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Your recent column<\/a> stopped me in my tracks. You suggest that an \u201cattachment to frugality\u201d can limit your financial growth, and propose gradually increasing your capacity to spend, with the goal of \u201cfind[ing] yourself more inspired to want to create more wealth\u201d. Huh? Might I ask you to have another think about your proposition? The experience of Warren Buffett suggests the nexus between frugality and limited financial growth is not fixed. If someone is content with their frugal lifestyle, why upend this? <\/p>\n First, a correction: I suggested increasing one\u2019s capacity to enjoy spending money. I\u2019m not saying to spend more \u2013 I\u2019m saying to enjoy spending more. You can spend $100, happily or unhappily. For those attached to frugality, every expense hurts. This is what I was addressing.<\/p>\n Second, you are correct. If someone is content with their frugal lifestyle, and has no desire to change this, there\u2019s no need to upend anything. I was not writing for that person. I was writing for the person who wants to continue to pursue more financial growth.<\/p>\n Now, I don\u2019t know Warren Buffett, but I have coached multimillionaires who are wealthy on paper and still feel constrained, anxious, scared to spend, or unable to experience the level of enjoyment and freedom you truly desire.<\/p>\n They\u2019re not frugal because they enjoy it or want to be \u2013 they\u2019re frugal because it\u2019s become a habit they can\u2019t break. So, while Warren Buffett is celebrated for being a frugal billionaire, is that admirable, in and of itself?<\/p>\n But presumably your point was that you can be frugal and pursue financial growth. You can do both. Technically, it is possible. However, frugality can also be a constraint.<\/p>\n Do you really not enjoy spending money? Or are you just scared of spending it?<\/p>\n I want you to imagine you have \u201cenough\u201d. Maybe you have a fully paid-off home, you have enough in investments to cover a comfortable lifestyle. Now, would you choose to do the work to keep pursuing financial growth \u2013 even if you didn\u2019t \u201cneed\u201d more? For many people, the answer is \u201cno\u201d.<\/p>\n Why keep going, if you don\u2019t need more? You wouldn\u2019t. Unless \u2013 there is a level beyond need. After you are financially secure, the next level isn\u2019t defined by need. No one needs to be rich. No one needs first-class flights or an extra bedroom. Those aren\u2019t needs. They\u2019re desires.<\/p>\n But if you\u2019ve spent the past few decades being \u201cfinancially responsible\u201d, curtailing all your \u201cwants\u201d and only allowing yourself \u201cneeds\u201d, then you might not have a great relationship with desire. You might be so conditioned to suppressing your desires, squashing them before they can even surface, that you might not even feel desire any more. This might even feel like contentment.<\/p>\n Editor’s pick This takes some introspection. Are you really content? Or did you just suppress all desire? Do you really not enjoy spending money? Or are you just scared of spending it? Is there really nothing you want to spend money on? Or has frugality become an identity you\u2019re attached to?<\/p>\n I\u2019m not suggesting one should pursue growth beyond what they need. I\u2019m not saying it\u2019s wrong to live a life of frugality. It\u2019s your life. Live it how you want.<\/p>\n What I\u2019m saying is \u2013 if you do want to pursue a higher level of financial growth, being overly attached to frugality might become a constraint if it robs you of any inspiration to pursue further growth. You might find it easier and more enjoyable to continue pursuing growth if you gave yourself permission to enjoy the rewards of your work along the way.<\/p>\n This is applicable to many areas of life. If you have a sedentary lifestyle, you might lack any real motivation to pursue higher levels of fitness. Sure, it\u2019s \u201cgood for you\u201d \u2013 but that\u2019s not a compelling source of motivation.<\/p>\n However, if there\u2019s something you\u2019re actually excited to do \u2013 such as climb a mountain with a friend, get in shape for your wedding, compete in a sport you enjoy \u2013 now you have a personal, compelling reason to pursue a higher level of fitness.<\/p>\n The difference is that when it comes to money, the dominant narrative is that spending is bad, and the goal should always be to spend less. If that\u2019s your world view, then the idea of enjoying spending will feel triggering because spending isn\u2019t to be enjoyed \u2013 it\u2019s to be eliminated.<\/p>\n But the point isn\u2019t to spend or not spend. The point is to experience life more fully. Does this require you to spend more? No. But does it mean it might be beneficial to stop grasping so tightly to money because you\u2019re terrified to spend it? Yes.<\/p>\n And when you do, might the natural consequence of this be that you end up spending more? Maybe, but not necessarily. The key difference isn\u2019t in the amount you\u2019re spending \u2013 it\u2019s the mindset with which you\u2019re spending it.<\/p>\n Paridhi Jain is a money and mindset coach who combines practical strategies with mindset transformation to help clients create more freedom and fulfilment in wealth, work and life. Find Paridhi at: skilledsmart.com.au<\/a><\/p>\n Advice given in this article is general in nature and is not intended to influence readers\u2019 decisions about investing or financial products. 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