The strawberry sundaes had been cleared from the table but the wine was still flowing when a small dinner party I recently attended turned to the topic of housing in L.A.
A housing advocate among the guests noted that the leafy community of generous century-old homes and good schools was well behind in building more, dense developments to address the housing crisis. A couple of guests who lived there shot back that they had worked hard to retain the historic charms and Nancy Myers-inspired look, and that hulking apartment buildings on the corner would ruin all that.
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In my life, social events typically begin with a chorus of outrage about Trump 2.0 but turn to divisions when it comes to the question of housing, reflecting the way the issues of growth and density have divided blue California.
Why L.A. is building so few apartments
A recent USC study found Los Angeles County is building new apartments at the slowest rate in decades. The data found the county built less than 110,000 units between 2021 and 2025. Moreover, it takes an average of three years to complete multi-family units, triple the national average. This all places L.A. way behind other cities in creating new housing to keep up with needs.
There are many reasons for this shortage. Regulation overload highlighted in the “Abundance agenda.” The grassroots politics of “no” discussed in the book “Golden Gates.” Struggles to finance new construction.
Yet the skepticism of single-family home dwellers to living near multi-family housing looms large. This is a story that goes back a century, when low-density residential communities became the ideal in Los Angeles. Postwar suburbanization cemented the aesthetic that residents seem willing to defend at all cost.
The growth of Lakewood Park is seen in an unincorporated area of Los Angeles County.
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Perfect, except for that apartment building
I moved into one of those midcentury boxes more than two decades ago. I followed the old adage to get the “worst” house in the “best” neighborhood, and that meant living in the shadow of a three-story apartment at the edge of my subdivision.
It did not seem such a big deal at first. But over time, the apartment felt like the one blemish on my new Sunset magazine-inspired life. Friends came over and could not help but notice how the glare of the apartment’s security lights hit the front of my house.
The apartment also seemed to live in a separate ecosystem from the rest of my block, with the home dwellers and apartment dwellers rarely interacting. I found myself taking walks up my block past the well-landscaped frontyards with Teslas in the driveways instead of down and past the faded stucco of the apartment complex.
New apartments in L.A.
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During the pandemic, my mother was living with me. She was suffering the early stages of dementia and one of her few pleasures was regular walks up and down the street. She found a support system in the apartment I avoided. A teenage girl regularly walked with her. She got to know several of the tenants, who often came out to say hi as she crept down the street in her walker.
When she was sick, they’d leave treats on our front porch. When her dementia worsened, some became her guardian angels, helping her find her way home when she got lost and confused, texting me when she forgot to close the garage door. I once asked one of her apartment friends why they were so kind to my mother, and she said with a smile, “Your mom is a great lady and a great neighbor.”
The day after she died, I arrived home to find flowers, candles and balloons at the front door. All from the gang in the apartment.
The choice we face today is harder. I don’t know how me and my homeowning neighbors would feel if the city proposed building the apartment on my block today. We’d likely worry about our property values, traffic and the “quality of life.”
But one old lady at the end of her life might urge us not to assume the worst.
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And finally … from our archives 
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The front page of the May 7, 1970, edition of the Los Angeles Times highlights antiwar demonstrations in L.A. including protesters who blocked traffic on the San Bernardino Freeway near Cal State Los Angeles.
Following the U.S. invasion of Cambodia and the Kent State University shootings, massive student strikes took place at L.A.-area colleges along with street protests.
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