{"id":354579,"date":"2026-06-10T12:17:12","date_gmt":"2026-06-10T12:17:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/354579\/"},"modified":"2026-06-10T12:17:12","modified_gmt":"2026-06-10T12:17:12","slug":"why-lizzo-would-rather-be-annoying-than-invisible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/354579\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Lizzo would &#8216;rather be annoying than invisible&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Lizzo\u2019s assistant is piling suitcases in the entryway of the musician\u2019s home in Los Angeles  when suddenly her boss reassigns her to a more pressing task.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI need the pickle juice!\u201d Lizzo hollers from the living room, grimacing as she rubs an arm muscle. \u201cIt\u2019s really cramping.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>With about a week to go until the release of her new album, this four-time Grammy winner with a pair of No. 1 pop hits is starting to feel the strain of a high-stakes project rollout on a recent afternoon. Yesterday she spent a few hours in retail-politics mode at a Chili\u2019s in Encino as part of her sponsorship deal with the chain restaurant; tonight she\u2019ll fly to Miami to perform at a Sports Illustrated swimsuit event where an unexpected rainstorm will turn the runway into a Slip \u2019N Slide.<\/p>\n<p>Yet right now you won\u2019t hear Lizzo, 38, complain about her workload. Being tired means you\u2019ve been busy; being busy means you\u2019re in demand. And demand has often seemed in short supply of late for the singer, rapper, flautist and shapewear magnate born Melissa Jefferson.<\/p>\n<p>In 2023, just months after her disco-funk smash \u201cAbout Damn Time\u201d was named record of the year at the Grammys, <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/entertainment-arts\/business\/story\/2023-08-22\/lizzo-lawsuits-sexual-harrassment-music-industry-grammys\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Lizzo was sued<\/a> by three backup dancers who accused her of sexual harassment and said she\u2019d created a hostile work environment \u2014 a startling disruption of the smiley body-positive image Lizzo had spent the previous few years cultivating.<\/p>\n<p>Since then, she\u2019s struggled to connect with a mass audience seemingly uninterested in her music; one particularly damning critique, seen widely on social media, is that she\u2019s outlasted her usefulness as a hair-tossing, nail-checking icon of Biden-era self-affirmation.<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"Lizzo at home in Los Angeles.\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"1334\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/1781093831_509_.jpeg\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Lizzo at home in Los Angeles.<\/p>\n<p>(Ian Spanier \/ For The Times)<\/p>\n<p>But Lizzo is no quitter. Early this year she played a series of well-received gigs at the Blue Note jazz clubs in New York and L.A., where she remade old hits like \u201cGood as Hell\u201d and \u201cTruth Hurts\u201d in a tasty cabaret style; after that she performed for a hometown crowd of about  70,000 at the annual Houston Rodeo. Now  her latest LP, titled \u201cBitch,\u201d is finally out in the world after a couple of false starts.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe most inspiring thing about Lizzo is the fact that she never stops,\u201d says her friend SZA, with whom she\u2019s collaborated onstage and in the studio. \u201cShe never stops, and she never gives up.\u201d SZA calls Lizzo \u201ca master transmuter\u201d and says she makes her think of \u201cThe Alchemist\u201d by Brazilian novelist Paulo Coelho.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe really turns copper into gold,\u201d SZA adds, \u201ctaking whatever\u2019s thrown at her and turning it into some kind of amazing, five-star Michelin-worthy meal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At least that\u2019s the hope with \u201cBitch,\u201d whose title track fuses bits of two late-\u201990s classics by Missy Elliott and Meredith Brooks.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMaybe someone\u2019s gonna do the fourth \u2018Bitch\u2019 in like 15 years,\u201d says Lizzo,  wearing leggings and an athleisure zip-up as she sits down on a sofa to talk. \u201cI\u2019ll be very honored.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You recently went on what you called a follow spree on X, where you told people you\u2019d follow them on the platform if they promoted your album.<br \/>I hadn\u2019t been on Twitter in years because Twitter is kind of like the Sunken Place, and I didn\u2019t want to interact with it. But I went on and then got into an accidental spat with a stan. Someone was like, \u201cWhy is Lizzo fighting with a stan?\u201d I saw that, and I was like, \u201cYeah, why am I fighting with stans? Why don\u2019t I love the stans?\u201d It\u2019s the way I used to interact on Twitter, but I didn\u2019t realize that famous people stopped doing that.<\/p>\n<p>The picture of you from the cover of your single \u201cJuice\u201d ended up becoming a meme.<br \/>I\u2019ve seen myself mashed up with Kamala Harris. I\u2019ve seen me as a mannequin dummy. I\u2019ve seen Chili\u2019s baby back ribs slathered across my face. It\u2019s insane, and I love it. Really, what it is is that I had been completely dragged in the Kevin Hart roast [on Netflix in May], and I remember being like, I\u2019ve heard everything I could possibly hear about me, so nothing can bother me now.<\/p>\n<p>I tried to parse some of the criticisms you\u2019ve gotten over the last few years. One theme I identified is this idea that Lizzo is always doing too much, and I wondered whether you feel that\u2019s a gendered criticism.<br \/>Absolutely. And I think Black women get it even worse. I think that most of the criticisms and dislike for me are fatphobic and racist and sexist. It\u2019s the fact that I\u2019m a fat Black woman and I\u2019m existing outside the parameters in which society thinks I should exist. I\u2019ve always been a little too much \u2014 that\u2019s my personality. But I\u2019m like, Am I too much or are you not enough? I\u2019d rather be annoying than invisible.<\/p>\n<p>Getting over the fear of being perceived as annoying \u2014 that seems hard. Tell me about that journey.<br \/>Well, I grew up feeling very annoying.<\/p>\n<p>Happily?<br \/>No, it was a huge insecurity of mine. I\u2019m the baby in the family, and I played probably the most annoying instrument to be bad at. Hearing someone be bad at the flute is a nightmare. And I was bad for at least two years. But I feel like there\u2019s something powerful about being unafraid to be annoying in 2026. I\u2019ve had that anxiety shadow me my whole life, and I think I\u2019m healing something in myself \u2014 in my inner child \u2014 that I didn\u2019t even realize I\u2019m healing. Some people call it a humiliation kink. But I say I put the \u201cmilli\u201d in \u201chumiliation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We probably need to talk about Chili\u2019s. You said you were there yesterday.<br \/>I bought baby back ribs for everyone in the building, and I had a Triple Dipper and a Popping Boba Marg.<\/p>\n<p>The brand ambassador is brand-ambassador-ing.<br \/>Look, I grew up eating at Chili\u2019s. When I went to college, there was a Chili\u2019s Too on campus, and I remember being like, Oh my gosh, I\u2019m homesick \u2014 let me go get a molten lava cake and some Southwestern egg rolls. And the baby back ribs jingle? It\u2019s canon.<\/p>\n<p>The <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ofuTVx6GfsM\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">commercial<\/a> where you perform the jingle \u2014 I think it might be wacky enough that it goes past cringe and comes back around to funny.<br \/>I thought it was camp, and I am very, very camp. I don\u2019t care about being cringe \u2014 I think to be cringe is to be free.<\/p>\n<p>Ooh.<br \/>I\u2019m a diva \u2014 I am \u2014 and I feel like divas are a dying breed. A talented, confident, beautiful woman who\u2019s a bit of a flirt \u2014 from the Dolly Partons to the Mariah Careys to the Whitney Houstons, that\u2019s where I\u2019m at. And I don\u2019t think any of those women care about being cringe. They\u2019re in on it, and I am too.<\/p>\n<p>OK, this feels crucial: There have been moments in your career where you\u2019ve clearly been in on it. But there have been other moments where I wasn\u2019t so sure.<br \/>The general public, nine times out of 10, they think they\u2019re laughing at me. I\u2019m like, \u201cHoney, I\u2019m laughing with you laughing at me all the way to the bank.\u201d That\u2019s why I did a roast! That\u2019s why I can tweet at Azealia Banks and say, \u201cI like it when you call me Fat Lizzo.\u201d That\u2019s why the \u201cJuice\u201d memes don\u2019t offend me. I think people don\u2019t realize how much humor I\u2019m normally coming at the internet with. I\u2019m like, \u201cY\u2019all know I\u2019m joking, right?\u201d But they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>How to maintain that joking attitude in the face of serious legal troubles?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou don\u2019t,\u201d Lizzo says. \u201cI don\u2019t think there\u2019s anything funny about that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The singer has denied her former dancers\u2019 claims, perhaps the most eyebrow-raising of which \u2014 that she shamed them over their weight \u2014 was dismissed by a judge last year. And she\u2019s vowed to keep fighting the rest of the case, which is ongoing.<\/p>\n<p>Asked how the experience has shaped her, Lizzo says, \u201cYou sit back for a second and learn from the situation, and then you grow and you make sure that moving forward, something like that doesn\u2019t happen again to you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>How?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t have the specifics,\u201d she says. \u201cBut I would say in general that there are things that come with being a boss and owning a business that an indie kid sometimes only learns the hard way. And I think that was important for me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"Lizzo and SZA at the 66th Grammy Awards in 2024.\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"3000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/1781093831_621_.jpeg\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Lizzo and SZA at the 66th Grammy Awards in 2024.<\/p>\n<p>(Robert Gauthier \/ Los Angeles Times)<\/p>\n<p>Lizzo, who grew up in Houston, found her musical voice in Minneapolis, where she played in the city\u2019s underground rock and hip-hop scenes. In 2016 she moved to L.A. and signed a deal with Atlantic Records; \u201cCuz I Love You,\u201d her major-label debut, came out three years later and went platinum on the back of hits like \u201cJuice\u201d and the Hot 100-topping \u201cTruth Hurts.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Things moved quickly after that \u2014 a collab with Cardi B, an Amazon reality show, the shapewear line Yitty \u2014 until things started to fall apart. Yet Lizzo says none of the controversy or backlash did anything to diminish her creative energy, which her new album\u2019s high points might lead you to believe.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDon\u2019t Make Me Love U\u201d is a pitch-perfect riff on the synthed-up pop-soul of late-\u201980s Tina Turner, while \u201cShe Stole My Man\u201d puts ringing Cure-style guitars over a crisp new wave groove. Overall, \u201cBitch\u201d leans more rock than R&amp;B, a shift Lizzo\u2019s longtime producer, Ricky Reed, attributes in part to an appearance she made with the band Incubus at the Hollywood Bowl in 2023.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI remember after that she was like, \u2018Man, we should do a punk song or something proggy,\u2019\u201d Reed says. \u201cShe was in a band like that in high school so we just started very unabashedly looking at her true influences and her true passions.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Though the LP closes with the buoyant \u201cGoodmorning!\u201d \u2014 \u201cYou know the way Jesus turned water to wine?\u201d she sings, \u201cWell, I\u2019m-a turn water to Pedialyte\u201d \u2014 \u201cBitch\u201d goes light on the type of uplifting empowerment anthems that made Lizzo a star.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPlease write that in your article,\u201d Lizzo tells me. \u201cI used to write all my songs with silver linings, and I gave myself permission to have no silver linings on this album.\u201d As examples, she points to \u201cLike a Crime,\u201d a mournful acoustic ballad, and the woozy \u201cToo Nice,\u201d both of which describe betrayals of her trust.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEverybody got real quiet in the room when I showed them \u2018Too Nice\u2019 \u2014 like, \u2018Whoa, Melissa, don\u2019t pull out the 9,\u2019\u201d she says with a laugh.<\/p>\n<p>Reed says that on this album, \u201cMaybe there\u2019s no bumper-sticker lyric, or maybe there\u2019s no T-shirt lyric. Maybe it\u2019s not gonna be relatable to all her fans. But she had to say what\u2019s true for her right now. We had to take care of Lizzo first.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The sun is setting, and it\u2019s starting to get dark inside Lizzo\u2019s house.<\/p>\n<p>The singer, who\u2019s been in a fairly private relationship for years with comedian Myke Wright, moved in here not long ago and hasn\u2019t quite finished decorating yet. Her Grammys sit on a shelf along with some other awards and a photo of her at \u201cSaturday Night Live.\u201d But the furniture is still spare enough that when she laughs, the sound reverberates off the walls.<\/p>\n<p>            <img class=\"image\" alt=\"Lizzo performs in February at the Blue Note in Los Angeles.\"   width=\"2000\" height=\"1424\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/1781093832_602_.jpeg\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>         <\/p>\n<p>Lizzo performs in February at the Blue Note in Los Angeles.<\/p>\n<p>(Christopher Polk \/ Billboard via Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>After a decade, does L.A. feel like home?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s wild, because it doesn\u2019t,\u201d she says. \u201cI think people who move to industry cities for industry don\u2019t call it home for some odd reason. It\u2019s like I\u2019ve been at work for 10 years.\u201d She\u2019s grateful to be here, she adds \u2014 perfect weather, great food, easy access to folks in show business. But she thinks \u201call the time\u201d about where else she might live someday.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI fantasize about living in Texas again,\u201d she says. \u201cI fantasize about Japan a lot, and I fantasize about Paris. I fantasize about Ghana. I fantasize about New Zealand.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You gave a <a class=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.vulture.com\/article\/lizzo-comeback-lawsuit-canceled-zeitgeist-interview.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">pretty revealing interview<\/a> to New York magazine last year where you talked about depression and about wanting to leave your career behind. Do you regret it?<br \/>I\u2019ll say this: I did a lot of press last year when I was in a very vulnerable place. I really needed someone to talk to, and I think I was doing that with journalists and podcasters when I should have been doing that with my therapist. It\u2019s fine, but reflecting on that now is so interesting for me, because I\u2019m like, Oh my gosh, baby, you were hurting.<\/p>\n<p>Does it make you sad to think about that moment in your life?<br \/>No, I\u2019m so grateful \u2014 I learned so much in 2025.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve had a couple songs that did all the big things a song can do. Do you think you\u2019ll have more of those?<br \/>I know I don\u2019t need any more of those. Haters try to talk about charts, and I\u2019m like, \u201cGirl, I did that.\u201d So once you\u2019ve done it, now it\u2019s like, what actually makes me happy? What do I really want to do?<\/p>\n<p>The upside of a Grammy or a No. 1 record is clear. What\u2019s the downside?<br \/>You gain a lot of secret enemies. I understand every rapper now \u2014 I\u2019m like, Tee Grizzley, I get you, bro. People are just mad that you\u2019re successful and mad they\u2019re not a part of it. Even the media \u2014 you know, you\u2019re one of \u2019em \u2014 they love a rise but they love a fall. It\u2019s salacious, it\u2019s exciting, it\u2019s sticky. Then everyone stands back like \u201cThe Hunger Games\u201d and sees if you can get back up again. And you have to get up on your own. No one\u2019s giving you a hand \u2014 not society, not the media, nobody. Then, once you\u2019re up, people might lift you on their shoulders again.<\/p>\n<p>Where are you in that arc?<br \/>I believe I\u2019m up.<\/p>\n<p>Is there anything I could have asked you today that you would\u2019ve lied about?<br \/>Probably me and my man\u2019s relationship. I wouldn\u2019t have lied \u2014 I would\u2019ve just been like [bats eyelashes], \u201cNo comment.\u201d If you ask my friends or my family, I\u2019m a really bad liar \u2014 like Pinocchio level. So I\u2019ve learned to just be like, what\u2019s the best thing I can say about this that doesn\u2019t answer the question? But I like that trait about me \u2014 I like that I can\u2019t lie. Liars kind of scare me.<\/p>\n<p>Seems beneficial for an artist.<br \/>I\u2019m too real \u2014 to my detriment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Lizzo\u2019s assistant is piling suitcases in the entryway of the musician\u2019s home in Los Angeles when suddenly her&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":354580,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[20977,144558,73493,144562,144559,48,52,51,111565,47,50,49,88610,1459,144564,592,144560,144561,144565,144563,72],"class_list":["post-354579","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-los-angeles","tag-baby","tag-bitch","tag-chili","tag-friend-sza","tag-inspiring-thing","tag-la","tag-la-headlines","tag-la-news","tag-lizzo","tag-los-angeles","tag-los-angeles-headlines","tag-los-angeles-news","tag-new-album","tag-part","tag-past-cringe","tag-people","tag-pickle-juice","tag-ricky-reed","tag-sponsorship-deal","tag-stan","tag-year"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/354579","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=354579"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/354579\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/354580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=354579"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=354579"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=354579"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}