{"id":340412,"date":"2026-05-31T17:09:44","date_gmt":"2026-05-31T17:09:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/340412\/"},"modified":"2026-05-31T17:09:44","modified_gmt":"2026-05-31T17:09:44","slug":"im-a-san-francisco-bar-operator-young-tech-bros-are-going-sober-but-they-still-want-to-sip-on-mocktails","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/340412\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m a San Francisco bar operator. Young tech bros are going sober \u2014 but they still want to sip on mocktails"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;There&#8217;s a herd mentality to tech, especially when so many people have arrived so recently,&#8221; Lindgren said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Lindgren said that companies aren&#8217;t pulling back from bars at corporate events \u2014\u00a0but they want more mocktails.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Greg Lindgren, a 57-year-old bar operator from San Francisco. He co-owns 15 Romolo, The Cordial, Rye Cocktail Bar, and the events company Rye on the Road with Jon Gasparini. It&#8217;s been edited for length and clarity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In San Francisco, you throw a rock, and you hit a laptop.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We started in the industry at the adolescence of the 1.0 boom. I have friends who <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/louis-borders-webvan-founder-hds-2014-4?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:worked for Webvan;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;worked for Webvan&quot;}\" class=\"link \">worked for Webvan<\/a>. Over the years, we&#8217;ve worked for all of the household names in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/paypal-mafia-members-elon-musk-peter-thiel-reid-hoffman-companies?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:the PayPal Mafia;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;the PayPal Mafia&quot;}\" class=\"link \">the PayPal Mafia<\/a> that survived the first crash and created the second wave.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When we opened Rye, we went to Google ourselves. The first result was a Yelp review. This was 2006. The person who made the review was the sixth hire at Yelp. I recognized his name, because there&#8217;s a lot of convergence between real-life social and tech.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We have a warehouse in SoMa. We&#8217;re a half block away from where Twitter was founded. This building was a temporary place where Airbnb, pre-IPO, was building its business. We get mail <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/airbnb-ceo-brian-chesky-30-billion-startup-2016-8?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:for Brian Chesky;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;for Brian Chesky&quot;}\" class=\"link \">for Brian Chesky<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We&#8217;ve had a front row seat. &#8220;Silicon Valley&#8221; is a documentary. It&#8217;s a lot of fun to watch and be a part of it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The trend toward abstaining from drinking has been ongoing for a while. Around the time that people started looking at alternative <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/what-its-like-to-live-on-soylent-2016-3?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:forms of eating;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;forms of eating&quot;}\" class=\"link \">forms of eating<\/a>, they were toying around with cutting back on alcohol.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It&#8217;s been gaining momentum over the last few years. It&#8217;s not just health, and it&#8217;s not just trying to have that edge.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">There&#8217;s a new gold rush happening. The miners in the last year and a half are mostly young men. Some of them are abstaining from a health-maxxing standpoint. Other people just didn&#8217;t drink; they&#8217;re already of that generation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">There&#8217;s a herd mentality to tech, especially when so many people have arrived so recently. Smart people adopt this lifestyle and say, &#8220;I need to signal to everyone around me that I have all the edge, and that we&#8217;re not going to succumb to distraction.&#8221; One of the things in that conversation is alcohol consumption.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Those same people are taking other things. It&#8217;s more of an older generation, but people of the VC class are getting <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/psychedelic-tea-ayahuasca-effects-founders-experiment-better-leaders-1heart-2023-12?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:one-shotted on ayahuasca;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;one-shotted on ayahuasca&quot;}\">one-shotted on ayahuasca<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">There are still groups that hit it hard. An example: young parents. When you have kids, you stop going to bars and restaurants, and you hunker down for a few years. Once their kids are preschoolers or elementary schoolers, those parents come roaring back. It&#8217;s like they&#8217;ve been let out of prison.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The same thing holds true for various tech cultures. We work with a company that&#8217;s in-person five days a week and is heavily sales-driven. They built a whole bar within their corporate headquarters, and we&#8217;re the contract bar that services that. There&#8217;s a social bonding aspect.<\/p>\n<p>Mocktails are all the rage at tech events<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">More than a few years ago, we saw the writing on the wall, and that&#8217;s when we went into mocktails.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We work with a company that&#8217;s a household name. We&#8217;ve gone there on several occasions with beer, wine, and a cocktail available. We&#8217;ll watch as the <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/why-mocktails-expensive-ingredients-na-alcohol-spirits-wine-prices-2025-1?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:mocktail that we brought;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;mocktail that we brought&quot;}\">mocktail that we brought<\/a> is the thing that everybody&#8217;s drinking. We&#8217;re happy to be there.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Everything is better and more professional by having a service like ours there, whether or not they&#8217;re drinking alcohol at 4 in the afternoon. It helps with breaking the ice to have something in your hand. It&#8217;s not going to be a cigarette, and you can only have so much caffeine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The people who assemble these events look at reactions. It&#8217;s similar to having a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/make-6000-month-from-photo-booth-side-hustle-replacing-income-2026-4?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:cool photo booth;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;cool photo booth&quot;}\" class=\"link \">cool photo booth<\/a>; it&#8217;s something people remember.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The business model hasn&#8217;t shifted. I can count on one hand the number of times we&#8217;ve been hired to do just non-alcoholic drinks. There has not been a reduction in price or a rejection of the offering as people change their event curation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">So far, companies are not fixating on: &#8220;Hey, we noticed that a lot of people are drinking less alcohol.&#8221; They&#8217;re asking: &#8220;Did we have a great event? Did we get everyone together, whether they drank sparkling water or an old-fashioned?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">That&#8217;s what we see in the current landscape. It hasn&#8217;t slowed our business down.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">If you enjoyed this story, be sure to follow <a href=\"https:\/\/profiles.yahoo.com\/brands\/business-insider\/\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Business Insider;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Business Insider&quot;}\" class=\"link \" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Business Insider<\/a> on Yahoo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"&#8220;There&#8217;s a herd mentality to tech, especially when so many people have arrived so recently,&#8221; Lindgren said. 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