{"id":475805,"date":"2026-03-14T20:31:35","date_gmt":"2026-03-14T20:31:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/475805\/"},"modified":"2026-03-14T20:31:35","modified_gmt":"2026-03-14T20:31:35","slug":"my-horrific-reality-of-living-with-endometriosis-and-what-must-be-done","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/475805\/","title":{"rendered":"My horrific reality of living with endometriosis and what MUST be done"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8216;All I could think about was the pain, I thought something really bad was happening. The next day I got my period and thought it was just a bad cycle. Unfortunately it only got worse from there.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>16:00, 08 Mar 2026Updated 18:19, 08 Mar 2026<\/p>\n<p>Skye Farrell-Brown speaks out about living with endometriosis<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">It is Endometriosis Awareness Month this month, and it&#8217;s been a year since my diagnosis on March 7, 2025, writes Skye Farrell Brown, from Cornwall.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">To finally have a diagnosis is such a relief, as it takes on average nine years to diagnose. <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/endometriosis\/#:~:text=Endometriosis%20is%20where%20cells%20similar,are%20treatments%20that%20can%20help.\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">Endometriosis <\/a>is where tissue similar to the uterine lining grows outside the uterus. It can grow anywhere in the body, and causes inflammation, and scarring.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The main symptoms include pain, mainly when on your period and ovulation, but it&#8217;s often daily, painful sex, infertility, painful bowel movements, nausea, migraines and fatigue. However it effects everyone differently.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I still remember the first time my endometriosis pain got bad. I was on the way to a science lesson. Science was my favourite subject and because I didn&#8217;t have the best maths grade my school didn\u2019t want to let me do triple science, but I persisted and I got moved to triple.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">We were doing mole equations in chemistry and I really needed to grapple hard and concentrate but an awful tugging pain started in my lower belly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">At lunch I was given paracetamol by the school nurse and went to my next class, but I could not focus at all. All I could think about was the pain, I thought something really bad was happening. The next day I got my period and thought it was just a bad cycle. Unfortunately it only got worse from there.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Skye Farrell Brown speaks about how endometriosis can make her balloon within a few hours and has a serious impact on her health and wellbeing \" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/1_image0.png\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Skye Farrell Brown speaks about how endometriosis can make her balloon within a few hours and has a serious impact on her health and wellbeing \" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Skye Farrell Brown speaks about how endometriosis can make her balloon within a few hours and has a serious impact on her health and wellbeing (Image: Skye Farrell Brown )<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">As I got older, it did not stay confined to my cycle. I was often hunched over from pain and got the nickname &#8220;sloth&#8221; because of how slowly I moved. I also started getting migraines and nausea that mimicked morning sickness. Doctors told me it was just my hormones balancing and that it would stop.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Instead, it got worse. I was repeatedly put on the contraceptive pill. One caused solar urticaria, making me allergic to sunlight. Another made my PMDD (premenstrual dysphoric disorder) so severe that I became suicidal and was sectioned when I was 18.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">When I explained this, I was told that if I could not tolerate taking hormones, I could not be in that much pain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I developed extreme bloating, often called endo belly. My partner at the time told me I was getting fat and that it was disgusting and I needed to go on a diet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I lost weight trying to stop it despite already being a slim build teen at the time. But the bloating never went away, although it would fluctuate (I now know that the bloating was caused by the endometriosis tissue bleeding, as the blood can&#8217;t escape it causes inflammation and swells your belly up like a balloon).<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">My pain escalated, including severe pelvic pain, electric shock pain through my spine, hemiplegic migraines when due on, and symptoms that mimicked UTIs and appendicitis. I was repeatedly told to go to A&amp;E just to be dismissed as dramatic or anxious. I was told what I was going through was normal, and because of my neurodivergence I had a low tolerance to pain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">After years of being ignored and dismissed I convicted myself I was crazy, until I met my boyfriend, who had cared for someone with endometriosis in the past. He urged me to keep fighting for answers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I finally convinced my GP to refer me onwards. A gynaecologist finally listened, I remember crying happy tears as he said to me &#8220;this sounds like endometriosis, we&#8217;ll get you sorted&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I was referred for surgery and told they did not expect to find anything, as my ultrasounds were clear. They told me and my partner I would only be under (general anaesthetic) for around 30 minutes. I was under for three hours, and my poor boyfriend was beside himself with worry. Endometriosis was found and excised.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I finally had proof I was not imagining it. I am so thankful to the Eden ward at the <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cornwalllive.com\/all-about\/royal-cornwall-hospital\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">Royal Cornwall Hospital<\/a> in <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cornwalllive.com\/all-about\/truro\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">Truro<\/a>. Everyone from the anaesthetist to the healthcare assistants were so kind and good to me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I lucked out and had a endometriosis specialist do my surgery, and he took out anything that had the slightest possibility of being endometriosis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I was also extremely lucky to have excision surgery which is the gold standard treatment for endometriosis. Excision surgery actually cuts endometriosis out at the roots, giving you more time before it grows back.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">However unfortunately, despite being able to do excision surgery in <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cornwalllive.com\/all-about\/cornwall\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">Cornwall<\/a>, any future surgeries after diagnosis will be ablation, where they only burn the top layer of endometriosis off, which means it comes back much faster, and studies have shown ablation can actually cause even more adhesions causing more long term pain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">This is why I\u2019m trying to campaign for the <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cornwalllive.com\/all-about\/nhs\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">NHS<\/a> to make all surgery for endometriosis excision surgery. I just can\u2019t wrap my head around the fact they use it for diagnosis only then switch back to such and outdated method. It makes me so anxious for any future surgeries if need another laparoscopy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">I have started a petition which you can find <a aria-label=\"\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/c.org\/BpntXBYc77\" rel=\"nofollow\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_self\">here on change.org<\/a>, titled Implement excision surgery for endometriosis treatment in the NHS.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">The relief did not last. My pain returned, as cannot tolerate hormones, which is used to slow the growth. Where my endometriosis was found is a very high nerve area, and it\u2019s possible that it has permanently damaged my nerves, leaving me in daily chronic pain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">At 24, I have had to give up work, going to university, sports, walking the costal path and so many parts of my life I took for granted. I\u2019m also facing infertility which is extremely hard as I\u2019m at the age my peers are all having babies, so my social media is full of pregnancy announcements and cute baby photos, while I wonder when or if it\u2019ll ever be my turn. I\u2019m trying just to make do as best I can as it\u2019s too soon for another laparoscopy and I really don\u2019t want ablation but I can\u2019t afford to go privately for excision.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">My story is not unique. One in 10 women have this condition. Endometriosis is not bad periods, it\u2019s a full body inflammatory disease. So little is known about endometriosis, we still don\u2019t know why it happens or how to cure it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">There&#8217;s very little research I just want my life back, like all the other people living with this condition. The endometriosis community online, especially TikTok have been my safe haven, and the \u201cendo warriors\u201d have often given me better pain management advice then the doctors.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh  undefined\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">A lot of them who have had children describe the pain as worse than or on par with labour. I don\u2019t know how to even begin to describe it other than horrific. 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