{"id":777082,"date":"2026-09-20T19:28:12","date_gmt":"2026-09-20T19:28:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/777082\/"},"modified":"2026-09-20T19:28:12","modified_gmt":"2026-09-20T19:28:12","slug":"earl-spencer-accuses-king-of-gaslighting-him-and-says-press-treatment-of-the-sussexes-echoes-that-of-diana-uk-news","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/777082\/","title":{"rendered":"Earl Spencer accuses King of gaslighting him \u2013 and says press treatment of the Sussexes &#8216;echoes&#8217; that of Diana | UK News"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Earl Spencer has accused King Charles of gaslighting him and being &#8220;astonishingly provocative&#8221; in the latest escalation of his row with the royals.<\/p>\n<p>The earl has made <a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/story\/earl-spencer-claims-late-queen-responded-tetchily-to-diana-crash-as-he-doubles-down-on-call-with-charles-13589475\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">a series of claims<\/a> about <a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/topic\/the-king-10355\/1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the King<\/a> in his new book &#8211; alleging he said &#8220;we&#8217;ll forget her soon enough&#8221; during a row over funeral arrangements for his sister <a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/topic\/princess-diana-6208\/1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Princess Diana<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Buckingham Palace said in response that &#8220;fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory in ways others do not recognise&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>The earl has stood by his comments in several interviews, in which he also likened the media&#8217;s treatment of Prince Harry and Meghan to what Diana went through.<\/p>\n<p>            <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/skynews-diana-earl-spencer_7355526.jpg\"  class=\"ui-video-player-poster-image\" alt=\"\" data-testid=\"video-player-poster-image\"\/><\/p>\n<p>    Share<\/p>\n<p>\n                        Diana&#8217;s brother has made bombshell claims about the King in his new book\n                    <\/p>\n<p>In his BBC interview, Earl Spencer also claimed:<\/p>\n<p>He knows &#8220;lots of facts about the King&#8221; that he did not put in the book as he&#8217;s not a &#8220;salacious writer&#8221;. He denies that&#8217;s a threat.He won&#8217;t go into what he&#8217;s said to <a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/topic\/prince-william-6209\/1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">William<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/news.sky.com\/topic\/prince-harry-5826\/1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Harry<\/a>, but says his &#8220;words will not be a surprise to them&#8221;.Alleges the King &#8220;went ballistic&#8221; and &#8220;ranted&#8221; when challenged over Diana&#8217;s sons walking behind her coffin.In the same conversation, claims he hung up on Charles after he allegedly said &#8220;we&#8217;ll forget her [Diana] soon enough&#8221;.His eulogy to Diana &#8211; that her &#8220;fantastic qualities will never be extinguished from our minds&#8221; &#8211; was a &#8220;direct rebuttal&#8221;.He doesn&#8217;t know &#8220;finer detail&#8221; of her sons&#8217; rift, but &#8220;a mother would want her two sons to be happy together and love each other&#8221;.The earl worries about Harry not having police protection in the UK. <\/p>\n<p>          <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"sdc-article-image__item\" loading=\"lazy\" intrinsicsize=\"768x432\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/skynews-earl-spencer-diana_7355833.jpg\"   alt=\"Earl Spencer insists he's not lying and that he accurately remembers what was said. Pic: PA\" data-testid=\"article-image-image\"\/><\/p>\n<p>        Image:<br \/>\n        Earl Spencer insists he&#8217;s not lying and that he accurately remembers what was said. Pic: PA<\/p>\n<p>In an interview in The Mail on Sunday, Earl Spencer hit out at the Palace&#8217;s response to his claims, telling the paper: &#8220;It is not every day you wake up to find you&#8217;ve been gaslit by the King.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was astonishingly provocative and below the belt because it was essentially trying to say I&#8217;d lied without the King being able to deny what I&#8217;d said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I also thought it was a rather poor imitation of the &#8216;recollections may vary&#8217; quote, which was a much more elegant way of putting things, but in these circumstances entirely out of place.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He also said Diana &#8220;would be cheering from the rafters at this book&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>The earl made the allegations in Swan Song: Diana, My Sister, which is being serialised in the Daily Mail and is due to be published next week.<\/p>\n<p>\n        A dormant war is resurfacing &#8211; and it&#8217;s impossible for the King to navigate\n      <\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">The attacks in Earl Spencer&#8217;s book have felt raw, visceral and deeply personal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">A dormant war between the House of Windsor and the Spencer family is resurfacing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">And it&#8217;s very difficult for the King to navigate.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">His statement released so swiftly, and with such robust rhetoric, showed the strength of feeling.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">&#8220;While we do not comment on books as a matter of principle, His Majesty is mindful that the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory in ways others do not recognise, even many years after such a loss&#8221; &#8211; The King&#8217;s statement.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">He could not say nothing and clearly remembers a very different version of events.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">Of course, we will never know whose account is correct.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">But so much has changed since these conversations, except it seems, the simmering anger of Earl Spencer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">It&#8217;s impossible to say where the public will lay their sympathies. But this book will no doubt top the charts and be read around the world.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">There is much more at risk for the King than Charles Spencer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">These allegations aren&#8217;t small swipes; they are blistering broadsides. With more to come.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">Will this really set the record straight, as Earl Spencer intends. Or will it reignite one of the most traumatic and damaging episodes in recent royal history.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sdc-article-factbox__text\" data-testid=\"article-factbox-text\">Two families still fighting over Diana&#8217;s memory, with Prince William and Prince Harry seemingly caught in the crossfire.<\/p>\n<p>Harry and Meghan &#8216;being destroyed daily&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>In his BBC interview, the earl was asked if he thought Diana would &#8220;identify&#8221; with how Prince Harry and <a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/topic\/meghan-markle-6633\/1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Meghan<\/a> have been treated by the media.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you look at an article in a tabloid about Diana or the couple that you were mentioning, Harry and Meghan, you know, they can be really, really unpleasant,&#8221; he told the BBC.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And I think it would be really beholden on people to learn from Diana&#8217;s example.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>          <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"sdc-article-image__item\" loading=\"lazy\" intrinsicsize=\"768x432\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/skynews-harry-meghan_7356790.jpg\"   alt=\"The Sussexes, seen here in April, recently moved back to the UK. Pic: AP\" data-testid=\"article-image-image\"\/><\/p>\n<p>        Image:<br \/>\n        The Sussexes, seen here in April, recently moved back to the UK. Pic: AP<\/p>\n<p>The earl added: &#8220;I&#8217;m not here to speak for Harry and Meghan, but for anyone who&#8217;s being destroyed in this way daily, it must be such a cancerous influence in their life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He said Diana was &#8220;really brought low&#8221; by her treatment by the media, and it was a &#8220;pity&#8221; to see &#8220;echoes of that&#8221; in the coverage of Prince Harry and his wife.<\/p>\n<p>The earl has insisted he is telling the truth about the King and accurately remembers what was said at the time.<\/p>\n<p>He told the BBC: &#8220;I told friends and family straight away, close friends and family, about what had been said, because it was so monstrous.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>            <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/skynews-spencer-bundock_7355763.jpg\"  class=\"ui-video-player-poster-image\" alt=\"\" data-testid=\"video-player-poster-image\"\/><\/p>\n<p>    Share<\/p>\n<p>\n                        Princess Diana&#8217;s brother doubles down on claims about the King\n                    <\/p>\n<p>The King allegedly made the remarks about forgetting Diana during a row over whether William and Harry should follow the funeral cortege.<\/p>\n<p>Earl Spencer walked behind Diana&#8217;s coffin alongside her sons, Charles, and the late Duke of Edinburgh.<\/p>\n<p>The earl said his book is his &#8220;final word and celebration&#8221; of Diana and he&#8217;s now &#8220;done&#8221; with speaking publicly about that time.<\/p>\n<p>     <a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/download-app\" target=\"blank\" data-tracking-description=\"link|ui-app-promo-download-link\" data-tracking-label=\"ui-app-promo-download-link\" class=\"ui-app-promo sdc-article-widget\" data-type=\"\" data-component-name=\"ui-app-promo\" data-partial-view-category=\"notification\" data-partial-view-content=\"ui-app-promo\" data-partial-view-type=\"notifications\" data-partial-view-section=\"page\" data-partial-view-value=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/download-app\" data-testid=\"app-promo\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><\/p>\n<p>    <\/a><\/p>\n<p>Read more from Sky News:<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/story\/fire-at-folkestones-grand-burstin-hotel-being-treated-as-suspicious-police-say-13589829\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Seaside hotel fire being treated as suspicious<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/story\/teenagers-jailed-for-killing-17-year-old-outside-mcdonalds-13589690\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Teens jailed for killing 17-year-old outside McDonald&#8217;s<\/a><\/p>\n<p>          <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"sdc-article-image__item\" loading=\"lazy\" intrinsicsize=\"768x432\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/skynews-queen-camilla-queens-reading-room_7356776.jpg\"   alt=\"The Queen met guests at Chatsworth House on Saturday. Pic: PA\" data-testid=\"article-image-image\"\/><\/p>\n<p>        Image:<br \/>\n        The Queen met guests at Chatsworth House on Saturday. Pic: PA<\/p>\n<p>Despite intense coverage of the earl&#8217;s claims, the Royal Family has been carrying on as usual.<\/p>\n<p>On Saturday, Camilla was at Chatsworth House in Derbyshire for a festival for The Queen&#8217;s Reading Room, a charity she founded after the success of her book club during the pandemic.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/news.sky.com\/topic\/queen-camilla-10683\/1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Queen<\/a> told people books have a &#8220;life-enhancing power&#8221; and being at Chatsworth, which has a library of over 17,000 books, was &#8220;like coming home&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Earl Spencer has accused King Charles of gaslighting him and being &#8220;astonishingly provocative&#8221; in the latest escalation of&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":777083,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[96,59,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-777082","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-entertainment","tag-gb","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/777082","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=777082"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/777082\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/777083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=777082"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=777082"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=777082"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}