{"id":75227,"date":"2025-08-18T10:36:16","date_gmt":"2025-08-18T10:36:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/75227\/"},"modified":"2025-08-18T10:36:16","modified_gmt":"2025-08-18T10:36:16","slug":"rugby-legend-gareth-thomas-says-were-still-s-at-tackling-homophobia-and-hiv-stigma-revealing-some-of-the-hateful-comments-he-still-receives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/75227\/","title":{"rendered":"Rugby legend Gareth Thomas says we’re still ‘s***’ at tackling homophobia and HIV stigma – revealing some of the hateful comments he still receives"},"content":{"rendered":"

Society is still in a ‘s*** place’ when it comes to tackling homophobia and the stigma around HIV<\/a>, Gareth Thomas has claimed.<\/p>\n

Speaking to Daily Mail podcast The Life of Bryony<\/a>, Thomas, 51, said that despite recent progress, major challenges remain \u2013 and revealed some of the hateful comments he still receives.<\/p>\n

Thomas captained both Wales and the British and Irish Lions during his illustrious playing career, becoming the Welshman to be captained 100 times by his national team.<\/p>\n

In 2009, Thomas broke ground by becoming rugby union’s first openly gay professional player. In 2019, Thomas announced that he was HIV positive with undetectable status, meaning he carries the virus but is not infectious.<\/p>\n

You can listen to this episode of The Life of Bryony by clicking the player below or here<\/a><\/p>\n

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‘We’ve come a long way’, Thomas told Mail columnist Bryony Gordon.<\/p>\n

‘But the reality is, we were in a really, really s*** place and now we’re just in a really s*** place.<\/p>\n

‘For example, can anyone name five openly gay participants in male sport? I sure as hell can’t, and I know my sport as well as anyone.<\/p>\n

‘Every time I go out on the field, I will be defined by my sexuality. I don’t want it to be like that. I’ve got ability, I’ve got personality \u2013 people want to be defined by that.’<\/p>\n

Since going public about his diagnosis, Thomas has championed HIV awareness and acceptance.<\/p>\n

During the interview, Thomas referenced a statistic that an estimated 400,000 people will die over the next 20 years from misinformation and prejudice about the disease, rather than from the illness itself.<\/p>\n

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Thomas captained both Wales and the British and Irish Lions during his illustrious playing career, becoming the Welshman to be captained 100 times by his national team<\/p>\n

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Speaking to Daily Mail columnist bryony Gordon, Thomas, 51, said that despite recent progress, major challenges remain\u00a0<\/p>\n

The former rugby player agreed with podcast host Bryony that much of this stigma stems from the ‘terrifying’ way HIV was portrayed in the 1980s.<\/p>\n

Thomas described how ignorance about the disease, infused with homophobia, has impacted his life.<\/p>\n

‘People can still be discriminatory, without actually making a homophobic or racist slur’, he said.<\/p>\n

‘I’ve walked out of a bathroom before, when somebody was waiting outside. I’ve heard them then go over to the waiter and ask whether they can use another toilet, because they think I can transmit the disease like that.<\/p>\n

‘I have been with a group of friends, and I’ve picked up somebody’s glass by mistake\u2026 you can see this uneasiness \u2013 they won’t drink from that glass again.<\/p>\n

‘People will say to my partner Steve when I’m with him: ‘God you’re so brave, you’re a star. You deserve a medal for marrying Gareth’ \u2013 just because of my medical history.<\/p>\n

‘I have also been spat at in the street\u2026 there were two young lads who walked up to me the other day and called me an AIDS spreader.’<\/p>\n

Medical advancements over the last decade mean that most people who contract HIV will live long and full lives.<\/p>\n

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Since going public about his diagnosis, Thomas has championed HIV awareness and acceptance<\/p>\n

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Thomas described how ignorance about the disease, infused with homophobia, has impacted his life<\/p>\n

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Gareth Thomas: ‘Every time I go out on the field, I will be defined by my sexuality. I don’t want it to be like that.’ Listen here<\/a><\/p>\n

New treatments also mean transmission becomes incredibly unlikely for those on effective medication.<\/p>\n

The worst outcomes typically affect those diagnosed late, either through lack of knowledge about symptoms or fear of discrimination.<\/p>\n

The same prejudices that fuel HIV discrimination also drive homophobia in sport, where Thomas says little has changed since his playing days.<\/p>\n

He said: ‘Nothing has changed from when I was a 16-year-old kid, sat in a changing room and being told if you can’t run, you’re a f*****.<\/p>\n

‘That’s because nobody is being proactive\u2026 we have to be better.<\/p>\n

‘I remember when I was with the union after coming out, they called me and said \u2013 we’ll make sure you’re protected.<\/p>\n

‘My words to them were, there’s nothing more you can do \u2013 but there was a load you could have done.<\/p>\n

‘Being proactive is creating an environment where somebody doesn’t have to do something drastic, just to get a reaction.’<\/p>\n

To listen to Gareth’s full interview, where he debates his playing career and tackling discrimination, search for The Life of Bryony now, wherever you get your podcasts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Society is still in a ‘s*** place’ when it comes to tackling homophobia and the stigma around HIV,…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":75228,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[97,50,5903,101,56,54,55],"class_list":{"0":"post-75227","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-rugby","8":"tag-dailymail","9":"tag-news","10":"tag-rugby","11":"tag-sports","12":"tag-uk","13":"tag-united-kingdom","14":"tag-unitedkingdom"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75227","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=75227"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75227\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75228"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=75227"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=75227"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=75227"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}