/41042\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls\u2019 Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal \u00bb TwistedSifter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-555376\" class=\"wp-image-555376\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Two fashionable girls posing as another woman takes their photo\" width=\"800\" height=\"420\" title=\"Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Twisted-Sifter-1194.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-555376\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pexels\/Reddit<\/p>\n<p>Friendships should be about fun experiences not unspoken responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine bringing your camera with you on vacation because you like taking pictures. Would you be upset if your friends demanded that you take pictures of them, or would you be flattered that they like your photography skills?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AITAH\/comments\/1lnaj9r\/aita_for_leaving_a_girls_trip_early_because_they\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">This woman<\/a> was excited to join a fun weekend trip with her friends until they acted as if she were their \u201cofficial\u201d photographer.<\/p>\n<p>Did she overreact, or were her friends really rude?<\/p>\n<p>Read the full story below.<\/p>\n<p>I (21F) went on a little weekend trip with 4 girls from university.<\/p>\n<p>I brought my camera because I\u2019m into photography (not professionally, just for fun).<\/p>\n<p>First day was fun.<\/p>\n<p>I took a bunch of cute pics of everyone, edited them that night, and posted them in the group chat.<\/p>\n<p>They were obsessed, whatever.<\/p>\n<p>This woman was dragged outside so she could take her friends\u2019 pictures.<\/p>\n<p>But then, on the next day, they started waking me up like: \u201cCome, take golden hour pics of us!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Literally dragging me outside before I even had coffee.<\/p>\n<p>They weren\u2019t asking. It was just like assumed that I was gonna take pics all the time.<\/p>\n<p>And like\u2026 I barely even got any pics of myself.<\/p>\n<p>They left her while she was in the shower.<\/p>\n<p>When I asked if someone could take a couple of mine, one of them literally goes: \u201cDidn\u2019t u bring a tripod?\u201d Then, they laughed.<\/p>\n<p>Like, okay. LMAO.<\/p>\n<p>Also, they kinda ditched me.<\/p>\n<p>At one point, I was in the shower and they left to go take pics at some spot because they \u201cdidn\u2019t wanna miss the lighting.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She felt neglected, so she hopped on a train and went home.<\/p>\n<p>By the 3rd day, I was kinda over it.<\/p>\n<p>I just felt like\u2026 not included. Like I was there to take pics and not actually hang.<\/p>\n<p>So I told them I wasn\u2019t really feeling it and I booked a train home early.<\/p>\n<p>Her friends started being weird in their group chat.<\/p>\n<p>Now, they\u2019re being weird in the group chat.<\/p>\n<p>One of them texted, \u201cNext time, don\u2019t offer to take pics if you\u2019re gonna catch feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But, I never offered! I literally brought the camera because I like it.<\/p>\n<p>This wasn\u2019t a paid shoot. Lol.<\/p>\n<p>So now, she\u2019s wondering if she was just being overdramatic.<\/p>\n<p>Some people are saying I was being dramatic and should\u2019ve \u201cunderstood the vibe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But like\u2026 I thought we were friends, not influencers.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway. AITA?<\/p>\n<p>It sounds like these friends liked her photography skills a little too much.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s see the reactions of other people on Reddit to this story.<\/p>\n<p>This person gives their honest opinion.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-555375\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 07 04 at 12.17.18\u202fPM Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" width=\"800\" height=\"382\" title=\"Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Screenshot-2025-07-04-at-12.17.18\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>They aren\u2019t your friends, says this person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-555374\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 07 04 at 12.17.40\u202fPM Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" width=\"800\" height=\"486\" title=\"Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Screenshot-2025-07-04-at-12.17.40\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>People are saying the same thing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-555373\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 07 04 at 12.17.57\u202fPM Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" width=\"800\" height=\"563\" title=\"Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Screenshot-2025-07-04-at-12.17.57\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This user shares their personal experience.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-555372\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 07 04 at 12.19.20\u202fPM Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" width=\"800\" height=\"719\" title=\"Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Screenshot-2025-07-04-at-12.19.20\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>Finally, short and straightforward.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-555371\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2025 07 04 at 12.20.16\u202fPM Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" width=\"800\" height=\"409\" title=\"Woman Brought Her Camera On A Girls Trip, But Her Friends Treated Her Like A Photographer Instead Of A Pal\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Screenshot-2025-07-04-at-12.20.16\u202fPM.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>When friends treat you like hired help, it\u2019s okay to walk away.<\/p>\n<p>If you thought that was an interesting story, check out what happened when <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2023\/12\/they-gave-in-laws-a-place-to-live-for-free-in-exchange-for-babysitting-but-things-change-when-they-dont-hold-up-their-end-of-the-bargain\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">a family gave their in-laws a free place to stay in exchange for babysitting, but things changed when they don\u2019t hold up their end of the bargain.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pexels\/Reddit Friendships should be about fun experiences not unspoken responsibilities. 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