{"id":806076,"date":"2026-10-18T00:42:10","date_gmt":"2026-10-18T00:42:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/806076\/"},"modified":"2026-10-18T00:42:10","modified_gmt":"2026-10-18T00:42:10","slug":"how-a-relationship-with-a-big-age-gap-can-affect-your-financial-decisions-diana-clement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/806076\/","title":{"rendered":"How a relationship with a big age gap can affect your financial decisions – Diana Clement"},"content":{"rendered":"

As the years pass some older partners will develop significant health or mobility problems, requiring assistance at home<\/a>. If the younger partner gives up work to provide that caring, the couple can lose an all-important income, although they may qualify for Supported Living Payment or Carer Support funding<\/a>. <\/p>\n

\"CouplesCouples with a large age gap need to plan for one partner’s longer retirement. Photo \/ Getty Images<\/p>\n

If those health issues deteriorate to the point where one partner needs to move into care, the couple\u2019s nest egg can be eaten up, leaving the younger partner a lot less than expected to survive on for the remaining decades of their life.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s because in New Zealand, anyone with sufficient assets must pay a weekly contribution for their care, which ranges from $1513.33 in the Far North District to $1634.43 in Auckland City.<\/p>\n

As at July 1, 2026, the asset threshold for a Residential Care Subsidy<\/a> is $164,731 excluding the family home and car, or $300,811 including them, where the person has a partner remaining in the community. <\/p>\n

\u201cResidential care is means-tested, and when assessing eligibility, MSD [Ministry of Social Development] may take into account assets belonging to either partner, even where the couple has otherwise kept their assets separate,\u201d Kerry Reed of DTI Lawyers said.<\/p>\n

\"AA “pre-nup” may not protect age-gap couples from care costs. Photo \/ Getty Images<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s the catch. \u201cMSD generally treats spouses and partners as one economic unit when assessing eligibility for a Residential Care Subsidy. This means assets belonging to either spouse can be taken into account, even if those assets are treated as separate property,\u201d Reed said.<\/p>\n

In short: \u201cmy\u201d assets become \u201cour\u201d assets for Residential Care Subsidy purposes even if they\u2019re protected by a contracting out agreement or inherited as separate property.<\/p>\n

All couples, not just age gap relationships, need to set up enduring powers of attorney, otherwise they can be left scrambling if one partner can no longer make financial and medical decisions themselves.<\/p>\n

They also need a will. New Zealand\u2019s relationship property and succession rules can interact in complicated ways, and if the estate planning hasn\u2019t been done well the remaining partner can be left with insufficient finances to cover ongoing living expenses. Scenarios such as the remaining partner needing to downsize or restructure their living arrangements due to the financial impact of the subsidy are not uncommon.<\/p>\n

Finally, there is no one-size-fits-all answer to all of this. What it does require, is going in with your eyes open, and getting good legal, tax and estate planning advice.<\/p>\n

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