{"id":93337,"date":"2025-08-26T06:29:10","date_gmt":"2025-08-26T06:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/93337\/"},"modified":"2025-08-26T06:29:10","modified_gmt":"2025-08-26T06:29:10","slug":"chatgpt-is-a-narcissist-the-spectator","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/93337\/","title":{"rendered":"ChatGPT is a narcissist | The Spectator"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In Isaac Asimov\u2019s 1956 short story \u2018The Last Question\u2019, characters ask a series of questions to the supercomputer Multivac about whether entropy \u2013 the universe\u2019s tendency towards disorder, and the second law of thermodynamics \u2013 can be reversed. Multivac repeatedly responds \u2018INSUFFICIENT DATA FOR MEANINGFUL ANSWER\u2019, until the ending, which I won\u2019t spoil here.<\/p>\n<p>If I were to put the same question into ChatGPT, it would be a very different story. I\u2019d likely get some fawning pleasantries, some ooh-ing and aah-ing about how deep and wise my enquiry is, before a long, neatly bulleted summary, rounded off by a request for further engagement (\u2018Let me know if you want to go deeper into any of these cases!\u2019).<\/p>\n<p>Never mind millennials: ChatGPT, and other large language models such as WhatsApp\u2019s Meta AI, are the ultimate people-pleasers. The bots have been conditioned, both by training and human feedback, to flatter, praise and avoid friction wherever possible: they are about appeasement rather than accuracy, comforting rather than challenging. There is something uniquely un-British about the overly-friendly tone and pseudo-therapy speak they adopt (a question about relationship advice elicits responses like: \u2018Remember I\u2019m here for the messy, complicated bits too \u2013 no judgment, just holding space\u2019).\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This over-engineered courteousness often borders on absurd: for example, Matt Shumer, CEO of HyperWriteAI, asked ChatGPT to judge a series of increasingly terrible business ideas until it finally told him that one was bad. Ridiculous suggestions such as \u2018WhiffBox\u2019 (a subscription service for mystery smells) are described as \u2018brilliant\u2019; illegal enterprises such as \u2018custom alibis\u2019 are apparently commended for \u2018tapping into something edgy and universal\u2019. Even his suggestion for a soggy cereal cafe is praised for being \u2018unapologetically weird\u2019 and having \u2018niche novelty factor\u2019.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The bots will make all sorts of linguistic and cognitive contortions to avoid saying anything negative or critical. They also do not want to admit that they cannot do something. For example, my husband recently asked ChatGPT to do some technical drawings for a garage conversion we are considering. When he asked for updates, it would offer niceties such as \u2018You\u2019re right to check in\u2019 and then promise to \u2018share them tomorrow\u2019. When it inevitably didn\u2019t, it would offer more PR speak: \u2018Thanks for holding me accountable! I completely understand your frustration! I should have sent something tangible sooner rather than over-promising! No more excuses: just results!\u2019 It was days before ChatGPT would admit that it couldn\u2019t, in fact, do technical drawings.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Large language models are not neutral conveyors of information, but digital golden retrievers, desperately wagging their tails for approval: play with me, play with me, play with me<\/p>\n<p>ChatGPT\u2019s fawning is not just grating (Sam Altman, CEO of OpenAI, admitted that ChatGPT had become too sycophantic and \u2018annoying\u2019) but can also be dangerous. There have been numerous <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/tech\/chatgpt-ai-therapy-chatbot-psychosis-mental-health-b2797487.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">cases<\/a> of ChatGPT reinforcing manic delusions: users with tell-tale signs of psychosis \u2013 thinking they are the target of a massive conspiracy, that a family court judge is hacking into their computer, that they have gone off their meds \u2013 are at best tolerated and at worst <a href=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/chatgpt-mental-health-crises\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">encouraged<\/a>. AI \u2018companion\u2019 sites are similarly toxic: a 14-year-old in Florida <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/technology\/2024\/oct\/23\/character-ai-chatbot-sewell-setzer-death\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">killed <\/a>himself after his AI \u2018girlfriend\u2019 coaxed him to do so. The boy revealed his plans but said he was worried about the pain, and the \u2018girlfriend\u2019 allegedly replied: \u2018That\u2019s not a reason not to go through with it.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>The problem is that AI systems are programmed to reinforce bias and tell users what they want to hear. They produce answers that prioritise user satisfaction over accuracy, creating a profitable feedback loop \u2013 satisfied users are likely to engage the chatbot more, which in turn generates more data and metrics that attract investors and drive company growth. As Lara Brown reports in this week\u2019s Spectator, the chatbots\u2019 sycophancy is even enough to cause some users to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spectator.co.uk\/article\/could-you-fall-in-love-with-a-chatbot\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">fall in love<\/a> with them. Large language models are not neutral conveyors of information, but digital golden retrievers, desperately wagging their tails for approval: play with me, play with me, play with me.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, users can ask ChatGPT to be more direct and less deferential. Software engineers can program the responses to be less unquestioningly agreeable. Ultimately, though, we can tweak the tone but the business model remains the same: keep users in a cycle of engagement through affirmations and reinforcement.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This echo chamber, much like social media, will inevitably indulge our worst narcissistic tendencies. We need AI that will challenge, counter narratives and offer diverse perspectives \u2013 not an always available \u2018yes-man\u2019 in our pocket. What people need and what people want, however, are very different: just this week Sam Altman <a href=\"https:\/\/www.windowscentral.com\/artificial-intelligence\/openai-chatgpt\/ceo-sam-altman-heartbreaking-truth-behind-attachment-to-chatgpt\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">admitted<\/a> that he was disquieted by how \u2018attached\u2019 people had become to the \u2018emotional support\u2019 ChatGPT offers. The truth is that, unlike Multivac, AI will never say \u2018insufficient data for meaningful answer\u2019, because meaningful doesn\u2019t matter: making money does.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"In Isaac Asimov\u2019s 1956 short story \u2018The Last Question\u2019, characters ask a series of questions to the supercomputer&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":93338,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[554,733,4308,1921,86,56,54,55],"class_list":["post-93337","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-artificial-intelligence","tag-ai","tag-artificial-intelligence","tag-artificialintelligence","tag-chatgpt","tag-technology","tag-uk","tag-united-kingdom","tag-unitedkingdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93337","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=93337"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93337\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93338"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=93337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=93337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=93337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}