{"id":745211,"date":"2026-08-21T14:48:17","date_gmt":"2026-08-21T14:48:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/745211\/"},"modified":"2026-08-21T14:48:17","modified_gmt":"2026-08-21T14:48:17","slug":"i-would-hope-that-whoever-told-you-that-you-are-ugly-is-not-anyone-you-would-call-a-friend-evanescences-amy-lee-shares-some-beautiful-advice-with-a-fan-and-explains-why-being-an-instagram-star","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/745211\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I would hope that whoever told you that you are ugly is not anyone you would call a friend.&#8221; Evanescence&#8217;s Amy Lee shares some beautiful advice with a fan &#8211; and explains why &#8220;being an Instagram star&#8221; is not the important part of making art"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"elk-6d44ea76-9d48-11f1-92e1-c7ab8fa99807\"><a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/artist\/evanescence\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/artist\/evanescence\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"bands-artists\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/artist\/evanescence\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Evanescence<\/a> frontwoman <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/artist\/amy-lee\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/artist\/amy-lee\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"bands-artists\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/artist\/amy-lee\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Amy Lee<\/a> has shared some touching advice for a fan that was stung by cruel remarks about her looks. Taking part in an interview with <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/music\/2026\/aug\/20\/amy-lee-of-evanescence-i-could-happily-do-an-entire-album-of-nothing-but-portishead-covers\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/music\/2026\/aug\/20\/amy-lee-of-evanescence-i-could-happily-do-an-entire-album-of-nothing-but-portishead-covers\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"bands-artists\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The Guardian<\/a> where the singer answers questions posed by fans, Amy was unimpressed to hear that one follower with ambitions to become a rock artist was put off her dreams by being called &#8220;ugly&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Show business\u2019s obsession with beauty and sexualization to boost sales horrifies me,&#8221; the fan states, before asking Amy: &#8220;Is there even the slightest chance for an unattractive woman to be a rock singer?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Amy&#8217;s reply is typically thoughtful and heartfelt, Evanescence&#8217;s leader noting that the fan&#8217;s question made her &#8220;feel sad&#8221;. &#8220;First of all, I would hope that whoever told you that you are ugly is not anyone you would call a friend,&#8221; she replies. &#8220;Don\u2019t think of yourself that way and don\u2019t listen to those people. They\u2019re probably just jealous. Beauty is the deep stuff: being an artist, making music. That\u2019s where the gold is, and beauty comes out through the inside, so focus on the inside and making something great for people to experience. Selling your product and being an Instagram star is not the important part. Anybody can make great music if it\u2019s in your soul: that\u2019s the most beautiful thing about you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/store.loudersound.com\/search?q=evanescence\" id=\"elk-bec0ce90-9d4a-11f1-9267-9dbfcff960b1\" data-url=\"https:\/\/store.loudersound.com\/search?q=evanescence\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"bands-artists\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"vanilla-image-block\" style=\"padding-top:125.00%;\">\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/gXFvYkfBrUoTGfnML6HujL.png\" alt=\"Evanescence vinyl\"   loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" data-original-mos=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/gXFvYkfBrUoTGfnML6HujL.png\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/gXFvYkfBrUoTGfnML6HujL.png\" class=\"rounded-[var(--image--border-radius,0)] inline\"\/>\n<\/p>\n<p>(Image credit: Future)<\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"elk-bec0cf08-9d4a-11f1-a447-c3f2fc4adbed\">Elsewhere in the interview, Amy also suggests she might well still be making music into her 60s. &#8220;I turn 45 in December, and 44 definitely doesn\u2019t feel like I\u2019d imagined \u2013 it\u2019s better,&#8221; she says. &#8220;Turning 60 is only 15 years away, which doesn\u2019t feel that long. I don\u2019t know if we\u2019ll be touring hard then, but they say use it or lose it, so I\u2019m not ruling it out. It gives you so much life to be able to bring people together and share music, so it breaks my heart to imagine that we can\u2019t do that any more for whatever reason. I\u2019d have to be still making music or creating in some way. It doesn\u2019t make sense to stop.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"elk-seasonal\"\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"elk-bec0cf08-9d4a-11f1-a447-c3f2fc4adbed-1\">Evanescence certainly show no sign of stopping right now. Following the release of new album <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/music\/albums\/evanescence-sanctuary-review\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/music\/albums\/evanescence-sanctuary-review\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"bands-artists\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.loudersound.com\/music\/albums\/evanescence-sanctuary-review\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Sanctuary<\/a> in June, the band will hit the UK and Europe for an arena tour next month, before chalking up dates in the US, Malaysia, Japan, Australia and New Zealand.<\/p>\n<p>            You may like<\/p>\n<p class=\"newsletter-form__strapline\">Sign up below to get the latest from Metal Hammer, plus exclusive special offers, direct to your inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Evanescence frontwoman Amy Lee has shared some touching advice for a fan that was stung by cruel remarks&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":745212,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[6491,96,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-745211","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-entertainment","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/745211","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=745211"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/745211\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/745212"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=745211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=745211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=745211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}