{"id":9152,"date":"2025-07-19T23:00:07","date_gmt":"2025-07-19T23:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/9152\/"},"modified":"2025-07-19T23:00:07","modified_gmt":"2025-07-19T23:00:07","slug":"im-failing-at-retirement-dont-make-my-mistake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/9152\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m failing at retirement, don&#8217;t make my mistake"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tThe presenter shares the moments that shaped him, from studying music at university, to surviving a plane crash and failing at business\t\t\t\t\t                <\/p>\n<p>James May, 62, shot to fame presenting Top Gear on the BBC from 2003 to 2015, and The Grand Tour on Amazon from 2016 to 2024. Born in Bristol, he worked in the Civil Service before falling into journalism, and was famously fired from Autocar magazine for leaving a hidden message in the headlines. He\u2019s since presented shows on everything from sharks to the moon and his travels around Italy.<\/p>\n<p>Here he looks back on the moments that changed him, across his career, health and more.<\/p>\n<p>I had no vision or ambition as a young man. I was a very late developer, so largely unaware of the world, up until the age of about 35. I did some terrible jobs after I graduated. I worked in a car dealership, in a jewellery shop, as a records officer in the <a class=\"post_in-line_link\" href=\"https:\/\/inews.co.uk\/news\/health\/we-work-in-the-nhs-this-is-why-its-broken-and-how-to-fix-it-3738567?ico=in-line_link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">NHS<\/a>, and on the London Underground. I got <a class=\"post_in-line_link\" href=\"https:\/\/inews.co.uk\/inews-lifestyle\/sacked-midlife-crisis-found-dream-job-3218733?ico=in-line_link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">fired<\/a> from most things. I was hopeless.<\/p>\n<p>I had typical small-boy fantasies of being a fighter pilot or a rock star. I didn\u2019t want to be a footballer because I was rubbish at sports. I slightly resent that at school, you were made to feel it was important to be good at sport. Where we grew up in South Yorkshire, they were keen on kids playing musical instruments.<\/p>\n<p>When I was 11, one of the teachers came in with a trumpet and a flute and said: Does anybody want to learn to play these? Some other kid got his hand up before me for the trumpet, so I said: I\u2019ll learn to play that flute. I started playing the piano and became musical. I studied music at university because I was good at it.<\/p>\n<p>The closest I\u2019ve come to death is when I crashed my aeroplane. I tried to land in a gusting crosswind, and the next thing, the aeroplane was on its back. There could have been a fire, which would\u2019ve been the end of me.<\/p>\n<p>It was years after I\u2019d started working on Top Gear that I was driving with a mate past an airfield and it had a sign saying: introductory flying lessons, 30 minutes for \u00a3120. He said: Let\u2019s stop and have one. Now I have my private pilot\u2019s licence.<\/p>\n<p>I get embarrassed driving my Ferrari. I only drive it occasionally. I\u2019ve also got a boat and an aeroplane. I like taking it to the Isle of Wight for a picnic. The aeroplane I mostly fly to other people\u2019s airfields to see what their cafes are like.<\/p>\n<p>I also collect art: mainly 20th Century, but also some Medieval, African, Asian Middle Eastern, and ancient Chinese. I just buy stuff I like, to hang on the wall. It\u2019s not an investment portfolio, but it\u2019s the last thing I\u2019d sell if things went tits up.<\/p>\n<p> I notice I\u2019ve become flabby around my face and gut. I still expect to see someone looking reasonably youthful in the mirror. Occasionally, I\u2019ll see a photograph of myself on a YouTube video, and think: \u201cThat\u2019s quite an old man.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve made an effort to <a class=\"post_in-line_link\" href=\"https:\/\/inews.co.uk\/inews-lifestyle\/six-rules-exercising-heatwave-experts-3796466?ico=in-line_link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">exercise<\/a> in the last few years. I like riding my bicycle, so I try to ride 10 miles a day. I had to have a break this year because I fell off and broke my wrist, and it\u2019s taking a long time to heal.<\/p>\n<p>I last cried when my cat died. We were very close. His name was Fluff because he wasn\u2019t long-haired, but still fluffy. He died suddenly of an embolism, in some pain, so it was all a bit tragic.<\/p>\n<p>I occasionally get teary about certain bits of classical music like Bach and Debussy. It\u2019s the same with poetry. I spent huge amounts of time sitting under trees reading medieval, 19th and 20th-century English poetry. I was a bit messed up as a youth. It took me quite a long time to sort my head out.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been involved in several businesses \u2013 they\u2019ve never made any money. I think people should steer clear of it. I\u2019m an accidental and reluctant business person.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had an unsuccessful website. I have a pub, which is very nice, but it doesn\u2019t make me any money and it never has. We made some gin for my pubs, which we turned into a gin brand. We employ people, and I have to go to America to promote it, but it doesn\u2019t make me any money either.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve failed at retirement. I\u2019ve been thinking about my <a class=\"post_in-line_link\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/inews.co.uk\/inews-lifestyle\/secret-happy-retirement-divorce-3303299?ico=in-line_link\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">retirement<\/a> since I was a teenager. 2025 was going to be my trial retirement year, but I\u2019ve been accepted to speak at a couple of history festivals and charity events, I\u2019ve got two TV series, and then I\u2019m doing a live show in Australia, New Zealand and around the UK. This is the busiest year I\u2019ve had for about a decade. I haven\u2019t had a day off in months.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve got massive impostor syndrome. I didn\u2019t spend my youth thinking: I\u2019d love to be famous. I didn\u2019t really know what it meant, and I would\u2019ve assumed I wasn\u2019t allowed to anyway. People come up and talk to me quite a bit. Most people are very nice, so you have to be nice back, because they\u2019re the reason you\u2019re here.<\/p>\n<p>James Gin is available from Waitrose and jamesgin.com. His new tour, Explorers \u2013 The Age of Discovery, starts 20 September<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The presenter shares the moments that shaped him, from studying music at university, to surviving a plane crash&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9153,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[84,4792,242,4176,5686,2580,4174,4175,4204,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-9152","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-personal-finance","tag-business","tag-careers","tag-features","tag-finance","tag-grief","tag-interviews","tag-personal-finance","tag-personalfinance","tag-retirement","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9152","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9152"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9152\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9153"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}