{"id":82381,"date":"2025-08-21T10:37:11","date_gmt":"2025-08-21T10:37:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/82381\/"},"modified":"2025-08-21T10:37:11","modified_gmt":"2025-08-21T10:37:11","slug":"dad-thought-hed-caught-daughters-nursery-bug-but-the-truth-was-far-more-sinister","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/82381\/","title":{"rendered":"Dad thought he&#8217;d caught daughter&#8217;s nursery bug &#8211; but the truth was far more sinister"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After Mathew Rutherford started vomiting around the same time as his one-year-old daughter Marnie, he thought he had contracted the same bug the infant caught at nursery<\/p>\n<p>05:06, 21 Aug 2025Updated 06:26, 21 Aug 2025<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1_Man-thought-he-caught-the-flu-from-his-daughter-has-been-diagnosed-with-leukaemia.jpg\" alt=\"Mathew Rutherford \" loading=\"eager\"  \/>Mathew Rutherford, pictured with Marnie, has been diagnosed with blood cancer(Image: Laura Lineker \/ SWNS)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">A father who thought he&#8217;d caught a sickness bug from his daughter has been diagnosed with <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/all-about\/leukaemia\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">leukaemia<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Mathew Rutherford, 35, started throwing up around the same time as his one-year-old daughter, Marnie, so he and fianc\u00e9e, Laura Lineker didn&#8217;t think much of it. However, when Mathew soon developed a gum infection and had to go on antibiotics, his sickness became &#8220;unbearable&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">The dad, from Seaford, East Sussex, eventually couldn&#8217;t get out of bed due to lethargy and leg pain so Laura called an ambulance. Mathew was told to take paracetamol and go to A&amp;E if he wasn&#8217;t feeling better the next day. At 5am, Laura woke up to find Mathew being sick again and decided to drive him to Eastborne District General Hospital.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">After blood tests and a bone marrow biopsy, Mathew was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukaemia &#8211; <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/all-about\/cancer\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">cancer<\/a> of the white blood cells &#8211; and <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/lifestyle\/health\/what-sepsis-signs-symptoms-treatment-7246541\" target=\"\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">sepsis<\/a> &#8211; caused by an abscess.<\/p>\n<p>READ MORE: <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/news\/us-news\/toddler-becomes-orphan-after-perfect-35767178\" data-tmdatatrack=\"read-more\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"35767178\" data-tmdatatrack-source=\"editorial\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Toddler becomes orphan after &#8216;perfect family&#8217; wiped out by quadruple murder-suicide<\/a>READ MORE: <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/news\/uk-news\/my-seatbelt-saved-life-wasnt-35695044\" data-tmdatatrack=\"read-more\" data-tmdatatrack-articleid=\"35695044\" data-tmdatatrack-source=\"editorial\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">&#8216;My seatbelt saved my life &#8211; but I wasn&#8217;t even involved in a car crash&#8217;<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1755772630_452_1_Man-thought-he-caught-the-flu-from-his-daughter-has-been-diagnosed-with-leukaemia.jpg\" alt=\"Pictured with Marnie and Freddie, Mathew has been rocked with the diagnosis\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Pictured with Marnie and Freddie, Mathew has been rocked with the diagnosis(Image: Laura Lineker \/ SWNS)<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1755772630_431_1_Man-thought-he-caught-the-flu-from-his-daughter-has-been-diagnosed-with-leukaemia.jpg\" alt=\"The dad thought his symptoms were those of a sickness bug\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>The dad thought his symptoms were those of a sickness bug(Image: Laura Lineker \/ SWNS)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Mathew started intensive chemotherapy on August 7 and is receiving his treatment at hospital. Laura, a solicitor, said: &#8220;The children bring home a lot of bugs from nursery. We thought there was just a bug or something.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;It turned out she had a UTI, so we then thought it was strange that they&#8217;d been sick at the same time. He carried on being sick, and then our daughter got sick again. She had an ear infection, so again it wasn&#8217;t something that could be passed on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">When paramedics initially came to the home in Seaford, they gave Mathew some paracetamol, and said if he still feels ill in the morning to go straight to A&amp;E.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Laura, aged 34, continued: &#8220;I pushed and pushed for him to go to the doctor, but he was a typical man. He thought it would be fine once he&#8217;d finished his antibiotics and didn&#8217;t want to waste the doctors&#8217; time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;About four days later, the sickness just got unbearable, and he couldn&#8217;t get out of bed, so I called an ambulance. They kind of put us off going &#8211; they said we&#8217;d be in A&amp;E for ages and he&#8217;d feel better if he just went to bed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1755772631_516_1_Man-thought-he-caught-the-flu-from-his-daughter-has-been-diagnosed-with-leukaemia.jpg\" alt=\"Mathew started throwing up around the same time as his daughter fell unwell\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Mathew started throwing up around the same time as his daughter fell unwell(Image: Laura Lineker \/ SWNS)<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1755772631_951_1_Man-thought-he-caught-the-flu-from-his-daughter-has-been-diagnosed-with-leukaemia.jpg\" alt=\"The family are coming to terms with things\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>The young family are coming to terms with things(Image: Laura Lineker \/ SWNS)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">But after Mathew continued to vomit in the early hours, Laura drove him to Eastborne District General Hospital. When they arrived, doctors did blood tests and a bone marrow biopsy and the following day Mathew was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukaemia and Sepsis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Laura added: &#8220;I was so shocked &#8211; completely horrified. We didn&#8217;t tell the children for a week &#8211; I told them that daddy was on holiday. It was only when we realised he&#8217;d have to stay there for the foreseeable future that we told them daddy&#8217;s poorly and needs to stay at the hospital to get better.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;They&#8217;re still very young so they don&#8217;t really understand the concept of being ill. They have a doctor kit &#8211; when we took them to the hospital my son wore his doctor&#8217;s coat and hat so he could help fix daddy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;The risk of germs is massive. He&#8217;s now neutropenic, which means he has no immune system at all. For the last three days I&#8217;ve not been able to visit him because there&#8217;s hand, foot and mouth disease going round the kids&#8217; nursery. If I contract that and take it to him, it will kill him.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1755772631_236_1_Man-thought-he-caught-the-flu-from-his-daughter-has-been-diagnosed-with-leukaemia.jpg\" alt=\"Alarms bells rang when the dad developed a gum infection\" loading=\"lazy\"  \/>Alarms bells rang when the dad developed a gum infection(Image: Laura Lineker \/ SWNS)<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">Laura said the situation has been especially hard on their two children, Marnie and Freddie, aged three.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">She said: &#8220;The children are really struggling. Our daughter&#8217;s too young to understand, but she knows something&#8217;s wrong, so she&#8217;s really emotional and clingy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">&#8220;Our son is older &#8211; he&#8217;s asking why daddy can&#8217;t come home, and is waking up in the night asking for him. He doesn&#8217;t know what&#8217;s wrong with him &#8211; I&#8217;ve just had to say daddy&#8217;s poorly and the doctors are going to make him better. We play doctors at home to try to make it less scary for them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"Paragraph_paragraph-text__PVKlh \">A <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/support-mat-and-his-family-fight-leukaemia\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">GoFundMe<\/a> has been set up to help the family cover necessities through the disruption to their work. To donate, <a class=\"TextLink_text-link__dBSS0 TextLink_enabled__dJF3l\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/support-mat-and-his-family-fight-leukaemia\" target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"\" tabindex=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">visit this link<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"After Mathew Rutherford started vomiting around the same time as his one-year-old daughter Marnie, he thought he had&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":82382,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[847,59,102,41670,2268,56,54,55],"class_list":{"0":"post-82381","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-health","8":"tag-cancer","9":"tag-gb","10":"tag-health","11":"tag-leukaemia","12":"tag-sepsis","13":"tag-uk","14":"tag-united-kingdom","15":"tag-unitedkingdom"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82381","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82381"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82381\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82381"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82381"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82381"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}