Join us Thursday, February 12th at 7 pm, as we honor LA’s Top Eligible LGBTQ Singles as nominated by you!
Mix and mingle with other singles for this fun and casual event hosted by Salina EsTitties with a live performance by LA Blade’s Best of LA Best Local Musician and Go-Go Boy 2025, Prince Joshua. The evening will also feature an appearance by the MISTR men with Matchmaker Daniel Cooley from Best Man Matchmaking on hand. Will you find your Valentine? This event is free and open to everyone!
The Top Most Eligible LGBTQ Singles has been a long-standing event with our sister paper, the Washington Blade. In celebration of the Los Angeles Blade’s continued growth in the community, we decided to bring it to LA! Last month, we opened nominations, and the community came through, suggesting a wide variety of LGBTQ singles who are bringing some light and love to SoCal.
Let’s meet Los Angeles Blade’s Top Eligible Singles for 2026:
Jason De Puy aka Salina EsTitties
This self-described “most single drag queen on Earth,” Jason, is also known as Salina EsTitties and became a national sensation for her appearance on RuPaul’s Drag Race season 15. California-born and raised, he has spent the past decade as a leader not only in the Los Angeles drag community and sober community, but as a “booked and blessed diva” in the entertainment industry at large. Committed to social justice activism, she partners annually with with the AIDS Life Cycle x LGBT Center of Los Angeles, the Alliance of Housing and Healing through an annual Best in Drag Show, and the Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles.
Age: 35 Occupation: Artist/Performer, Entrepreneur, Producer
How do you identify?: Gay…He/Him
What are you looking for in a mate?
I’m looking for a partner who’s secure in themselves and understands the ride of being an artist. Financial stability matters, but more so, I want someone who respects the vision—someone who’s excited to invest in our growth, not threatened by it. I value compassion, a shared understanding of the entertainment world, and a mutual push toward staying active and adventurous. Emotional awareness and spiritual curiosity are huge, too—conversations that go deeper. And, of course, someone who has their own passions—separate from mine—so we can both grow as individuals while being each other’s biggest supporters. And, you know, someone who can get sexy when the moment calls for it! And trust…there will be many moments, so stamina is important. 😉
Biggest turn off:
My biggest turnoff is a lack of kindness, especially toward service workers or anyone in a vulnerable role. If someone can’t treat others with respect, it’s an immediate no. I’m also turned off by someone who’s not willing to grow or self-reflect—emotional immaturity is a big no-no for me.
Biggest turn on:
I love playful flirtation and a partner who’s not shy about initiating—whether that’s a text or making the first move. Great communication, being touchy-feely, and making me feel wanted are all key. I’m in a place where I want to be pursued, not doing all the chasing. Oh, and big hands, someone bigger in stature than me, cause I’m a big girl.
Hobbies:
I’ve structured my life so that a lot of my passions are tied to my work—creativity, performing, and crafting immersive experiences. Outside of that, I crochet in the evenings to unwind. Lately, I’ve reconnected with bowling, something I did with my dad, and I’m now in my second bowling league season—new ball and all! I also love cinema; I’m a wannabe cinephile in the making, always up for film discussions and trips to the movies. Right now, I’m on a Marilyn Monroe kick and diving into Stella Adler interviews—I love watching conversations about the craft of acting and how movies/music/productions are made.
What is your biggest goal for 2026?
My biggest goal for 2026 is to become truly secure in myself—owning the confidence in the success I’ve built. I have exciting projects on the horizon that will expand my creativity—whether that’s music, events, or other expressions of who I am. But beyond the work, I want to feel grounded, fully in my body, and passionate about everything I’m creating. Ultimately, my goal is to feel that solid sense of inner security, while being respected, celebrated, and—yes—paid accordingly for the work I love.
Pets, Kids or Neither?
I absolutely love dogs—especially big, loyal, friendly protectors, like a sweet pit bull—but I’m open to even the little yappers charming their way into my heart. As for kids, it’s something I’d only consider if my partner and I were truly aligned. Right now, I’m not personally focused on having children myself, but if I’m in love and my partner is in a place where they’re ready and able to fully support that journey—both emotionally and financially—I’d be open. But for now, kids aren’t on my immediate horizon.
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours?
I’ve been in a relationship before where our political views didn’t align, and I realized it’s a dealbreaker for me. For something long-term, I need us to share core values. So, no, I wouldn’t be able to date someone whose political views strongly conflict with mine—especially when it comes to fundamental issues of human rights and equality.
Celebrity crush:
I’m not huge on celebrity crushes, but let’s be honest—Chris Hemsworth, Chris Evans—any superhero named Chris is totally a vibe. But truly, I’m more about real-life connection, so I save my real crush energy for someone who steps into my reality!
Name one obscure fact about yourself:
I have 14 years sober, oh, and I was actually eliminated on the Steps of Knowledge on the adult reboot of Legends of the Hidden Temple. Turns out, the 12 steps won’t save ya on the steps of knowledge!
Stan Zimmerman
Stan has two WGA noms for Best Comedy Writing: The Golden Girls, Roseanne. Stan also wrote and produced Gilmore Girls, co-created the Lifetime sitcom Rita Rocks, and wrote both Brady Bunch movies. He was Host/Showrunner on Sean Hayes’ Bravo reality show Situation: Comedy. TRWshows publishes and licenses Stan’s work — Yes, Virginia, Silver Foxes, and right before I go. Stan’s book, The Girls: From Golden to Gilmore, was released by Indigo River Publishing. This past September, he made his Off-Broadway acting and playwrighting debut with his suicide awareness play, right before I go, after touring with it across America.
Age:66 Occupation: Writer/Director/Producer
How do you identify?: Gay
What are you looking for in a mate? Smart, funny, curious, stylish, empathetic
Biggest turn off: Selfish, closed minded, insensitive
Biggest turn on: Fun and flirty
Hobbies: Running, swimming, music, theatre, travel
What is your biggest goal for 2026?
Keeping my heart open and challenging myself creatively and emotionally
Pets, Kids or Neither? Maybe a cat one day
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours?
Probably not. Right now, it’s more than just politics; it’s about one’s moral core.
Celebrity crush: Still Brad Pitt or Derek Hough. Okay, Shawn Mendes
Name one obscure fact about yourself: I used to study ballet.
Joshua Marin-Mora
Joshua works throughout the Westside as a government office field representative. He also serves as the Political Vice President for Stonewall Young Democrats. As a proud Latino and LGBTQ+ young person, Joshua is committed to furthering SYD’s mission and engagement throughout the greater LA area. When not at community events, you can find him out with friends in West Hollywood or recharging at home, getting lost in a new book.
Age: 26 Occupation: Field Representative
How do you identify: he/him
What are you looking for in a mate?
I’m looking for a mix of adventure and stability. Emotional maturity is a must. Looking for someone who knows how to communicate and be consistent.
Biggest turn off:
Someone with no plans. If you don’t have plans, whether personal or professional, it’s probably not going to work out.
Biggest turn on: Someone who is decisive. And bonus points if you can dance.
Hobbies: Love traveling, reading, volunteering, and going out with friends.
Biggest goal for 2026: I’m going to focus more on my health and fitness.
Kids, Pets or neither? Maybe kids.
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours? No.
Celebrity crush: Jonathan Bailey
Name one obscure fact about yourself: I like to eat the fries first.
Liliana Perez
Liliana T. Pérez serves as the Cultural Affairs Director for the Los Angeles Chargers and is responsible for building strategic partnerships within California’s dynamic and versatile economic, cultural, and social sectors. Prior to joining the Chargers, Pérez had made a career in public service, holding senior leadership roles in the office of six Speakers of the California Assembly.
Pérez has been recognized for her advocacy work on behalf of marginalized populations, including the LGBTQ community, immigrants, and women. Pérez remains passionate about social justice and civil rights causes and is active with numerous organizations. Her volunteer and philanthropic work includes serving on the Commission on the Status of Women for the City of Los Angeles and on the Los Angeles Unified School District’s Redistricting Commission.
Age: 55 Occupation: Sr. Director of Cultural Affairs, LA Chargers
How do you identify?: Bisexual
What are you looking for in a mate?
Beautiful, passionate, work hard & play hard…successful, community advocate, honest, loves to dance bachata, merengue, and Rock en Espanol!
Biggest turn off: Cheaters, liars, half ass everything
Biggest turn on:
Hell Yes Energy! Loves live theatre, live entertainment, stand-up comedy, enjoys volunteering & raising money for worthy causes; enjoys cooking and eating… so I can share my love language by also cooking.
Hobbies: I don’t have any.
What is your biggest goal for 2026? Buy a vacation/ retirement home in Puerto Vallarta
Pets, Kids or Neither? None.
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours? No!
Celebrity crush: Big time crazy crush is Paola Ramos… dreamy!
Name one obscure fact about yourself: I love Neil Diamond.
Prince Joshua
Prince Joshua is a natural-born performer driven by movement, fashion, and unapologetic self-expression. From nightlife stages to Pride festivals, he brings high energy, bold charisma, and a signature presence that blends dance, music, and style. He performs as a dancer, rapper, and MC, known for electrifying shows, fearless flair, and a radiant edge. His work has been featured on OUTtv and on major stages across the country, and in 2025, he was honored as Go-Go of the Year and Local Music Artist of the Year. He is also the creator and host of EDYN, an EDM dance party at The Abbey WeHo, where music, movement, and energy collide.
Age: 28 Occupation: Party Promoter and Go-go
How do you identify?: Gay
What are you looking for in a mate? Passion, success, drive, loyalty, and connection.
Biggest turn off: Seeing someone treat others poorly.
Biggest turn on:
Knowing someone is putting effort into wanting to understand and take care of me as a person and not just focus on the physical attraction.
Hobbies: Weightlifting, yoga, and making music.
What is your biggest goal for 2026? To make my party EDYN a staple in West Hollywood.
Pets, Kids or Neither? Neither
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours?
I don’t think I could if the foundation of our views differs. If there are slight differences that aren’t affecting the rights of others, then I could potentially.
Celebrity crush: Bad Bunny
Name one obscure fact about yourself: I can do the splits all 3 ways
Cecilio Asuncion
Cece Asuncion (he/him) is an out and proud gay Filipino producer, director, and advocate based in Los Angeles, CA. He is the founder of Slay Model Management, the world’s first transgender-exclusive modeling agency, and a GLAAD Media Award-winning producer of STRUT on the Oxygen Network, co-produced with Whoopi Goldberg. His groundbreaking documentary What’s The T?, which follows the lives of five transgender women, received global acclaim, screening at festivals like the Palm Springs International Film Festival, where it won the Audience Choice Award, and Rio Gay de Cinema in Brazil. As a sought-after speaker on transgender advocacy, he has presented at NYU, Stanford, and the University of Colorado, using his platform to educate and inspire.
Most recently, he founded and serves as Executive Director for the CinePride Film Festival, fostering the next generation of LGBTQIA+ filmmakers, ensuring they have the resources and support to bring their visions to life.
Age: 49 Occupation: TV Producer
How do you identify?: Gay
What are you looking for in a mate?
Chemistry, obviously—but chemistry that holds up on a random Tuesday. Someone smart, warm, and grounded, who can laugh at dumb shit, communicate honestly, and isn’t afraid of real intimacy. I’m attracted to people who are passionate about what they do and generous in how they show up. Bonus points if they’re emotionally fluent and can keep up in both a deep conversation and a ridiculous one.
Biggest turn off:
Arrogance and inconsistency. If someone is charming but unreliable, that’s an immediate buzzkill.
Biggest turn on:
Competence. Watching someone be really good at what they do—and still be kind about it.
Hobbies:
Exploring new food spots, cooking for friends, avoiding hiking, traveling, and building creative projects that probably should count as hobbies at this point.
What is your biggest goal for 2026? World domination.
Pets, Kids or Neither? Pets 100%!
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours?
Not in this climate, or ever, no.
Celebrity crush: Seth Rogen
Name one obscure fact about yourself: I hate long walks on the beach.
Brynn Allen
Brynn was born in Seattle, Washington, and was raised on Occupied Duwamish Territory. She graduated with a BA in Theatre Arts from the University of Puget Sound. Although she focused on theatre making and acting in college, she also pursued studies in other fields such as criminal justice, filmmaking, gender/queer studies, politics, interpersonal communication, and communication through technology. Social justice and advocacy are always a priority in her artistic work and everyday life.
Age: 27 Occupation: Actor
How do you identify? Sapphic Queer
What are you looking for in a mate?
I am looking for a partner who is a classic Dyke. Someone who knows how to build a fire, appreciates the arts, is emotionally mature, able to take initiative romantically, used to play softball, has a strong sense of self, confident in their individuality, ideally able to lift me, has Socialist values, is community-oriented, able to riff, and embraces whimsy.
Biggest turn off: Cockiness or being mean, because why are you acting like that?
Biggest turn on: When someone has a well-curated closet, or they’re a good dancer.
Hobbies:
Sitting in a park and reading, going to the beach, going to see live music, short hikes or long walks in nature, supporting my friends’ creative projects, shopping at an antique mall, and watching movies at the nearest AMC.
What is your biggest goal for 2026? To prioritize my creative endeavors and take more risks
Pets, Kids or Neither? Neither
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours? No ❤️
Celebrity crush: All members of MUNA
Name one obscure fact about yourself: I used to be an Alpine Ski racer.
Patrick Murray
Patrick is a Los Angeles–based entrepreneur, former opera singer, and certified triple-threat conversationalist, fluent in three languages, making him perfect for dinner date banter. After years onstage, he traded songs for sausages and founded Franzl’s Franks, an Austrian-inspired food brand that mixes European flair, queer joy, and serious culinary chops. Equal parts creative and ambitious, Patrick is tall, personable, and unapologetically himself. He’s proof that the most eligible single in LA can sing, sell, and serve.
Age: 40 Occupation: Entrepreneur
How do you identify? Gay
What are you looking for in a mate?
Someone ambitious, so we inspire each other to be better, patient, and kind through life’s chaos, with the wit to match mine as we laugh our way through adventures.
Biggest turn off:
A lack of curiosity about the world. Someone who doesn’t strive for more or isn’t interested in personal growth probably wouldn’t be the best match. Also, chewing with your mouth open is instant no.
Biggest turn on:
Big brown puppy dog eyes and a kind smile make me melt. A man who initiates and knows what he wants, because I can get shy sometimes.
Hobbies:
Interior design and fantasy house hunting, baking cakes no one asked for, taking walks to unlock my daydreams, going out dancing or going to the opera, Unsolved Mysteries marathons
What is your biggest goal for 2026?
To grow my business, fall in love, and swan dive from the top of a building into a tiny cup of water
Pets, Kids or Neither? Love pets! Kids are wonderful via FaceTime.
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours?
I mean, I could probably date a moderate democrat. That’s about as far right as I’d go.
Celebrity crush: Cooper Koch, Francois Arnaud, Hasan Minhaj (and Piker!)
Name one obscure fact about yourself:
My parents named me my name so it would look good in the newspapers when I scored touchdowns…but now I’m in the paper for being gay and single, so the joke’s on you, Mom!
Hera Anderson
Hera Anderson is an award-winning transgender actor, film producer, and writer raised in Europe and settled down in the USA a few years ago, pursuing her career in the entertainment industry. She’s been in the industry for more than 15 years, proudly creating her own history. She’s been performing in drag queen shows, developing her own film projects, and writing her new stories to share.
Known for her confidence, warmth, and bold presence, she brings authenticity and charisma to every space she enters. Hera is passionate about storytelling, connection, and building meaningful relationships both on and offstage.
Age: 40 Occupation: Actress/Writer/Producer
How do you identify? Transgender Woman
What are you looking for in a mate?
Peace and passion. Someone emotionally mature, consistent, and kind, with a playful side. I’m building a big creative life, so I’m into a partner who’s self-sufficient, communicative, and genuinely excited to grow together.
Biggest turn off:
Bad hygiene, flakiness, cruelty, and negative energy. If you’re disrespectful to people “below” you, I’m out.
Biggest turn on:
Warm eyes, a great smile, confidence without ego, emotional intelligence, and someone who’s generous with affection. I love a creative mind and a person who plans dates instead of just texting “wyd.”
Hobbies:
Trying new restaurants, dancing, movies, writing/creating, live shows, beach walks, exploring LA, and traveling whenever I can. Also, I’m a sucker for a cute coffee spot.
What is your biggest goal for 2026?
To fall in love with someone ready for commitment and a shared future.
Pets, Kids or Neither?
Puppy mom, and yes, I’m open to having kids in the future with the right person
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours?
We can disagree on opinions, not on human rights. Respect, empathy, and basic decency are non-negotiable.
Celebrity crush: Jason Statham, Chris Pratt, Matthew McConaughey, Mark Wahlberg
Name one obscure fact about yourself:
I’ll go out “for one coffee” and somehow leave with a full day’s plan and three new ideas.
Kevin Peter Berg
Kevin is a West Hollywood–based entertainment legal and business leader with a long career in film and television. Known for his thoughtful leadership and commitment to inclusive storytelling, Kevin brings both heart and intellect to everything he does. Deeply connected to his community, he proudly supports Project Angel Food, GLAAD, and the Los Angeles LGBT Center. Off the clock, Kevin’s vibrant life in SoCal reflects his love of culture, authenticity, and living boldly at every stage. Grounded yet adventurous, he values authenticity, good conversation, and relationships built on curiosity, respect, and shared joy.
Age: 57 Occupation: General Counsel
How do you identify? Gay male
What are you looking for in a mate?
A true partner—someone with a great sense of humor, a spirit of adventure, and a love of travel. I’m drawn to men who are emotionally intuitive, secure, and confident, yet still playful and open-hearted. Bonus points if you enjoy musical theatre and a good romantic comedy as much as a holiday getaway. Ultimately, I’m looking for a connection built on laughter, curiosity, and the joy of discovering life together.
Biggest turn off: Lack of communication and connection – physically and verbally
Biggest turn on: Confidence
Hobbies:
Travel & exploration, fitness, social connections with friends (movie, live theatre, brunch, trivia nights)
What is your biggest goal for 2026? Focus on new career opportunities
Pets, Kids or Neither? Pets (one cat)
Would you date someone whose political views differ from yours?
No, as that would create too many opportunities for conflict
Celebrity crush: Ryan Reynolds
Name one obscure fact about yourself: I lip-synch songs in front of the bathroom mirror
Let’s hear it for our inaugural Top LGBTQ Eligible Singles! Join us this Thursday, February 12th, at 7 pm at The Abbey to celebrate.