{"id":574437,"date":"2026-05-09T08:58:14","date_gmt":"2026-05-09T08:58:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/574437\/"},"modified":"2026-05-09T08:58:14","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T08:58:14","slug":"toby-stephens-what-my-mum-maggie-smith-taught-me-about-acting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/574437\/","title":{"rendered":"Toby Stephens: What my mum Maggie Smith taught me about acting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Your support helps us to tell the story<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.<\/p>\n<p>Your support makes all the difference.Read more<\/p>\n<p>In the early Noughties, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/toby-stephens\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Toby Stephens<\/a> was a leading man with the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/royal-shakespeare-company\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Royal Shakespeare Company<\/a>. Then came his breakthrough screen role: a North Korean general transmogrified into a swashbuckling insomniac English billionaire with a union jack parachute. Maybe not the most likely choice for today\u2019s aspiring thespians \u2013 and as Stephens admits, it felt eccentric at the time. Imagine casting a Bond villain like that now. \u201cYou\u2019d never get away with that, would you?\u201d he says of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/die-another-day\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Die Another Day<\/a>\u2019s race-swap conceit.<\/p>\n<p>The son of acting royalty <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/maggie-smith\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Maggie Smith<\/a> and Robert Stephens, he wasn\u2019t even top of MGM\u2019s list; that was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/sean-penn\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sean Penn<\/a>. But eventually he landed the role of Gustav Graves, having initially been led into an oak-panelled room at EON\u2019s Piccadilly offices and handed a page of dialogue. \u201cRight,\u201d he remembers asking. \u201cDo you want me to do it in a Korean accent?\u201d They did not. <\/p>\n<p>As happy as Stephens is to indulge my own fascination with Bond, we\u2019re here to talk about a revival of Peter Shaffer\u2019s classic 1973 play Equus, which he\u2019s starring in at the Menier Chocolate Factory. Meeting me in the bar of a hotel in east London, where he\u2019s deep in rehearsals, the 57-year-old is in a green army jacket; his hair is ginger-grey, his beard full, and his eyes \u2013 icy blue \u2013 unmistakeably his mother\u2019s. A world away from the characters he\u2019s often inhabited \u2013 whether laying on the sneer as Captain Flint in Starz\u2019s pirate caper Black Sails or the smirk as Rochester in 2006\u2019s Jane Eyre \u2013 he is open and likeable, warmth radiating from him in waves. Not a curled lip in sight. Then there\u2019s his laugh: big and sonorous, the only one I\u2019ve encountered that can unironically be described as a guffaw.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway: Equus, the new production of which is directed by Lindsay Posner. Thrust back into the spotlight when Daniel Radcliffe starred in it in 2007, the play is about a disturbed stable boy whose pathological, erotic fixation with horses culminates in the blinding of six of them. It feels pretty timely: Adolescence and Richard Gadd\u2019s Baby Reindeer have made television drama the forum for searching conversations about damaged young men, mental health, and what society does to both. Shaffer got there first. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen I read it I was very surprised by how good it was,\u201d Stephens says. \u201cHow, still, it\u2019s quite shocking and disturbing.\u201d Stephens plays Martin Dysart, the psychiatrist trying to make sense of what happened in that stable. \u201cIt\u2019s like a thriller, a procedural, where Dysart is the detective,\u201d he says. \u201cBut at the same time you realise he\u2019s unravelling himself.\u201d The question at its centre \u2013 whether curing someone of their passion, however dangerous, is worth the cost of extinguishing it \u2013 has no clean answer. If anything, it sends Dysart into freefall about his own life\u2019s work. Stephens recognises the feeling. \u201cI\u2019m at a point in my career where I\u2019m fundamentally questioning what I\u2019m doing and what the purpose of it is.\u201d He laughs. \u201cActors do that quite regularly.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of questions hovering over the theatre industry right now. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/lesley-manville\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Lesley Manville<\/a>, currently starring in Les Liaisons Dangereuses at the National, caused a minor kerfuffle last month when she went on Radio 4 to call out audience members for filming during the final bows. \u201cDon\u2019t just stick your phone in our face,\u201d she said. Does he have a view? \u201cIf you\u2019ve got a phone in your hand, you can\u2019t really clap,\u201d says Stephens. But the thing that really gets him is the disconnect. \u201cYou\u2019re living through this thing in a tangential way rather than a direct way. And yet we\u2019ve all got mindfulness apps on our phones.\u201d That guffaw again. \u201cIt\u2019s kind of crazy, isn\u2019t it?\u201d <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Toby-Stephens-in-Jane-Eyre.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Manor born: Stephens and Ruth Wilson in \u2018Jane Eyre\u2019\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Manor born: Stephens and Ruth Wilson in \u2018Jane Eyre\u2019 (BBC)<\/p>\n<p>His wife, the New Zealand-born actor Anna-Louise Plowman, recently saw John Proctor Is the Villain, Kimberly Belflower\u2019s vibrant hit that deconstructs The Crucible, and came back rhapsodising \u2013 not just about the play, but about the audience. \u201cShe said it was fantastic because it was packed with young people,\u201d he recalls. It was an experience, he adds, that\u2019s become quite rare \u2013 partly because of eye-watering ticket prices. On the topic of celebrity casting, where instead of employing a seasoned professional, a director will cast someone famous for the specific purpose of shifting seats \u2013 Cheryl in 2:22 A Ghost Story, anyone? \u2013 Stephens shrugs. \u201cIt\u2019s pragmatic,\u201d he says. \u201cThat\u2019s just the West End.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Toby-Stephens-(Martin-Dysart)-credit-Manuel-Harlan.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Giddy-up! Stephens in rehearsals for the revival of \u2018Equus\u2019\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Giddy-up! Stephens in rehearsals for the revival of \u2018Equus\u2019 (Manuel Harlan)<\/p>\n<p>Stephens, who was born in London but raised in Canada then rural Sussex, speaks in a rich, plummy baritone that, for much of his career, has been both his calling card and his curse. In 2006, The Telegraph ran a piece about him headlined \u201cThe Perils of Being Posh on TV\u201d, in which Stephens reflected on public schoolboys often being cast as clowns or villains: \u201cTo be taken seriously at the moment, you have to be working class or have a working-class accent; otherwise, you are seen as a caricature,\u201d he said. <\/p>\n<p>Does he feel those perils are still real? \u201cI don\u2019t really&#8230;\u201d he trails off. \u201cThe irony for me is my parents both came from very much lower-middle-class, working-class families. My dad came from Bristol \u2013 his dad was a labourer; his mum was a charlady. My mum\u2019s dad came from Newcastle, her mother from Glasgow.\u201d Each generation was drilled to speak a certain way, and passed it down. \u201cAnd then you\u2019re trapped.\u201d I remind him of something he told The Telegraph in 2015 \u2013 that he didn\u2019t feel part of any class, particularly the aristocracy, and resented being stuck in \u201canachronistic aspic\u201d. He smiles. \u201cThat sounds good,\u201d he says. \u201cI\u2019ll claim that one.\u201d Look, he adds, it is what it is. \u201cI\u2019m 57 now, I don\u2019t give a s*** any more. Nobody is going to suddenly relook at Toby in a completely different way and think \u2018We\u2019re going to cast him.\u2019 It doesn\u2019t matter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/LIS_108_SG_a00014R.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Stellar career: Stephens in Netflix series \u2018Lost in Space\u2019\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Stellar career: Stephens in Netflix series \u2018Lost in Space\u2019 (Netflix)<\/p>\n<p>That Stephens is more blas\u00e9 these days may have something to do with his success in the US. While being a mainstay of British theatre \u2013 Ibsen, Pinter, Stoppard, Tennessee Williams, and more \u2013 he has also carved out a parallel career in major streaming series: Black Sails, Netflix\u2019s Lost in Space, and Disney+\u2019s Percy Jackson and the Olympians. In America, he says, nobody much cares about the cadence of your voice. \u201cThey let you be whoever you want \u2013 as long as you are good at it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Most recently, Stephens was all cockney vernacular, effing and blinding as wide-boy boxing promoter Frank Warren in Giant, Rowan Athale\u2019s 2025 biopic of the Sheffield-born former world featherweight champion Prince Naseem Hamed and his trainer Brendan Ingle. The film saw Stephens reunited with the 007 he\u2019d been pitted against, <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/films\/features\/pierce-brosnan-thursday-murder-club-interview-b2816562.html\">Pierce Brosnan<\/a>. The two hadn\u2019t really connected on Die Another Day \u2013 Brosnan \u201chad a lot of stuff going on in his life\u201d \u2013 but during filming for Giant, things were different. \u201cI actually got to hang out with him a lot,\u201d says Stephens. \u201cI loved meeting and being with him again. We actually got on really well.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/JCD4723766.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"\u2018You\u2019d never get away with that now\u2019: Stephens as a North Korean general transmogrified into a swashbuckling insomniac English billionaire in \u2018Die Another Day\u2019\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>\u2018You\u2019d never get away with that now\u2019: Stephens as a North Korean general transmogrified into a swashbuckling insomniac English billionaire in \u2018Die Another Day\u2019 (20th Century Fox)<\/p>\n<p>Die Another Day was of course Brosnan\u2019s final outing as Bond \u2013 a film that also featured an invisible car slipping and sliding like clear jelly through a grand, palatial igloo, along with a space laser named Icarus, and a CGI 007 para-surfing on an iceberg tsunami. Oh, and there was Madonna, delivering an indelibly janky theme tune and briefly appearing as a leather-corseted fencing instructor who dispenses lines like \u201cI see you handle your weapon well\u201d. One day, she arrived late for shooting. Brosnan, irritated, started humming her shiny Eighties banger \u201cLike a Virgin\u201d. \u201cShe got quite annoyed with him,\u201d Stephens recalls. \u201cIt was all an out-of-body experience.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Stephens still can\u2019t get over the national obsession with who will play Bond. \u201cIt\u2019s baffling,\u201d he says. \u201cIt\u2019s sort of a crazy ritual we go through, isn\u2019t it?\u201d Who should succeed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/daniel-craig\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Daniel Craig<\/a>, then? I mention the favourites: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/callum-turner\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Callum Turner<\/a>, <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/films\/features\/next-james-bond-jacob-elordi-amazon-b2922008.html#:~:text=Elordi%20represents%20a%20return%20to,Elordi%20could%20be%20just%20right.\">Jacob Elordi <\/a>and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/harris-dickinson\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Harris Dickinson<\/a>. He swerves the question. \u201cWell, whoever gets it, the reaction will be \u2018Oh my God, why?\u2019 Remember when Daniel Craig got it and everybody was like, \u2018Oh Jesus!\u2019, and he was brilliant.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Stephens is surprisingly relaxed when I ask about his famous parents. In the past, he\u2019s been very reticent \u2013 \u201cI\u2019d avoid mentioning them in interviews,\u201d he once admitted. \u201cMy mum understood, but it was hard for her not to be acknowledged by her son.\u201d Today, though, he\u2019s expansive. Dame Maggie Smith, prolific doyenne of stage and screen, died in 2024, aged 89, and the outpouring of love for this national treasure astonished him. \u201cShe never saw herself like that,\u201d he says. \u201cShe just completely unified everybody.\u201d He took his three now-teenage children, Eli, Tallulah and Kura, to see her final stage performance, as Goebbels\u2019s secretary in A German Life, Christopher Hampton\u2019s one-woman monologue, at the Bridge Theatre in 2019. \u201cI really wanted them to have that experience,\u201d he says, \u201cbecause I knew this was going to be it.\u201d Backstage afterwards, she opened the dressing room door. \u201cOnly you,\u201d she told him, \u201cwould bring your children to this.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Not that they needed any persuasion to come \u2013 they had grown up watching her in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/harry-potter\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Harry Potter<\/a> films and Downton Abbey. Smith came to everything he did \u2013 to the RSC, where he played Hamlet and stripped off for Coriolanus. How did it feel, having her in the audience? \u201cI wanted her respect and I wanted her approval,\u201d he says. \u201cDidn\u2019t always get it. Sometimes I did, and sometimes she just didn\u2019t like the production.\u201d As the years went on, it was the people around him who got more nervous \u2013 she\u2019d become something of a spectacle herself, the attention in any room gravitating towards her. \u201cShe was like, \u2018Look, I\u2019m here to support you.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/51374836.jpg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Following in her footsteps: Stephens (right) and Chris Larkin with their mother, Dame Maggie Smith, in March 1971\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Following in her footsteps: Stephens (right) and Chris Larkin with their mother, Dame Maggie Smith, in March 1971 (Getty)<\/p>\n<p>Although Smith wasn\u2019t a conventional note-giver, he says, she was \u201cpretty good at putting her finger on what was wrong. Whatever she said was always out of love of the craft.\u201d His father was different: Robert Stephens would arrive backstage, armed with notes. \u201cHe\u2019d give me very practical things that were actually very good,\u201d Stephens says. \u201cBut I\u2019d still bristle.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Smith also had a charming ritual, he tells me. When she was in a play, she\u2019d come home on Saturday nights, eat late, and talk through any problems with her latest performance. A laugh that hadn\u2019t landed, say, or a moment that had slipped. \u201cIt was a never-ending puzzle,\u201d he remembers. \u201cYou never achieve some sort of apotheosis like, \u2018Oh, that\u2019s my performance.\u2019 It\u2019s a struggle, constantly trying to get to a point where you are satisfied. And she never got there. Not once.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In A German Life, Stephens watched her do something she had never done before: eschew every trick, every habit, and simply be. \u201cShe threw away a lot of the stuff that she normally did,\u201d he says. \u201cShe was just sort of naked.\u201d Gone was all the filigree work honed across a lifetime. \u201cThe truth is in simplicity,\u201d he explains. \u201cWhen you see somebody who comes on and just does it, it\u2019s incredibly disarming.\u201d He scratches his beard. \u201cShe was never not trying to get better. Neither was my father, in his way. That\u2019s what they gave me.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>\u2018Equus\u2019 is running at the Menier Chocolate Factory until 4 July, and then at Theatre Royal Bath from 14 to 25 July. Tickets can be bought <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.menierchocolatefactory.com\/\">here<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Your support helps us to tell the story From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":574438,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[6491,196392,96,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-574437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-diry-15616-j83716902-es-p-smith-maggie-format-portrait-exp-1971","tag-entertainment","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/574437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=574437"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/574437\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/574438"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=574437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=574437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=574437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}