{"id":549616,"date":"2026-04-25T07:04:07","date_gmt":"2026-04-25T07:04:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/549616\/"},"modified":"2026-04-25T07:04:07","modified_gmt":"2026-04-25T07:04:07","slug":"blind-date-most-awkward-moment-when-he-nearly-set-the-menu-alight-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/549616\/","title":{"rendered":"Blind date: \u2018Most awkward moment? When he nearly set the menu alight\u2019 | Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Abby on Charlie<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What were you hoping for?<br \/>A different kind of Friday night with good company and a fancy meal!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">First impressions?<br \/>Charlie was super friendly and really easy to chat to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What did you talk about?<br \/>Our jobs. Rowing. Cycling. Book recommendations. Where we both want to travel to next.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Most awkward moment?<br \/>When Charlie nearly set the wine menu alight with the candle on the table \u2013 it was more funny than awkward.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Good table manners?<br \/>Definitely.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Best thing about Charlie?<br \/>He\u2019s one of those people that naturally knows a lot about everything. And his choice of wine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Would you introduce Charlie to your friends?<br \/>Maybe, but it doesn\u2019t sound like he would have enough time to meet them with his busy schedule!<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Describe Charlie in three words<br \/>Friendly, intelligent and down-to-earth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What do you think Charlie made of you?<br \/>Hopefully easy to chat to, interested and good company for a Friday night.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Did you go on somewhere?<br \/>We didn\u2019t, but we stayed in the restaurant pretty late \u2013 the time flew.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">And \u2026 did you kiss?<br \/>No, just a friendly hug goodbye.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?<br \/>Maybe how close together the tables were? The people either side spent a lot of time watching us and listening in.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Marks out of 10?<br \/>8. It was a good night and the restaurant was amazing, but there wasn\u2019t really a romantic spark.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Would you meet again?<br \/>Maybe as friends \u2013 or if I ever wanted to learn how to row.<\/p>\n<p>Q&amp;AFancy a blind date?Show<\/p>\n<p>Blind date is Saturday\u2019s dating column: every week, two<br \/>\nstrangers are paired up for dinner and drinks, and then spill the beans<br \/>\nto us, answering a set of questions. This runs, with a photograph we<br \/>\ntake of each dater before the date, in Saturday magazine (in the<br \/>\n UK) and online at\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/series\/blind-date\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">theguardian.com<\/a>\u00a0every Saturday. It\u2019s been running since 2009 \u2013 you can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/2019\/aug\/31\/10-years-of-blind-date-weddings-babies-lost-knickers\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">read all about how we put it together here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>What questions will I be asked?<br \/>We<br \/>\n ask about age, location, occupation, hobbies, interests and the type of<br \/>\n person you are looking to meet. If you do not think these questions<br \/>\ncover everything you would like to know, tell us what\u2019s on your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Can I choose who I match with?<br \/>No,<br \/>\n it\u2019s a blind date! But we do ask you a bit about your interests,<br \/>\npreferences, etc \u2013 the more you tell us, the better the match is likely<br \/>\nto be.<\/p>\n<p>Can I pick the photograph?<br \/>No, but don&#8217;t worry: we&#8217;ll choose the nicest ones.<\/p>\n<p>What personal details will appear?<br \/>Your first name, job and age.<\/p>\n<p>How should I answer?<br \/>Honestly<br \/>\n but respectfully. Be mindful of how it will read to your date, and that<br \/>\n Blind date reaches a large audience, in print and online.<\/p>\n<p>Will I see the other person\u2019s answers?<br \/>No. We may edit yours and theirs for a range of reasons, including length, and we may ask you for more details.<\/p>\n<p>Will you find me The One?<br \/>We\u2019ll try! Marriage! Babies!<\/p>\n<p>Can I do it in my home town?<br \/>Only if it\u2019s in the UK. Many of our applicants live in London, but we would love to hear from people living elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p>How to apply<br \/>Email <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/2026\/apr\/25\/mailto:blind.date@theguardian.com\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">blind.date@theguardian.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your feedback.<\/p>\n<p>Charlie on Abby<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What were you hoping for?<br \/>A fun, flirty evening with interesting conversation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">First impressions?<br \/>Confident and cool.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What did you talk about?<br \/>Books. Travel. Space \u2013 until she questioned whether the moon landing was real.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Most awkward moment? <br \/>My reaction to her questioning the moon landing. I didn\u2019t quite keep a\u00a0poker face, which put a speed bump in the conversation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Good table manners?<br \/>Really nice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Best thing about Abby?<br \/>Super easy to chat to and really confident. There were no real awkward moments and we ended up chatting for ages \u2013 the time flew by.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Would you introduce Abby to your friends?<br \/>I don\u2019t think our interests\/hobbies overlap too much.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Describe Abby in three words<br \/>Friendly, outgoing, charismatic.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">What do you think Abby made of you?<br \/>We had a really nice chat but she might think I was a bit much.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Did you go on somewhere?<br \/>No, we chatted for so long the evening got away from us.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">And \u2026 did you kiss?<br \/>No, it wasn\u2019t too flirty.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?<br \/>It would have been nice to have a bit more of a flirt, but I don\u2019t think the chemistry was there for that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Marks out of 10?<br \/>6.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Would you meet again?<br \/>I had a great evening and Abby was super easy to chat to but I think we are looking for different things in a partner.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Abby and Charlie ate at <a href=\"https:\/\/salut-london.co.uk\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Salut!<\/a>, London\u00a0N1. Fancy a blind date? 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