{"id":610163,"date":"2026-05-29T10:58:16","date_gmt":"2026-05-29T10:58:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/610163\/"},"modified":"2026-05-29T10:58:16","modified_gmt":"2026-05-29T10:58:16","slug":"cmat-is-being-bullied-for-her-weight-her-reaction-made-me-cry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/610163\/","title":{"rendered":"CMAT is being bullied for her weight &#8211; her reaction made me cry"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" width=\"646\" height=\"431\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/GettyImages-2278005221.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-28565549\" alt=\"Radio 1's Big Weekend - Sunday\" decoding=\"sync\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tCMAT brought pure joy to the stage at BBC Radio 1\u2019s Big Weekend (Picture: WireImage)<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s devastating to have to even address this in 2026, but a pop star is being mercilessly bullied and downright abused for their body. Yes, this is still happening, and I\u2019m shattered by it.<\/p>\n<p>CMAT, real name Ciara Mary-Alice Thompson, is a brilliant young music star, if you didn\u2019t already know. There\u2019s no denying her excellence, and her most recent performance saw her absolutely own the stage at <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/bbc-2\/\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">BBC<\/a> Radio 1\u2019s Big Weekend.<\/p>\n<p>But her big moment has been tarnished by \u2013 I\u2019m going to say it \u2013 repulsive people leaving repulsive comments about her body, mainly her weight.<\/p>\n<p>It has become so incessantly cruel, CMAT herself has now replied to the abuse with a heartbreaking letter about her \u2018deep sadness\u2019 that made me cry.<\/p>\n<p>The 30-year-old Irish singer-songwriter dazzles audiences with her energetic performances, addictive songs, outstanding voice and downright fun vibe, and has rightly earned her place as one of the greatest musicians of today.<\/p>\n<p>She actually IS the moment. She\u2019s one of the best we\u2019ve got right now, a vibrant breath of fresh air, fun, charismatic, camp \u2013 all boxes ticked.<\/p>\n<p>However, despite her excellent show on Sunday at the BBC festival in <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/sunderland-fc\/\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sunderland<\/a>, the Euro-Country singer was obliterated on <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/social-media\/\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">social media<\/a> by people utterly transfixed by her weight, making cruel remarks and contaminating the space with vile comments, none of which need to be repeated here.<\/p>\n<p>What makes this more miserable is that just two years ago, after performing at BBC <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/radio-1\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Radio 1<\/a> Big Weekend in 2024, CMAT revealed the BBC had disabled comments on a video of her performing at the gig \u2018because so many people were calling me fat\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Last year, she also released a song in response to the strange hatred of her body called Take a Sexy Picture of Me. This is not her first rodeo, sadly.<\/p>\n<p>Following the latest barrage of online garbage, CMAT has now shared an upsetting response on <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/instagram\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She sounds like someone at the end of her rope, exhausted by the constant narrative around her body. Which, by the way, is a normal, average-sized woman\u2019s body.<\/p>\n<p>On Thursday evening, sharing grabs from a Substack post about the whole ordeal (written by <a href=\"https:\/\/frontrowfeels.substack.com\/p\/take-a-sexy-picture-of-me-and-tell\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/frontrowfeels.substack.com\/p\/take-a-sexy-picture-of-me-and-tell\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Front Row Feels<\/a>), CMAT revealed that she has had Instagram, <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/tiktok\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">TikTok<\/a> and X deleted from her <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/smartphones\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">phone<\/a> for \u2018some time now for the preservation of my <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/mental-health\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">mental health<\/a>\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"972\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/GettyImages-2278051160.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-28565584\" alt=\"Radio 1's Big Weekend - Sunday\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tHowever, the online discourse about her body was vile (Picture: Redferns)<\/p>\n<p>\u2018But the discourse this week appears to be so large that it has still gotten back to me. As such I felt compelled to wade in and speak for myself !!!<\/p>\n<p>\u2018It\u2019s been very hard to try and describe how difficult the last few days since the BBCR1 Big Weekend have been, but I came across an essay on Substack by a blog called Front Row Feels which really has summed up a lot of what is causing my deep sadness, so I decided to add it into my post.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u2018It is literally so boring for me, a gorgeous genius, to keep having to yap on about how horribly I am treated because of my body. I would love to stop but I cannot because it keeps happening , at an accelerating and worsening pace as i become more famous. there is no relief from this- nobody can protect me or save me from this, and all that is demanded of me is more and more work as every environment i am placed in becomes more hostile.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>She went on to say that some \u2018very well-meaning people\u2019 call her defiant, but that she is not.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018I am not choosing to look like this or weigh this much as some kind of punk rock act of liberty. I simply have a body, one that I would of course like to change in order to fit in and avoid all of this abuse, but I have had extreme difficulty in doing so. I don\u2019t\u2019 get a say in whether or not I want to be brave, I simply have to sit here and take it.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"969\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/GettyImages-2271876032.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-28565593\" alt=\"2026 Coachella Valley Music And Arts Festival - Weekend 2 - Day 1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tIf CMAT eventually decides to quit the industry, who could blame her? (Picture: Getty Images for Coachella)<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not a call to action from CMAT, rather just a \u2018please understand how awful this is for me\u2019 message, and it\u2019s her sign-off that had my eyes watering.<\/p>\n<p>CMAT finished up: \u2018With all that being said, I am at the same time very very happy and grateful every day to have the job that I have. The feeling of seeing all your dreams come true after so many years of constant grinding towards them\u2026.. chefs kiss.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018But the success is increasingly becoming tarnished by the fact that I would be allowed to enjoy it so much more if I was thin. With deep sadness \u2013 CMAT.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>How utterly harrowing, that a musician is forced to not only address people bullying her for \u2018being fat\u2019, but that it\u2019s now actually impacting her enjoyment of her career.<\/p>\n<p>The response to the post was vast, with the likes of Sophie Ellis-Bextor, Clara Amfo and Lauren Laverne sharing their support along with hundreds of fans.<\/p>\n<p>But I fear this is an issue that isn\u2019t going to go away. In a world that is falling apart, competitive thinness is back. I can\u2019t believe we\u2019re back here after all the years of body positivity that started to move the dial.<\/p>\n<p>And, while there is so much genuine support and love out there for CMAT, and while the abuse won\u2019t ruin her career directly, if she keeps getting chipped away at like this, it could make her decide to throw in the towel one day. And why not? Who wants to be endlessly shouted at online for being \u2018not a size 8\u2019 or daring to have soft skin on her legs?<\/p>\n<p>I just hope that CMAT can block out the noise going forward, because I don\u2019t think the bullies are going to stop, and the world really does need her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Got a story?<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">If you\u2019ve got a celebrity story, video or pictures get in touch with the <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Metro.co.uk<\/a> entertainment team by emailing us celebtips@metro.co.uk, calling 020 3615 2145 or by visiting our <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/submit-stuff\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Submit Stuff<\/a> page \u2013 we\u2019d love to hear from you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2026\/05\/26\/music-icon-gutted-banned-going-pointless-bbc-said-im-famous-28526408\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Music icon gutted after being banned from going on Pointless: \u2018BBC said I\u2019m too famous\u2019<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2026\/05\/06\/double-o-cup-boobs-biggest-britain-still-growing-28255393\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">My double O-cup boobs are the \u2018biggest in Britain\u2019 \u2014 and they\u2019re still growing<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2026\/05\/04\/santana-singer-alex-ligertwood-dies-aged-79-weeks-final-gig-28225203\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Santana singer Alex Ligertwood dies aged 79 weeks after final gig<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"metro-button share-bar-comments\" data-vars-position=\"bottom\" href=\"#metro-comments-container\"><br \/>\n\t\t\tComment now<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\tComments<br \/>\n\t\t<\/a><a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" class=\"metro-button share-bar-preferred-source\" data-vars-position=\"bottom\" href=\"https:\/\/google.com\/preferences\/source?q=https:\/\/metro.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\tAdd Metro as a Preferred Source on Google<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\tAdd as preferred source<br \/>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"CMAT brought pure joy to the stage at BBC Radio 1\u2019s Big Weekend (Picture: WireImage) It\u2019s devastating to&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":610164,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[18852,5809,96,128,5810,3334,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-610163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-music","tag-body-image","tag-british-musicians","tag-entertainment","tag-music","tag-music-tours","tag-showbiz","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/610163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=610163"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/610163\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/610164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=610163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=610163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=610163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}