{"id":784456,"date":"2026-09-27T17:14:14","date_gmt":"2026-09-27T17:14:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/784456\/"},"modified":"2026-09-27T17:14:14","modified_gmt":"2026-09-27T17:14:14","slug":"stephen-graham-shares-emotional-message-about-estranged-biological-father","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/784456\/","title":{"rendered":"Stephen Graham shares emotional message about estranged biological father"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" width=\"646\" height=\"363\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/comp-1790515911.png\" class=\"article-image wp-image-29656989\" alt=\"\" decoding=\"sync\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tStephen Graham was raised by his stepdad from the age of 10 (Picture: Ken McKay\/ITV\/Shutterstock)<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/stephen-graham\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Stephen Graham<\/a> became tearful as he discussed his non-existent relationship with his father and being \u2018raised\u2019 by his stepdad.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The award-winning <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/adolescence-tv-show\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Adolescence<\/a> star, 53, was born in Kirkby, Lancashire, to mum Mary and biological father Stephen Kelly in 1973.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kelly, who is half-Jamaican and half-Swedish, split from Mary when Stephen was young, and they are now no longer in contact.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But the actor has made peace with that, he shared in a new interview, having always had a close relationship with his mum\u2019s partner, Mike Fazakerley, who entered their lives when Stephen was 10.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Speaking about Kelly, he told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/life-style\/celebrity\/article\/stephen-graham-nocturne-interview-jhdtc8hx0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Times<\/a>: \u2018He was 17 [when he had me]; he didn\u2019t know what he was doing. <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018We don\u2019t communicate, but that\u2019s fine. I wish him no ill.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"525\" height=\"436\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/SEI_244548658-f813.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-29656972\" alt=\"The hero stepfather who Stephen Graham credits with protecting him from racist bullies and helping him accept his mixed race identity - as he now speaks for the first time\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tMike Fazakerley was with Stephen\u2019s mother, Mary, from 1989 until she died in 2022 (Picture: Facebook)<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stephen now affectionately calls Mike \u2018Pops\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The paediatric nurse has long praised his stepson publicly, with Stephen also crediting Mike, who is mixed-race, for teaching him about his cultural heritage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018He saw this little mixed-race lad with no father, basically a mirror image of what happened to him,\u2019 he reflected.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018I was blessed that he came into my life, and he is the man who raised me.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018Pops fell in love with my mum, but he fell in love with me too,\u2019 he added, his eyes welling up, the interviewer noted.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stephen also has a half-brother, Nathan Fazakerley, thanks to his blended family, and he was <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2026\/03\/27\/stephen-graham-makes-surprise-appearance-proud-stepfather-taught-heritage-27702268\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">joined by Nathan and Mike just a few months ago<\/a> as he accepted the Mobo for best performance in a TV show\/film.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"431\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/SEI_291040775-8434.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-29656971\" alt=\"MANCHESTER, ENGLAND - MARCH 26: Stephen Graham and guests pose with the award for Best Performance in a TV Show\/Film for Adolescence inside the winners' room during the 2026 MOBO Awards at Co-op Live on March 26, 2026 in Manchester, England. (Photo by Shane Anthony Sinclair\/Getty Images for MOBO)\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tMike and Stephen\u2019s stepbrother and son joined him to accept his Mobo in March this year (Picture: Shane Anthony Sinclair\/Getty Images for MOBO)<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In his speech, the Liverpudlian, who is married to actress Hannah Walters and has two children with her, shouted out his loved ones: \u2018On a personal level, my friends and family \u2013 you know who you are \u2013 thank you for helping me do something I can\u2019t do on my own.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Earlier this year, Mike lauded his stepson\u2019s portrayal of Eddie Miller in the <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/owen-cooper\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Owen Cooper<\/a> Netflix drama, telling the Daily Mail that he is \u2018highly proud of what [Stephen\u2019s] achieved in his career and highly proud of what he\u2019s doing\u00a0now with Adolescence\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018I watch all his work, and I\u2019ve watched Adolescence,\u2019 he said. \u2018Stephen is brilliant; he is a true talent. Unquestionably one of this country\u2019s finest.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mike added that \u2018the only downside\u2019 is that Stephen\u2019s mum \u2018isn\u2019t here to wallow in [his] glory\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mary died in 2022, <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2022\/12\/31\/stephen-graham-reveals-his-mum-died-days-before-new-year-honours-list-18018525\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">just days before Stephen\u2019s OBE was announced<\/a>. At the time, the This Is England star paid tribute to the \u2018incredible, inspirational, warrior woman with the purest heart\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He added in his <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/instagram\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram<\/a> post that he was \u2018proud\u2019 to share his OBE with her, calling it an honour \u2018for both of us\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"439\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/SEI_313460633-3a1d.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-29656990\" alt=\"LONDON, ENGLAND - SEPTEMBER 21: Stephen Graham and Hannah Walters attend the Burberry show during London Fashion Week September 2026 at Chelsea College of Arts on September 21, 2026 in London, England. (Photo by Joe Maher\/Getty Images)\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tHe married actress Hannah Walters in 2008, and calls her his \u2018rock\u2019 (Picture: Joe Maher\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<img width=\"646\" height=\"380\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/SEI_277637942-a2ec.jpg\" class=\"article-image wp-image-29049430\" alt=\"This image released by Netflix shows Mark Stanley, from left, Owen Cooper and Stephen Graham in a scene from \" adolescence.=\"\" via=\"\" ap=\"\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><br \/>\n\t\tThe Adolescence star has won numerous awards for his portrayal of Eddie Miller (Picture: AP\/Netflix)<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" data-track=\"inline-tag-auto-link_article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/tag\/emmy\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Emmy<\/a> and Golden Globe winner previously explained how Mike helped him find a \u2018sense of cultural security\u2019 as a child, educating him on Black history and introducing him to civil rights icons.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">His stepfather would also regularly take him to Quarry Green video shop in his hometown, which ignited his passion for film as a youngster.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Appearing on BBC\u2019s Desert Island Discs in 2019, Stephen admitted he felt \u2018slightly unsure where [he] fitted in\u2019 as a child and struggled to feel like he \u2018belonged\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018Sometimes I\u2019d be accepted by my white cousins, and then my Black cousins wouldn\u2019t really, you know what I mean? So it was kind of like, \u201cWhere do I belong?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018[Mike] helped me see who I am, and [that] what I am is good enough.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018He helped me find my own way, and I got that sense of self in many respects from my mother, finding your own way.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Throughout Adolescence\u2019s incredibly successful award season run, Stephen took opportunities to platform his upbringing and champion his working-class roots.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While accepting his Emmy Award, he hailed wife Hannah, 52, whom he married in 2008, as his \u2018rock\u2019 and \u2018soulmate\u2019, and declared: \u2018This kind of thing doesn\u2019t happen to a kid like me.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018I\u2019m just a mixed-race kid from a block of flats in a place called Kirkby,\u2019 he added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2018So for me, to be here today, in front of my peers, and to be acknowledged by you is the utmost humbling thing I could ever imagine in my life, and it shows you that any dream is possible.\u2019<\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2026\/09\/10\/penelope-cruz-javier-bardems-film-bunker-didnt-deserve-a-16-minute-standing-ovation-29573170\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Pen\u00e9lope Cruz and Javier Bardem\u2019s film Bunker didn\u2019t deserve a 16-minute standing ovation<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"metro-more-link\">Arrow<br \/>\nMORE: <a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2026\/09\/02\/im-2026-venice-film-festival-cant-wait-8-movies-29499800\/?ico=more_text_links\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">I\u2019m at the 2026 Venice Film Festival \u2013 I can\u2019t wait for these 8 movies<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"metro-button share-bar-comments\" data-vars-position=\"bottom\" href=\"#metro-comments-container\"><br \/>\n\t\t\tComment now<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\tComments<br \/>\n\t\t<\/a><a data-ico=\"hyperlink-article\" class=\"metro-button share-bar-preferred-source\" data-vars-position=\"bottom\" href=\"https:\/\/google.com\/preferences\/source?q=https:\/\/metro.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\tAdd Metro as a Preferred Source on Google<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\tAdd as preferred source<br \/>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\tTV Newsletter<\/p>\n<p>Sign up and tell us which TV shows you love to watch to get personalised updates every morning.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Stephen Graham was raised by his stepdad from the age of 10 (Picture: Ken McKay\/ITV\/Shutterstock) Stephen Graham became&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":784457,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[6491,96,41469,391,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-784456","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-entertainment","tag-stephen-graham","tag-tv","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/784456","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=784456"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/784456\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/784457"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=784456"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=784456"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=784456"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}