{"id":746838,"date":"2026-08-23T04:30:13","date_gmt":"2026-08-23T04:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/746838\/"},"modified":"2026-08-23T04:30:13","modified_gmt":"2026-08-23T04:30:13","slug":"liverpool-singer-olivia-diaferia-on-music-giving-her-clarity-after-struggling-in-social-situations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/746838\/","title":{"rendered":"Liverpool singer Olivia Diaferia on music giving her clarity after &#8216;struggling in social situations&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The young singer has made a name for herself on social media in recent years<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Olivia Diaferia, lead-singer of popular Liverpool band XL Poncho\" loading=\"eager\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/0_XL-Poncho-singer-Olivia-Diaferia.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Olivia Diaferia, lead-singer of popular Liverpool band XL Poncho\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Olivia Diaferia, lead-singer of popular Liverpool band XL Poncho(Image: Liverpool Echo)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">One of the rising stars of Liverpool&#8217;s music scene, Olivia Diaferia has opened up on how &#8220;struggling in social situations&#8221; has helped her make a name for her band, XL Poncho, in the local music scene.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">They are yet to release an album, but Olivia&#8217;s XL Poncho are already making a name for themselves in Liverpool thanks to their lead-singer&#8217;s TikTok presence. Over the last year, her <a aria-label=\"TikTok Link opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.liverpoolecho.co.uk\/all-about\/on-tiktok\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">TikTok <\/a>followers have become familiar with her trademark upbeat, extroverted personality that sees her document her social life as well as giving glimpses of the band&#8217;s music.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Olivia said that away from her on-screen personality, she has &#8220;struggled&#8221; to fit in over the years. The 22-year-old told the <a aria-label=\"ECHOLink opens in a new tab.\" class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.liverpoolecho.co.uk\/\" rel=\"follow nofollow noopener\" tabindex=\"0\" target=\"_blank\">ECHO<\/a>: &#8220;I do struggle in social situations, sometimes I don&#8217;t know what to say, or sometimes I say too much. I get overwhelmed very very easily.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;I think that&#8217;s why I love going on nights out, people think that I&#8217;m a huge party animal, but it&#8217;s partly because when I&#8217;m listening to music and on the dance floor, I can just think clearly, and I can bring the energy and be bubbly. I feel like when you&#8217;ve only got the beat, the rhythm, and the instruments to listen to, it&#8217;s easier to feel more like myself.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"XL Poncho singer Olivia Diaferia\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/1787459411_120_0_XL-Poncho-singer-Olivia-Diaferia.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"Olivia said that she isn't always as confident as she appears\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">Olivia said that she isn&#8217;t always as confident as she appears(Image: Liverpool Echo)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">While music has allowed her to &#8220;feel more herself&#8221; in recent times and plays a huge role in her life at the moment, Olivia said that it wasn&#8217;t until fairly recently that her love of music started to grow.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">She said: &#8220;I was in a music lesson in school, and I was on the computers, and I was definitely not doing the work I was supposed to be doing, I was on YouTube listening to music. And the song Green Eyes by Erykah Badu came on. It&#8217;s like a 10-minute-long song, and I listened to it in full, and I was just like, &#8216;Oh my goodness, like this is absolutely amazing.&#8217; I think my mind was blown, because I was just so used to indie music.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Her interest in pursuing a career in music ignited, Olivia began studying at the Royal Northern College of Music in Manchester.. She said: &#8220;I always wanted to be in a band, but I just didn&#8217;t know how to get it to materialise. So that&#8217;s why I was like, &#8216;Right, I&#8217;m doing music in uni because I need to find some musicians.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">By her second year in uni, she had started her solo career, but her frustrations began to grow as she travelled down to London to meet &#8220;industry people&#8221;, who had advised her to change genre and started working with producers, leaving her feeling out of her &#8220;depth and out of control&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">A conversation on the bus home from uni with her friend Matty Price-Jones started to change everything. She said: &#8220;It wasn&#8217;t until I was getting the bus back with my friend Matty, and we were kind of both experiencing the same struggles, and we thought &#8216;You know what? Why don&#8217;t we write some music together?&#8217; I hadn&#8217;t even thought about it, because Matty had been in bands for years, in rock bands, and he loves progressive rock and really heavy stuff.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"XL Poncho singer Olivia Diaferia\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/1787459412_913_0_XL-Poncho-singer-Olivia-Diaferia.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"She said that one of her biggest musical influences is Erykah Badu \" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">She said that one of her biggest musical influences is Erykah Badu (Image: Liverpool Echo)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">&#8220;That was completely the opposite of what I&#8217;m into, but somehow, it just worked really, and we met over the summer to write some stuff, and it was just an instant connection. I think it&#8217;s crazy having that musical chemistry with someone, because I&#8217;ve definitely had writing sessions before where I&#8217;ve tried to write with other people, and as standalones, but together it just doesn&#8217;t work. But with me and Matty, it&#8217;s just great.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Since Matty and Olivia started the band a year ago, they&#8217;ve added Mathew Kuelemans on bass and Sam Reynolds on drums. In that time the band have gained considerable popularity in Liverpool, playing gigs at the Sound City Festival, Rough Trade [Liverpool] and Band on the Wall in Manchester as well as various other locations across the city.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">A significant part of the band&#8217;s quick rise in Liverpool&#8217;s music scene can be put down to their social media presence, which even pre-dates the band itself. For Olivia, it was clear even before starting the band that if she wanted her music to get noticed, then she had to have a presence on TikTok. She said: &#8220;At first I was doing singing videos [on TikTok], but it&#8217;s really difficult to maintain consistency with that, and I know TikTok likes you to post so many times a day. So I just thought, &#8216;Oh, I&#8217;ll showcase a bit of my personality and see what sticks really.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"XL Poncho singer Olivia Diaferia\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/1_XL-Poncho-singer-Olivia-Diaferia.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p aria-label=\"She hinted that the band could soon reach a major milestone\" class=\"ImageCaption_caption-title__ccyQU\" data-testid=\"caption-title\">She hinted that the band could soon reach a major milestone(Image: Liverpool Echo)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">After starting TikTok while she was in uni, since forming XL Poncho, Olivia has further utilised the social media app to help draw attention to the band&#8217;s music by releasing videos of them performing their songs in various locations across the city. However, she said Tiktok also comes with its disadvantages.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">She said: &#8220;Sometimes it&#8217;s a bit bittersweet because people will leave nasty comments and be like, &#8216;Oh, you know, she&#8217;s on TikTok. She thinks she can be a musician now,&#8217; like as if TikTok came first, but it was always music. I&#8217;m grateful to social media, without it I would not have have the platform that I&#8217;ve got, and I would not have people wanting to come to gigs and wanting to hear our music.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">Looking towards the future, Olivia said that the band could soon meet a major milestone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh\" data-tmdatatrack=\"content-unit\" data-tmdatatrack-type=\"paragraph\">She said: &#8220;I struggle to think about the future, I&#8217;m like, &#8216;What&#8217;s happening right now?&#8217; So I think we&#8217;re all just getting our ducks in a row and trying to figure out how we&#8217;re going to get some tunes out. We&#8217;re doing this all independently without a record label or any help, so that&#8217;s been a lot of hard work. But I think once our music does get on the the DSPs [Digital Streaming Platforms], everyone will feel super relieved and super proud.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The young singer has made a name for herself on social media in recent years Olivia Diaferia, lead-singer&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":746839,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[96,128,27770,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-746838","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-music","tag-entertainment","tag-music","tag-on-tiktok","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/746838","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=746838"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/746838\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/746839"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=746838"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=746838"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=746838"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}