{"id":575363,"date":"2026-05-09T21:17:11","date_gmt":"2026-05-09T21:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/575363\/"},"modified":"2026-05-09T21:17:11","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T21:17:11","slug":"i-havent-had-a-steady-income-for-years-but-i-dont-fret-about-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/575363\/","title":{"rendered":"I haven\u2019t had a steady income for years \u2013 but I don\u2019t fret about money"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Having been self-employed in property and journalism for the majority of my working career, I\u2019ve always had to have my wits about me. Without an employer, you have to sort a lot of stuff yourself. From pensions and sickness to calculating your tax, it\u2019s all on you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The absence of a regular paycheck isn\u2019t for everybody, but the upside is you get to be your own boss and structure your own schedule. As the boss \u2013 all the rewards and risks fall on you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Over the years, my finances have been a bit of a roller coaster. But regardless of what\u2019s happening, I\u2019ve always known the need to have a steady income flow to pay the bills.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Reading an article recently on <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/money\/wealthy-but-not-feel-it-money-dysmorphia\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:financial dysmorphia;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;financial dysmorphia&quot;}\">financial dysmorphia<\/a> \u2013 an anxiety-driven, unhealthy obsession with saving money, sometimes to the state of severe deprivation, despite having a stable income \u2013 it got me thinking about what I\u2019ve learnt about money.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">My realisation surprised me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I\u2019m not going to say I\u2019ve cracked it, but having gone through some big highs and lows and managing to keep afloat (financially and mentally), I feel I\u2019ve become a pretty good driver of my own financial train, so I thought I\u2019d share my learnings.<\/p>\n<p>Money always flows (no matter how hard you try and stop it)<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Like the sea, money ebbs in and out, and like trying to hold a handful of water, the more you try and hang on, the more will drip through your fingers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It sounds simple, but changing my mindset on money from something that you have (and store like a possession) as opposed to an ever-flowing force really helped me. Money, by its very being, is always on the move. I may have some one day, then the council tax department may have it the next, then it goes from their account to&#8230; well, who knows where!<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Understanding your own personal cash flow is the key to understanding your financial position. Knowing what you have coming in versus what you have going out is the simplest tool in the world.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Just jot it down with pen and paper if you don\u2019t want to get fancy. Yet despite it being so simple, there are still many people who don\u2019t balance their books.<\/p>\n<p>Use it, don\u2019t hoard it<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Being self-employed can be precarious, and so I err on the side of caution. But lately I\u2019ve realised what was once a decent sum stashed into a cash Isa some years ago has been eaten away by inflation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Luckily, I\u2019ve also invested in <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/money\/investing\/best-stocks-shares-isas\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:stocks and shares Isas;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;stocks and shares Isas&quot;}\">stocks and shares Isas<\/a>, but it was disappointing to realise the money I\u2019d set aside in cash had nothing like the spending power it had 15 years ago, which then made me question why I hadn\u2019t taken action.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It\u2019s really important to have an emergency budget, but beyond that, money just sitting around in an account rather than being used to buy joy \u2013 or time for you to have joy \u2013 is a wasted resource. It may sound odd, but I gave myself permission to spend now, rather than waiting until tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Set aside money that \u2018isn\u2019t yours\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When I receive money into my account, it\u2019s paid gross. That means I have to calculate the tax, National Insurance and what pension contributions I may be able to make.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">As a rough rule of thumb, I set aside 35pc of every paycheck \u2013 the same day it\u2019s received \u2013 and place it in a different account. I top up my <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/money\/banking\/savings-accounts\/premium-bonds-do-buy-chances-winning\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Premium Bonds;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Premium Bonds&quot;}\">Premium Bonds <\/a>(you can have a maximum of \u00a350,000) and then forget about it until either HMRC sends its demands or NS&amp;I informs me I\u2019m a lucky winner of a tax-free prize.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">To ensure I keep up with pension contributions to my Sipp, I have a regular standing order set up to cover the bare minimum, which is \u00a32,880 per year for non-earners. Where possible, I top this up from my relevant earnings.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I know each of us has our own financial goals, but the most important thing is that money is a tool \u2013 it\u2019s up to us how we use it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Having been self-employed in property and journalism for the majority of my working career, I\u2019ve always had to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":575364,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[84,4176,4174,4175,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-575363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-personal-finance","tag-business","tag-finance","tag-personal-finance","tag-personalfinance","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/575363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=575363"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/575363\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/575364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=575363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=575363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=575363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}