{"id":769563,"date":"2026-09-13T17:54:13","date_gmt":"2026-09-13T17:54:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/769563\/"},"modified":"2026-09-13T17:54:13","modified_gmt":"2026-09-13T17:54:13","slug":"plan-your-parking-dont-rush-at-night-and-never-panic-15-expert-tips-to-become-a-better-driver-life-and-style","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/769563\/","title":{"rendered":"Plan your parking, don\u2019t rush at night and never panic \u2013 15 expert tips to become a better driver | Life and style"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Whether you have just passed your test or been behind the wheel for decades, driving skills can always be sharpened up. From dealing with road rage to traffic jams, tight parking spaces to hire cars, driving instructors share their tips on how to be a better motorist in the most challenging scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>If you are running late<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Gyokhan Zlatev, of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.derindrivingschool.co.uk\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Derin Driving School<\/a>, says there is one major problem that many drivers are guilty of: \u201cThey are always in a rush. They refuse to leave home two minutes earlier to go somewhere in time.\u201d This can make you more likely to drive in a risky way, he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">But leaving more time is easier said than done given the world we live in, says Kev Field, of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.confidentdrivers.co.uk\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Confident Drivers<\/a> in Leighton Buzzard. \u201cWe want to be there before we\u2019ve actually got there,\u201d says Field, \u201cand people are in our way, or we\u2019re running late for work.\u201d Field says he spends a lot of time helping learner drivers to overcome this mentality. He asks them to imagine they\u2019re in the office: \u201cWould you run and risk running into your boss?\u201d It\u2019s best to walk, and drive, calmly.<\/p>\n<p>If you are delayed<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Field says that most people crave predictability, which causes stress when there are changes to our route, such as road closures, roadworks or bad traffic. The key to being a good driver, he says, is being able to react and adapt our driving when faced with such challenges.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get too close to the driver in front if you\u2019re stuck in traffic. Photograph: Steve Atkins Photography\/Alamy<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">If you are running late and stuck in bad traffic, use hands-free to call and let someone know you are stuck to alleviate the worry of being late, says Field. Ensure you are familiar with the rules around hands-free usage, he continues, as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gov.uk\/using-mobile-phones-when-driving-the-law\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">prosecution is still possible if it distracts from driving<\/a> \u2013 if in doubt and if possible, pull over to call. Don\u2019t be tempted to text someone when in a queue, as this is against the law in the UK.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cIn traffic, a lot of experienced drivers get really close,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/drivewithvee\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Venus Ubah<\/a>, a driving instructor in Manchester. \u201cYou are supposed to give a safe amount of space for the driver in front \u2013 a car\u2019s length away.\u201d Other reckless driving that she regularly spots includes drivers running red lights or not signalling to change lanes.<\/p>\n<p>If you are the victim of road rage\u2018People\u2019s behaviour changes when they get into a metal box \u2026\u2019 Photograph: ozgurcankaya\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">As hard as it is, do not engage, says Zlatev. When someone becomes aggressive, \u201cdon\u2019t look at them, don\u2019t make eye contact, or try to prove a point. Just let them go, and create distance \u2013 it is much safer for you.\u201d We all make mistakes, says Zlatev, \u201ceven Formula One drivers\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cPeople\u2019s behaviour changes when they get into a metal box and they feel they have the right to wave their hands, shout, and act in a manner that is aggressive or bullying,\u201d says Field. To counter this, stay calm. \u201cThen think about what options you have. If the driver can overtake you, give them some space.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Never feel you have to break the speed limit because the driver behind you is in a hurry and tailgating, says Field. \u201cMost people have probably heard of the two-second rule \u2013 leave a two-second gap to the car in front of you. If the car behind you is really close, leave a three- or four-second gap, just because we don\u2019t want to go into the back of someone else.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you are anxious about driving<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cKnow that you are in control of your car,\u201d says Field, \u201cand don\u2019t let other people control what you do. Don\u2019t feel that you have to keep up with others who are more experienced.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cWhen I first started driving, I used to panic a lot \u2013 like if I stalled before moving off and I got beeped or sworn at,\u201d says Ubah. How can others cope with this? \u201cDon\u2019t look at them, because that can start to bring up an emotional reaction. Look ahead and take your time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you are driving abroadBefore you travel, do some research on the road rules abroad. Photograph: Matthew Richardson\/Alamy<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cDon\u2019t assume everywhere is like the UK,\u201d says Ubah. \u201cI do some research while in the holiday booking process. I look up the road rules, the side they drive on, speed limits, what the signs look like.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">It is essential to check for any differences in countries you are new to driving in. \u201cIn America, if you\u2019re turning right at a set of traffic lights, you can [usually] turn on a red light,\u201d as long as it is clear, says Field \u2013 although this has been banned in some places.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Zlatev recently drove from the UK to Turkey and back, which he says he found fine, except for the fact that \u201csatnav doesn\u2019t work well in some countries, Belgium, for example\u201d. He says that in Germany some junctions are tough, and he saw a lot of British people clinging to the slow lane on speed-limitless autobahns.<\/p>\n<p>If you hire a car<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Make sure you know how everything works before you set off, says Field. \u201cIt\u2019s a bit like when you get a new car: you wouldn\u2019t just jump in it and drive out of the showroom.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cAdjust your seat and mirrors,\u201d says Zlatev. Check that the lights and wipers are working: \u201cIf there\u2019s any noise on the brakes, tell them immediately.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cWhen I hire a car,\u201d says Ubah, \u201cI\u2019ll take a video from the office to the car, so they know it\u2019s the first time I\u2019ve come across it. Then I\u2019ll do a 360 around the car, checking all the doors, tyres, windows, the boot \u2013 videoing everything.\u201d Always make sure you are fully insured, in case of any prangs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">With hire cars, you don\u2019t actually have to buy insurance through the rental company, points out Denise Rawson, an instructor from Bury in Greater Manchester. \u201cYou can go <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/money\/2026\/jul\/25\/summer-holiday-car-hire-deal-fees-extras-rental\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">independently online<\/a>. Or if you just want everything in one place and you feel safer with that, that\u2019s absolutely fine. Just make sure [the car] is covered for everything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you are lost<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">If you take a wrong turn, \u201cdon\u2019t panic, just carry on; don\u2019t do a sudden brake\u201d, advises Zlatev. \u201cJust take the next junction.\u201d That\u2019s the safest opportunity to correct your route, he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cIt is much safer to carry on on the wrong road than to drive dangerously to the right one,\u201d says Ubah. Getting lost \u201cis a distraction, isn\u2019t it?\u201d says Field. \u201cAnd the distraction is we\u2019re going to look at the satnav rather than actually look outside.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Pull over to re-route, he says; don\u2019t be tempted to try this while you are driving. \u201cSatnav is designed to help you,\u201d says Field. \u201cSometimes we just need to allow the technology a little bit of time as well, and it will re-route us and get us back on track to where we need to go.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Be prepared for some good old-fashioned sign or map reading if your satnav loses signal or runs out of battery, he says. It can\u2019t always be relied on.<\/p>\n<p>If you are driving in a city you don\u2019t knowTurn on the audio on satnav when driving in an unfamiliar city. Photograph: Colin Underhill\/Alamy<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Field used to be a lorry driver and had to travel through central London, which he describes as \u201can interesting one\u201d. What tips does he have on city centre driving?<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cThere\u2019s probably going to be more traffic. People tend to drive quicker, especially if they know the area, even though the speed limit is lower. So be aware of how other people might drive differently to what we\u2019re used to.\u201d Also look out for pedestrians, cyclists, scooters and motorbikes, he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Zlatev recommends turning the audio on satnav, so you can listen to instructions rather than look at them, and fully focus on what is going on around you.<\/p>\n<p>If you are parking under pressure<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">In a city you don\u2019t know, it is best to leave your car in a car park, says Zlatev: \u201cPay for it, and make your life easier.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Rawson advises planning several parking options before you set off and even checking what spaces look like on Google Images.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Take your time when getting into a tight space and try not to feel self-conscious, says Zlatev. Other drivers \u201ccan watch and learn something from you. You don\u2019t need to stress.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cMake sure the space is actually big enough for your car,\u201d says Field. And don\u2019t forget to keep watching out for changes in what is going on around you, be it cars or pedestrians.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">There is no shame in driving off if you can\u2019t get into a space. \u201cI\u2019m a driving instructor and I\u2019ve done it,\u201d says Ubah. \u201cThere is no prize for getting into the teeniest, tiniest parking space.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you struggle to parallel parkPractise parallel parking. Photograph: Colin Underhill\/Alamy<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cIf you\u2019re going to parallel park, make sure you\u2019ve practised before you actually go and do it in a busy place,\u201d says Field. \u201cDon\u2019t overcomplicate it. Make sure that you know where the kerb is, and you are far enough back so that when you start to turn, you don\u2019t hit the car that you\u2019re trying to parallel park behind. It is as simple as that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Rawson has a different approach: \u201cWe get lined up with the car and then we do a full lock of the steering wheel to the left. Let the car roll out so we\u2019re facing a 2 o\u2019clock angle if we started at 12. And then we reverse in a straight line, so we straighten the wheel back towards the kerb, and as the kerb lines up with your back door handle, we\u2019ll do a full lock to the right, and then it\u2019ll tuck in nicely.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">In all Zlatev\u2019s vehicles, he uses blind spot mirrors, which can be handy when reverse parking. These are small circle mirrors that you put on the wing mirrors to improve visibility of what is alongside the vehicle. \u201cWhen all my clients pass their test, I give them the gift of a pair of blind spot mirrors,\u201d says Zlatev.<\/p>\n<p>If you are driving a manual for the first time in a while<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">In the UK, you have to pass in a manual to have a full licence, explains Ubah, and this can impact on your insurance and jobs you can apply for. Many of us learned in a manual but have moved over to automatic. How can you revert if needed?<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cBefore you start to move,\u201d says Field, familiarise yourself with the clutch pedal, because the brake pedal tends to be bigger in an automatic. Practise changing gears and going into reverse, so you know where they are before you move. \u201cThere\u2019s different ways of changing gears,\u201d says Field. \u201cSome people do it by speed. Some listen [to the engine]. Some do it by the rev counter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">If you stall, \u201cfirst of all breathe\u201d, says Ubah. \u201cGive yourself some time. Put the clutch back down, and find that biting point again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you are driving at nightMake sure you use your lights properly at night. Photograph: Tim Graham\/Alamy<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cDon\u2019t let the road being quiet make you think that you can drive faster,\u201d says Ubah. \u201cI see that a lot when I do my evening lessons.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cYou need to make sure that you\u2019re fit to drive,\u201d says Zlatev; tiredness is a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.brake.org.uk\/get-involved\/take-action\/mybrake\/knowledge-centre\/driver-fatigue\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">major cause of accidents<\/a>. \u201cUse your lights properly, and avoid looking directly into the headlights of oncoming vehicles, because you can be dazzled easily.\u201d Be more generous with the gap you leave between vehicles ahead. \u201cTake your time: no rush, no risk.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you encounter bad weatherGo through large puddles very slowly. Photograph: LeManna\/Getty Images\/iStockphoto<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">If you are already driving and it starts pouring, \u201cslow down, increase the distance between you and the vehicle in front, and avoid sudden braking\u201d, says Zlatev. \u201cIf you see a big puddle in front of you and you don\u2019t know the area, try to avoid that puddle or go through it very slowly, because you don\u2019t know how deep it is and you can damage your car.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Make sure you keep your windscreen clear, says Ubah: \u201cWe need to be able to see our next five seconds \u2013 minimum. In the rain, if it is a road that is 60mph, it doesn\u2019t mean you have to drive at 60mph \u2013 the speed limit is a limit, not a target. If you can\u2019t see properly, reduce your speed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">In ice, \u201cjust remember that you\u2019re going to need to be delicate with everything\u201d, says Rawson. \u201cEven steering is a slight turn \u2013 and do everything a lot slower.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you are worried about running out of charge or fuel<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cI haven\u2019t got an electric car,\u201d says Field, \u201cso I don\u2019t have that fear of the charge running out. But it is exactly the same with fuel \u2013 it\u2019s just that there are more fuelling places than charging ones. But it\u2019s getting better. So it is just about thinking before you set off: \u2018How much fuel have I got?\u2019 or, \u2018How much charge have I got?\u2019 And then being aware that you can find out where your nearest points are using the satnav. But also, the night before, just make sure that you\u2019ve got enough to get to where you\u2019re going.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you have an accidentTake a photo of any damage. Photograph: Daisy-Daisy\/Alamy<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cExchange details, and take a photo,\u201d says Zlatev. \u201cIf you have any dashcam record, keep it safe. If you\u2019re able to drive the car safely, you can. But if not, call the breakdown cover.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Afterwards, \u201cremind yourself that having an accident doesn\u2019t make you a bad driver\u201d, says Ubah. \u201cYou\u2019ve got to have empathy for yourself. If you need to take a break from the road for a bit, that\u2019s completely fine. Don\u2019t judge yourself for it, and just know that the road is there whenever you want to drive again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Whether you have just passed your test or been behind the wheel for decades, driving skills can always&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":769564,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[84,59,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-769563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-business","tag-business","tag-gb","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/769563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=769563"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/769563\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/769564"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=769563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=769563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=769563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}