{"id":575067,"date":"2026-05-09T17:13:47","date_gmt":"2026-05-09T17:13:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/575067\/"},"modified":"2026-05-09T17:13:47","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T17:13:47","slug":"alan-carr-swears-off-love-i-might-as-well-chemically-castrate-myself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/575067\/","title":{"rendered":"Alan Carr swears off love: \u2018I might as well chemically castrate myself\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Your support helps us to tell the story<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 iOIawn\">The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.<\/p>\n<p>Your support makes all the difference.Read more<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/alan-carr\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Alan Carr<\/a> has claimed he has sworn off love and romance, declaring: \u201cThat\u2019s it. No more sex. Shop\u2019s closed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The comedian, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/tv\/features\/alan-carr-traitors-la-voix-strictly-b2855308.html\" title=\"Thanks to La Voix and Alan Carr, the chaotic gay funnyman is back on the BBC\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">who won last year\u2019s smash hit first series of Celebrity Traitors<\/a>, had previously declared that he hoped to find love in 2026, but in a new interview has walked back on his statement.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve got no more romance in me. I\u2019ve had enough. Done at 50. That\u2019s it. No more sex. Shop\u2019s closed, gone,\u201d he told <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/tv\/2026\/05\/09\/alan-carr-interior-design-masters-interview\/\">The Telegraph<\/a>. \u201cI might as well chemically castrate myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carr added that he no longer uses dating apps, before seeming to come around \u2013 mid-conversation \u2013 to the idea of meeting \u201cthe one\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cListen, if I\u2019m up in Scotland\u2026 remember that film Mrs Brown with Judi Dench falling in love with Billy Connolly? If that happens, if I\u2019m riding on a horse and some fit Scottish man in a kilt comes out and scoops me up, I wouldn\u2019t say no.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/GettyImages-2273748259.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Alan Carr, who last year won the inaugural \u2018Celebrity Traitors\u2019, has sworn off love\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Alan Carr, who last year won the inaugural \u2018Celebrity Traitors\u2019, has sworn off love (Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>Carr is currently spending time in Scotland, having bought a \u00a33.25m castle in the Scottish Borders, which comes with 17 bedrooms. The purchase serves as the premise for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/tv\/news\/alan-carr-baron-castle-show-b2939939.html\" title=\"Alan Carr to become a baron after buying Scottish castle: \u2018I\u2019m getting my own tartan\u2019\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">a new Disney+ reality series starring Carr<\/a> \u2013 titled Castle Man \u2013 in which he will redecorate his new home.<\/p>\n<p>The 49-year-old, who for eight years hosted the hit chat show Alan Carr: Chatty Man for Channel 4, was previously married to actor and comedian Paul Drayton. They were together for 10 years before marrying in 2018, but announced their separation in 2022.<\/p>\n<p>In 2023, Carr joked that he was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/love-sex\/alan-carr-paul-drayton-split-b2292592.html\" title=\"Alan Carr says he is in \u2018slaggy phase\u2019 after split from Paul Drayton\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">in a \u201cslaggy phase\u201d following his divorce<\/a>, and during an episode of his Life\u2019s a Beach podcast asked the Scissor Sisters frontman Jake Shears if he \u201cknew anyone\u201d he could date. \u201cI want to be a slag,\u201d Carr joked. \u201cBut to be a slag you need someone to be slaggy with.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carr and Drayton were married by the pop star Adele in Los Angeles in 2018. The singer became ordained so she could marry the pair.<\/p>\n<p>Announcing their split, a spokesperson for the pair said: \u201cAfter 13 years as a couple and three years of marriage, Alan Carr and Paul Drayton would like to announce they are separating. They have jointly and amicably made the difficult decision to divorce and go their separate ways.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/GettyImages-1730052058.jpeg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Carr hosts a number of travel shows with his real-life friend Amanda Holden\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Carr hosts a number of travel shows with his real-life friend Amanda Holden (Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>In an appearance on the panel of 8 Out of 10 Cats Does Countdown after the split, Carr joked that he got \u201ccustody of Adele\u201d while Drayton got \u201ccustody of Gok Wan during the weekends\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the condition of Carr\u2019s love life, he\u2019s at least not struggling for employment at the moment. Following the success of his stint on Celebrity Traitors, Carr has presented the Channel 4 game show Secret Genius and further series of his home decoration show Amanda and Alan\u2019s Greek Job alongside Amanda Holden. He was also one of the stars of Prime Video\u2019s LOL: Last One Laughing UK.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Your support helps us to tell the story From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":575068,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[6491,96,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-575067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-entertainment","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/575067","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=575067"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/575067\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/575068"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=575067"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=575067"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=575067"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}