{"id":417571,"date":"2026-02-10T07:07:07","date_gmt":"2026-02-10T07:07:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/417571\/"},"modified":"2026-02-10T07:07:07","modified_gmt":"2026-02-10T07:07:07","slug":"we-are-just-parents-not-a-couple-how-to-reconnect-after-having-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/417571\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;We are just parents, not a couple&#8217;: How to reconnect after having kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Rebecca has been with her husband for 10 years, but since having three children over the past three years she has grown &#8220;disconnected&#8221; from him. <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;We are just cohabiting, like we&#8217;re not a couple. We are just parents,&#8221; she says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Like many parents, they struggle to find time to spend alone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;Our kids are so young and they are so demanding that it&#8217;s hard to even get five minutes to catch up and we&#8217;re both exhausted come the end of the day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">She says the dynamic of her relationship changed after she gave birth to her first child. <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;We knew it was going to be different when we started trying for our first baby, but I think the gravity of it, we weren&#8217;t expecting how different it would be.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">In Rebecca&#8217;s case, her whole life has changed as she&#8217;s switched from working full time to becoming a full time mother, and says she has struggled to open up with her partner about her feelings. <\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;His life is still his life. He does see how hard it is for me at home and also our relationship, he knows it&#8217;s affected, but he&#8217;d never bring it up.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Rebecca has been with her husband for 10 years, but since having three children over the past three&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":417572,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[49,50,51,47,52,48],"class_list":["post-417571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-headlines","tag-headlines","tag-news","tag-top-news","tag-top-stories","tag-topnews","tag-topstories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/417571","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=417571"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/417571\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/417572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=417571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=417571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=417571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}