Emily Ratajkowski revealed she stopped having sex with ex-husband Sebastian Bear-McClard six months after their son Sylvester was born.<\/p>\n
The 35-year-old model made the candid confession in a new raw essay for The Cut<\/a>, which included a photoshoot of her breastfeeding a doll.<\/p>\n Ratajkowski recalled that after she welcomed her son in March 2021<\/a>, she experienced \u201ca violent transition into a new raw reality of screaming baby on my aching tit and ring on my swollen finger.\u201d<\/p>\n Emily Ratajkowski (seen above in her photoshoot for The Cut) penned a raw essay where she opened up about her divorce from ex-husband Sebastian Bear-McClard. emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n The model (seen breastfeeding a doll above) said her \u201cmarriage collapsed\u201d after her son was born in 2021. emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n Ratajkowski said the exes stopped having sex six months after welcoming their son. emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n She said her \u201cmarriage collapsed\u201d over a time period that \u201cfelt both instant and excruciatingly slow.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSix months after my son was born, my husband and I stopped having sex,\u201d Ratajkowski penned. \u201cLess than a year later, we separated.\u201d<\/p>\n Page Six exclusively revealed Ratajkowski\u00a0split from<\/a> Bear-McClard, 45, in July 2022 after four and a half years of marriage.<\/p>\n Sources told us the filmmaker allegedly cheated on Ratajkowski.<\/p>\n \u201cHe\u2019s a serial cheater,\u201d the insider said. \u201cIt\u2019s gross. He\u2019s a dog.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cLess than a year later, we separated,\u201d she wrote (Bear-McClard, Ratajkowski and their son Sylvester are seen above). emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n Ratajkowski filed for divorce from her ex in September 2022. Getty Images<\/p>\n \t\t\t\t\t\t\tWant more celebrity and pop culture news?\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tStart your day with Page Six Daily.\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n \t\t\t\t\t\tThanks for signing up!\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n Ratajkowski filed for divorce <\/a>from her ex in September 2022. <\/p>\n The following year, Bear-McClard was\u00a0accused of sexual misconduct and inappropriate behavior with teen girls<\/a>\u00a0in an explosive Variety expos\u00e9<\/a>. He has not addressed the allegations.<\/p>\n Ratajkowski, who finalized her divorce from Bear-McClard last summer, told The Cut that people looked at her in a \u201ccondescending way\u201d after her divorce.<\/p>\n \u201cTheir furrowed brows, the pity in their faces as they delivered an \u2018I\u2019m so sorry, Emily,’\u201d she explained. \u201cI couldn\u2019t stand my pathetic reflection in their eyes. They saw me as someone who was unwanted, who had been left.\u201d<\/p>\n Ratajkowski (seen above with Bear-McClard at the 2020 Vanity Fair Oscar Party) said people looked at her in a \u201ccondescending way\u201d after her divorce. WireImage<\/p>\n The model (pictured above with her ex at Michael Rubin\u2019s Fanatics Super Bowl Party in 2020) detailed how she went on a hookup \u201cmania\u201d after she became single. Getty Images for Fanatics<\/p>\n Ratajkowski said as a kid it \u201cwas crucial\u201d to her \u201cto avoid becoming a single mom\u201d because she considered the term \u201can insult.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cHaving a child with the wrong man was the fastest way to ruin your life as a woman \u2014 it meant having no freedom, no choices, no emergency exit,\u201d she shared. \u201cAll baggage and no security.\u201d<\/p>\n But Ratajkowski said she learned to embrace her single mom status and went on a hookup \u201cmania,\u201d boasting that she \u201cdecided to f\u2013k my way into a new kind of woman.\u201d<\/p>\n As the men came and went, Ratajkowski realized her single era was nothing like her life before marriage.<\/p>\n Ratajkowski (seen above with her ex and son in NYC in May 2022) compared her post-divorce behavior to being a \u201csupervillain.\u201d GC Images<\/p>\n Ratajkowski (pictured above with Bear-McClard in 2019) also said she \u201cwasn\u2019t getting off on the sex\u201d as much as she expected during the phase. GC Images<\/p>\n \u201cBefore my separation, I\u2019d never had a one-night stand. I\u2019d never slept with someone the same day I met them. In fact, I\u2019d only slept with eight people: four of whom had been live-in boyfriends, and one of whom was my male best friend in high school,\u201d she explained. <\/p>\n \u201cI didn\u2019t f\u2013k anyone I wasn\u2019t pretty sure would fall in love with me because I wanted to be precious.\u201d<\/p>\n She listed the \u201cuniquely disturbed characters from man hell\u201d that she dated in New York, including a DJ from Brooklyn who told her over dinner that incest runs in his family.<\/p>\n \u201cBut he was an anomaly,\u201d she said about the DJ. \u201cThere was Vegan Graffiti Artist with impeccable posture, Chef who thought he might have chlamydia, Spanish Gen-Zer who couldn\u2019t stop sending me nudes, heavily self-medicated Son of a Billionaire with questionable politics, several Italians, and, of course, another DJ.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThe list goes on but, for legal reasons, will not,\u201d Ratajkowski added.<\/p>\n Ratajkowski (seen above) listed off the \u201cdisturbing\u201d men she went on dates with in NYC after her divorce. emrata\/Instagram<\/p>\n Ratajkowski (seen above in NYC on May 6) said her most serious situationship was with an \u201cElder Millennial\u201d who would call her a \u201cwhore\u201d to get her to have sex with him, which made her dump him. Getty Images for Primark<\/p>\n The mother of one said her most serious situationship was with a man she dubbed \u201cElder Millennial\u201d who told her he thought he was in love with her after three weeks of knowing each other, which gave her \u201ca flicker of familiar anxiety in my chest.\u201d<\/p>\n Ratajkowski explained it didn\u2019t sit well with her that \u201cElder Millennial\u201d would call her a \u201cwhore\u201d to get her to have sex, and after finally being able to \u201csee herself,\u201d she dumped him by telling him, \u201cThe dirty talk isn\u2019t really working for me.\u201d<\/p>\n At the end of her essay, Ratajkowski compared her post-divorce behavior to being a \u201csupervillain\u201d like Poison Ivy or Catwoman, admitting she acted \u201cas misguided and vulnerable as I\u2019d been in my 20s when I was playing the good girl.\u201d<\/p>\n She also said she \u201cwasn\u2019t getting off on the sex\u201d because she was \u201ctoo preoccupied\u201d with loving and caring for her son, which sparked her decision to fully end her hookup phase.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Emily Ratajkowski revealed she stopped having sex with ex-husband Sebastian Bear-McClard six months after their son Sylvester was…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":635174,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[6491,14193,9400,14194,2755,18183,96,576,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-635173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-celebrity-divorces","tag-celebrity-exes","tag-celebrity-moms","tag-celebrity-news","tag-emily-ratajkowski","tag-entertainment","tag-sex-and-relationships","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/635173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=635173"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/635173\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/635174"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=635173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=635173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=635173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}